Inner Game 101: Changing Your Lack Of Confidence
Posted by Dennis Miedema | Posted in Building confidence, Inner game | Posted on 19-11-2009
Tags: Inner game, lack of confidence, limiting beliefs
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If you’ve been paying any attention during the last couple of weeks and read my other inner game articles, you would know by now that almost all of your inner issues boil down to a lack of confidence.
If you haven’t read the other stuff yet I highly recommend you do so because my articles contain CRUCIAL techniques for getting rid of your limiting beliefs… of the obstacles that stand in your way of getting the success with women, and your social life, that you want.
Here’s a quick summary of what I’ve covered in the inner game department so far:
1) Jealousy – jealousy is a problem of the ego. Men (and women too by the way) automatically assume that once our loved ones are given a choice between us and a potential other mate, they won’t choose us… and that my friend, has lack of confidence written allll over it!
2) Stereotypical attraction – we automatically assume that women are attracted to looks, social status, fast cars and money but here’s the catch: even the guys with looks, lots of status, 6 cars and lots of money think they don’t have enough of it yet. These assumptions about what women are attracted to and that we don’t have enough of it stem from a sense of feeling unworthy, which is a result of not having (enough) confidence.
3) Fear of approaching women – most guys don’t approach a dozen women a day to improve their social and conversational skills… it does not fit into their comfort zone. Your comfort zone is the little bubble of activities and people you feel comfortable doing and comfortable around, but not stepping outside of your comfort zone means getting the same results with women you’ve always been getting: little to one.
Your lack of confidence thus literally stands in the way of getting more results because of AT LEAST 3 reasons… and that’s more results with ANYTHING: women, work, social life, etc.
Do you realize what not doing anything about it means?
Becoming more desperate, more needy, and… over time… even more insecure, which will only work against you when you’re trying to meet and date more women my friend.
But WAIT – it gets worse…
Most of your fears (fear of rejection, of failure, of criticism, etc.) and insecurities are based on limiting beliefs: on bad assumptions about yourself, women, and the world that LIMIT you in your thinking and doing… and which will only PREVENT you from getting what you want.
As such it’s extremely important, no essential… that you tackle and get rid off these limiting beliefs or suffer the consequences.
How to get rid of those limiting beliefs you say?
I’ll show you how to do it with a scientifically proven formula for breaking down the barriers of your own life step-by-step so you can live a limiting belief free life and have as much success with women as you want…
And I’ll show you FOR FREE this Sunday November 22, 2009, at 10 P.M. Amsterdam GMT +1 Time Zone on MSN Messenger. We’ll do a 2 hour long chat session that has everything to do with building confidence and building Rock Solid Inner Game… and with getting rid of those bad beliefs FOR GOOD.
Add the following address I created for this Session on MSN Messenger or Yahoo: winwithwomen@live.nl and make sure you’ll be there at 10 o’clock my time. Want to know how late 10 P.M. Amsterdam time is where you live? Then go to www.timezoneconverter.com to find out, because you do NOT want to miss this one time only, free event!
Let me repeat that: normally men pay me so they can attend a Rock Solid Inner Game Session like this, because the results speak for themselves… I have helped 80+ guys (including myself) during the last couple of years with building confidence from the ground up and with great success:
- Most of the inexperienced cats lost their virginity
- Most of the playboy would-be’s are now at 1 date for every day of the weekend
- Most of the responsible guys are now in healthy, long term relationships after joining one of my Rock Solid Inner Game Sessions…
As you can tell: joining is definitely worth it.
Why do it for free then Dennis?
I’m doing it for free one time only because I want to show the world what I’m capable of and that my scientific formula really works… and I’m also here to genuinely help men improve themselves and their lives, and if they want to become customers afterwards I’m happy… but I’ll be just as happy when they don’t, knowing that I made a difference in the world.
So get ready to join and enjoy the FREE Rock Solid Inner Game Session this Sunday November 22, 2009, at 10 P.M. Amsterdam GMT +1 Time Zone by adding winwithwomen@live.nl as a new Yahoo or MSN Messenger contact.
To More Dating Success,
Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
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