How To Meet Women In Bars
Posted by Dennis Miedema | Posted in Club game, How to meet women in bars, Meeting women in clubs and bars | Posted on 02-02-2010
Tags: Club game, how to meet women in bars, Meeting women in clubs and bars
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This dating article is all about how to meet women in bars. Take a moment to think about the question I’m about to ask you:
What’s one of the biggest “disadvantages” of meeting women in bars according to almost everyone?
The loud music.
Because of the high volume of the music, you’re going to have a tough time with learning how to meet women in bars because the music makes having a normal conversation difficult.
And that’s when you and a woman can actually hear each other, but sometimes the music in a venue is so loud that you can’t hear anything but the music. Does that mean meeting women in bars will be a guaranteed failure?
Hell no… and we can thank more and more governments of the world for that.
Here’s why: no smoking policies are becoming stricter and stricter around the globe. You used to be able to puff a smoke at the airport, but now smoking in public places is off limits or limited to a specific area. Same thing goes for more and more clubs and bars: no smoking inside, please take your but outside with yoru Marlboro and your Camel people.
Now, imagine you were a woman that smoked and you’re forced to stand outside the bar every time you want to smoke a cigarette, how would you feel if you were standing outside?
Pretty damn BORED, because the music is way less present, during the night it’s usually (in most countries) pretty cold outside most of the time and you have nothing better to do than to stand there with your cigarette.
I call that a goldmine my friend because:
- The women outside are bored
- The volume of the music outside is naturally much lower
- The number of guys competing for a woman outside is way, way less than compared to when you go back into the club or bar
There you go: 3 things that make approaching smoking women a whole lot easier these days.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a smoker and only smoked for like two weeks in my entire life, but I STILL go outside to that “smoker area” when I want to meet women in bars because it’s the easiest place in a bar ever.
So how to meet women in bars that are taking a little smoking break you say? Here are some thing sto say…
How To Meet Women In Bars
Technique #1: Asking For A Cigarette
Her (they almost always give you one): “here you go!”
And then you put her cigarette in your picket, give her your biggest smile and say “Thanks! But are you really that easy to fool? Just because I asked you for a cigarette doesn’t mean that I’m going to smoke it right now. Bye!”
Is there any way to tease a smoker better? I don’t think so. But I’ve got some way better dating techniques in store for you pal, because there’s always the debate.
How To Meet Women In Bars
Technique #2: The Debate
You can bet your ass that more and more countries will be making clubs and bars off limits for smokers if they haven’t done so already, and that alone gives you several things to talk about with women.
Remember SARS? The Mexican fly? Who doesn’t and there’s a high chance another so called super dangerous disease will be launched next year. Use it, debate style!
Almost every smoker is pissed about having to stand outside of the club or bar when they want to smoke like he/she is some outcast or something. An easy way to cash in on this fact is sinply by debating it with women.
Make a playful comment about it: “Jeez… and then they wonder why so many people got infected with the Mexican flu, with all of us smokers having to stand outside half the evening.”
Simply talking with a woman about how you disagree with it and what you would do to the guy that invented this stupid anti-smoking indoors law will give you more than enough ways to start a conversation. Then it’s only a matter of creating attraction after that.
If you want to learn how to meet women in bars, you wouldn’t mind me telling you about another hot spot to meet women in bars would you?
How To Meet Women In Bars
Technique #3: The Lounge Area
Next time you go out, I want you to pay close attention to what you see when you enter the lounge area. Usually it’s one of three things:
1) Guy and girl who want to make out and should get a room, but chose the lounge area instead (those perverts)
2) Woman who’s tired of all the dancing and drinking and needs to sit down for a while
3) Woman who’s not really that in the mood for going out, but she went anyways or her female friends dragged her along and now she’s trying to stare her evening away or something like that.
I don’t recommend you interrupt those perverts, but I do recommend you approach a woman who falls into category number 2 or 3. Oeh… did I forgot to mention that the lounge area is usually a lot more quiet than the rest of the bar of club? It means you can talk with a woman better than anywhere else.
A woman who’s tired is easy to approach, because the fact that she’s tired gives you a whole lot to work with when you want to create attraction: you can tease her by accusing her of being drunk (why else would you sit here down and out lady?), of having had 12 tequilas already, you can suspect her in good fun of hiding from the dancefloor because she sucks at dancing, and the list goes on and on. Playful teasing creates attraction, so go for it I would say!
A woman who’s not really in the mood is bummed out about something: a bad hair day, she’s having her period, she got into a verbal confrontation with the parents, her man just broke up with her. You name it.
Whatever’s the case, she came to the bar with hopes of having a good time but she herself failed to do so. Do you know what that means? It means that if you can turn the tables around and give her the night of her life, she won’t forget it for a looong time.
You can simply go over there and tell her that she looks like she’s bummed out, try and ask her why and see if she speaks up, and whether she does or doesn’t you can tell her you know just the thing to cheer her up… and you go dancing with her, or tease her half to death. Whatever you want, because if you cheer her up? You’re in!
I hope you learned a heck of a lot about how to meet women in bars after this dating article and I highly recommend you check out my other dating articles on this site about creating attraction because they’ll help you no matter where you go.
To More Dating Success,
Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
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