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How To Improve Your Social Skills So You Can Get As Many Friends As You Want…

Dennis Miedema — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 20:28:29 +0000

Everybody always wants to know how to expand your social circle, but you FIRST need to learn how to improve your social skills to do that. Makes sense, right? But how do you do it then?

How do you improve your social skills? That’s what this blog post is all about.

In previous blog posts I talked about how to expand your social circle and meeting women through your social circle thanks to your lifestyle, but today we take a step back…

Why?

Because I can talk about expanding your social circle all I want, but if you don’t know how to talk to people then it’s all worthless. Sure I can show you the best ways to make friends, but if you SUCK at making new friends? Then it’s all worthless.

Take me for example. My best friends used to be books… and then movies and the videogames I played on my Xbox. I’ve come along way from that to befriending the most popular people in town. At first making new friends was hard. It was difficult.

Have you ever felt alone because you didn’t have that many friends? Have you ever felt bored out of your freaking mind because none of your friends could hang out while you had nothing to do? Then pay attention…

Because the tips below will help you on your way to make new friends, even if you have ZERO friends right now.

So if you want to improve your social skills and get as many friends as you want? Then dude, welcome to my wonderful world of tricks to start doing that! Let’s take a look…

How To Improve Your Social Skills Tip #1: The Minute Mission

Have you ever noticed that every time you’re in a store and someone talks to the guy or woman behind the counter, that the conversation never lasts more than a minute?

No? Then start paying more attention, damn!

These wannabe conversations are nothing more than playing polite, because the conversation never goes any further than:

“Busy day?” or “How’s your day going?” Or it’s some useless comment about the weather or what you’re buying. Bad news my friend: it’s very likely that you’re playing polite all the time. Stop doing that!

If you want to improve your social skills, then you need to get better at the art of conversation. You need to get a feel for what topics and what comments people respond well too.

Once you know that, then people in general will respond to you in a much more positive way. They will like you more. They will become your friends much more easily if only you just keep talking and agree to talk again soon.

That’s all there is to it.

So you need to go on a more than a minute mission. Mission briefing:

Every time you go to a store to buy something? Talk to the person behind the counter longer than a minute. Talk for as long as you possibly can and until the people waiting in line almost want to bitchslap you out of the freaking store so they can pay for what they’re buying.

Same goes for school, college, work, the bus station, and even social events like birthdays and parties. Sitting next to a senior citizen on a bench? Seeing someone who’s sitting or standing somewhere and just looking around with nothing to do?

Then talk your ass off dude! Every conversation in your life should last longer than a minute from now on. Trust me, you need the practice. Talk to as much different people as possible longer than a minute, even if the people themselves look boring.

Why?

The more diverse the kinds of people you’re used to talking to, the easier it becomes to talk to women later on. This is because you’ll be prepared for almost ANY reaction… and you’ll quickly discover that no two conversations with women are the same. So you need to prepare!

No conversation with women is ever the same. Every conversation is different, so the more experience you get with conversations? The better you can improvise and come up with things to say to keep it interesting for the women you’re talking to.

How To Improve Your Social Skills Tip #2: Heavy Talks

The more work you put into your longer than a minute mission, the more comfortable you will feel around people… and the more comfortable you will feel talking to people.

Once you’re comfortable like that it’s time for a bigger challenge: seeking heavy conversations. What I mean is talking about difficult topics with people you don’t really know that well.

Why do this? Why seek heavy conversations? Here’s the reason why:

If you want to meet women and then actually date them, then sooner or later there’s a conversation about sex pretty early on, maybe even BEFORE the first date. Most people are not comfortable talking about it, but you need to feel comfortable about it or your job of getting dates becomes much more difficult. I guarantee it.

Women also have a habit of doing an “interrogation” when they’re interested in you: they start firing one question after another at you to see if they should be MORE or LESS interested in you. The “interrogation” usually happens during the first conversation after you get a woman’s phone number, email, Facebook, or any other form of contact information.

She could ask about politics, your ex(es), about what you want to do with your life. Tough questions. Difficult conversations. Do you see now why it’s smart to get used to having difficult conversations?

So how do you take this next step? How do you become comfortable with talking about topics like sex, exes, politics and other heavy stuff?

Here are some good starting points for you:

1) Most men hardly ever talk about sex with their male friends… and if they do? They’re bragging about how they screwed some chicks brain out, but nothing more. No explanations of techniques or anything. Start talking about sex with your friends and go in-depth: how do you do this or that? What do you enjoy most? What’s the worst thing that ever happened to you? Etc.

2) Politics and religion always lead to heated discussions. Try to find people with a DIFFERENT political point of view and/or a different religion and discuss what you believe and what they believe.

3) Talk to much older people about intimate topics. Here’s the deal: would you feel awkward if you discussed sex with your grandfather? Off course you would! That’s why having conversations about intimate topics like sex, exes, love, etc. with much older people helps you get comfortable talking about intimate stuff more than anything else.

Yes, it’s challenging to talk about heavy and intimate stuff with people you don’t know that well. That’s why you’re doing it…

Don’t believe me? Think about it: 9 out of 10 times you won’t know a woman you want to date well.

If you practice talking about heavy and intimate topics, you’ll be more than ready for it when a woman mentions sex or exes or whatever… OR… you can start talking about it yourself.

Here’s a juicy secret: women expect men to not be that open about intimate stuff. Women expect men to hide or only reveal a part of their feelings. Women expect men to not talk that much, and especially not about heavy topics. Then you come around… and guess what happens? Attraction happens! Why?

You’re a guy who talks openly about everything, who shares his feelings, who can talk for hours. You will instantly stand out from all other men a woman will have met. She will see you as a very confident guy, only because you can talk about everything with her. She will love you for it!

And in case you’re just looking to make more friends: you still need to get comfortable talking about heavy and intimate topics. Why? Because truly social people can talk about anything with anyone for as long as they want. Be one of these truly social people starting today!

Improve Your Social Skills By Improving Your Confidence 1st

Time out! Let’s not go too fast here.

Listen, if you are now where I was back in January 2003… then you may be a little people shy. You may have social anxiety where you’re not only afraid of approaching women, but afraid of talking to total strangers as well. That’s okay. You can fix this… by improving your confidence.

And I just want to say: I’ve been there. Everyone has his insecurities. I used to be insecure about my incredibly bad eye-sight that forced me to wear glasses throughout high school. What are you insecure about?

No matter what you’re insecure about and no matter how people shy you are? I can help you thanks to my knowledge of human psychology. Inside my Inner Game newsletter you will discover how to instantly improve your confidence, get rid of your people shyness, and more thanks to a psychology technique called “Mind Lines”…

So if you want to improve your confidence, then definitely check out my daily Inner Game newsletter with free tips right away.

Moving on…

How To Improve Your Social Skills Tip #4: Dale Carnegie

We’ve covered a lot of ways to get comfortable with having a conversation with everyone about any topic. Just imagine how this improves your social skills: you can become friends with the coolest people you’ll see all around you, because you can now talk about anything with them…

There’s one more important insight from self help guru Dale Carnegie I want to share with you.

This one comes straight out of his masterpiece How To Win Friends & Influence People:

“Everyone you will ever meet is your friend, because there are only friends and future friends…”

Don’t worry: this is NOT a hippie, “we love peace” type statement about how you should love Mother Nature. This is VERY practical advice. See everyone as friends and future friends. Why?

1) If you really start believing in this mindset, then you’ll see everyone as friendly. This motivates you to help more people. Since people like to help you when you’ve helped them, you will make more friends. It’s a do a favor and get a favor world my friend.

2) Read the Dale Carnegie quote again. Now think about what you have always done when a woman rejected you: you walked away all frustrated. Instead of taking it personal that you’re not right for her, why not befriend her? The woman who rejects you is your future friend… because maybe your future friend has a friend that IS right for you…

3) The first law of social circle mastery is: you’ll never know who people know. Maybe that old lady you were talking to in the partk has the hottest grand daughters ever. Maybe her son can hook you up with a job. You just never know, know what I’m saying? Everyone can be a benefit to your life, you just don’t know how yet. It’s your job to find out. That’s why everyone’s your friend.

Do you realize the benefits of seeing the world as a bunch of friends and future friends now?

Great! I knew you would. You’ve learned quite a lot in this blog post dude! Don’t believe me?

Check out all the amazing stuff you’ve learned about how to improve your social skills just now:

- How to feel more comfortable around people
- How to feel comfortable talking to people in general, and total strangers in particular
- How to feel comfortable talking about heavy and intimate topics, even with women
- How to get over people shyness, social anxiety, or whatever you want to call it
- How to use the mindset of everyone is your friend or future friend to improve your social skills

Okay, so before I end this blog post I have to admit something:

I’m a caffein junkie, but if you have been reading my other blog posts than you already knew that. Say it loud: I’m a caffein junkie and I’m proud… or something. But here’s the real news:

I used to always… ALWAYS drink my cup of black gold (coffee) to satisfy my sick need of caffein. Until recently. Recently my supermarket ran out of coffee. Can you believe that sh*t? So I was forced to settle for drinking energydrink. The fuckers!

Without thinking about it I grabbed this red and black half a liter can of energydrink with a flame on it. It’s called Burn, but I thought that was just a silly brand name like Nike or Adidas. Until I drank that biatch: caffein burned through my system like CRAZY! It was unbelievable. I was shocked.

This Burn stuff is stronger than the coffee I make. And that tells you something. It tells you a lot. I’m drinking this Burn stuff from now on, because the caffein levels in it are INSANE. Long live caffein!

Okay I should really shut the hell up now. I hope you liked these tips for how to improve your social skills… and I’ll talk to you soon in yet another blog post filled with the awesomest dating tips on the planet.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

P.S. Are you a little people shy? Do you feel uncomfortable when you’re talking to total strangers… or when you’re talking to women? Then you can use the tips above to get started with feeling comfortable… and if you want even more tips? If you want to instantly improve your confidence and know what to say to strangers and women? Then check out how my Inner Game newsletter helps you get social and dating success. It only takes a minute to get your free social tips and dating tips, so check out the newsletter right now.

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Expand Your Social Circle With These 4 Tips To Meet And Date More Women

Dennis Miedema — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 11:55:49 +0000

One of the most important things I can ever tell you is this: if you want to meet and date more women, then expand your social circle. But expanding your social circle has so much more benefits… and guess what? We’ll explore most of them right here in this blog post!

First off, I just want to tell you that what I have always been trying to do with this blog and Win With Women is to give men everywhere on the planet more romantic freedom AND more social freedom:

- The freedom to choose who to date

- The freedom to create a lifestyle that attracts the people and events into your life that make you confident and happy

- The freedom of creating a social circle as big as you want that gives you endless amounts of fun and a way to achieve your goals, no matter what goals you have

That’s what I want to give you. I can almost hear you think: “Why is he telling me this?”

Because when you expand your social circle you will have the 3 freedoms I just described. Once you read my tips for expanding your social circle you’ll realize just how important your circle of friends is for your dating success and for your success in life.

I already talked about meeting women through your social circle in my previous blog about how to improve your lifestyle, but I’ve got even more tips for you! Time to get down to business. Let’s take a look at my tips.

Tip #1 To Expand Your Social Circle: Be Pro-active

Ninety percent of the population on this little rock in space we call planet Earth makes friends in a reactive way. Not good!

Just imagine…

You go to college and so happen to sit next to this dude in Spanish class. This dude starts talking about basketball and as a NBA junkie you react. You discover you two have other things in common as well, so you become friends… but…

What would have happened if you did NOT sit down next to the guy? Chances are he would have never become your friend.

Don’t let this be you: don’t just REACT to the people and events in your direct environment. No. If we use the basketball example then you should pro-actively seek out other NBA junkies.

Be pro-active (still using the basketball example here):

- Find NBA fan clubs and get heavily involved in them: go to all meetings and connect with people
- Go to as many NBA games of your favorite team(s) as you can and talk to the people there
- Get on a forum or in a Facebook group about basketball and get to know the people there

I can almost hear you think: “What’s in it for me? What’s the use? Why befriend pro-actively instead of in a reactive way?”

1) You never know who your new friends know, but they always know women. They always know single women you can meet. Know what I mean?

2) Pro-actively socializing means practising your conversational skills and your social skills. Women talk. Women talk a whole damn lot. So trust me: you NEED the practice.

3) The women at the events or clubs or sites of your favorite pass time. Think about it. Why are they there? They are either with someone or it’s a favorite pass time of theirs. That makes talking to them wayyyyy easier.

Let’s be real here for a second my friend: you need some confidence to say more than 3 words to total strangers, but I’ve got your back with my Inner Game newsletter. It helps you improve your confidence so you can actually start doing the 3 things I just mentioned.

Tip #2 On How To Expand Your Social Circle: Befriend A Connector

What is a connector? Here’s what Wikipedia tells us:

“Connectors are said by author Malcolm Gladwell to be people in a community who know large numbers of people and who are in the habit of making introductions. A connector is essentially the social equivalent of a computer network hub. Connectors usually know people across an array of social, cultural, professional, and economic circles, and make a habit of introducing people who work or live in different circles.”

In my own words: connectors are the people who hook you up.

They’re the ones that introduce you to the boys that have the exam before you need to make it. Hell, they’re probably the most popular people in school.

They’re the ones that introduce you to another guy from the company about a better job while you didn’t see any job vacancies.

They’re the ones that introduce you to a woman that might be your type…

How to find them? First you have to know the two types of connectors:

1) The ultra-social
2) The working connector

The ultra-social
It’s easy to find them, because they always seem to have access to things you’re looking for or would like to have. And off course: they always have people around them because they’re ultra-social.

As soon as you see or hear about “the guy who knows someone who can?” You’re about to meet a connector. Befriend him (or her!), because again: you never know who they know. You don’t know the women he can introduce you to… lots of women…

Since they know people from all walks of life? A connector almost guarantees that you’ll make new friends every time you hang out with them. It’s the fastest way to expand your social circle.

The working connector
The working connector HAS TO socialize. It’s his job. He (or she) is either a DJ, promoter, doorman or bartender. People who have one of these 4 jobs need to expand their circle of friends or they will get less tips. Or … they get fired because they don’t bring in enough money for the clubs and bars they work for.

Befriending a working connector is easy once you know the tricks. You see, most people who go clubbing don’t say more than “Hi!” and which drink they like to the working connector. Go deeper than that.

Next time you meet a DJ, promoter, doorman, or bartender? Say “Hi”, ask how he or she is doing, ask what kind of music is being played and if they like it… and work from there.

Then go to the exact same club or bar a couple of days or a week after that and ask the same stuff, introduce yourself, ask his or her name… and work from there.

Soon you will expand your social circle with a working connector that not only know lots of people and many women, but who can also get you discounts, free drinks, access to the VIP area for free…

As you can see: there are lots of benefits that come with being friends with a working connector!

Here’s a juicy secret: befriend female connectors and especially female working connectors. You want to hear why?

It’s because when you’re in the club and the women there see you having fun with popular women (the connectors), they’ll assume they have competition. Women want what they can’t have just like all humans do, so do you see the benefit here?

Tip #3 To Expand Your Social Circle: Become A Connector Yourself

Connectors have HUGE amounts of social power and not only because they have to be socialize for their jobs or because they like to talk a lot.

No.

Connectors understand a very important principle about how to expand your social circle: “do a favor and get a favor”. And it works just like the entire La Cosa Nostra mafia operation used to run, except for the hardcore crime, murder, and plundering off course.

Because connectors use this principle so well, they don’t even have to be pro-active about meeting new people because new people will find them. Why? Because more and more people want access to the connections that the connector has! OR… they simply want to be just as cool as he or she is.

The moment you start working with “do a favor and get a favor”? You’ll become a connector yourself!

What that means?

It means that you will be able to attract the people and events into your life that you want. I’m not kidding: you will be able to get almost anything you want, because you can use your connections to get it.

Here’s an example of how to use “do a favor and get a favor” to expand your social circle:

- You’re in college and there’s a big geek in your class who most people seem to ignore. But the geek has a skill: downloading top-notch quality movies and burning them on DVDs, so you befriend him. Now every time someone wants to buy a movie they come to you and they owe you a favor.

- One of the guys that got a movie off of you has family that works in a clothing factory. A girl who else gets one of your DVDs works at a restaurant. You ask both of them to respect the favor and give you a discount. Now you know someone who can provide movies, someone for clothing, and someone who can give a guy a discount when he’s on a date in her restaurant.

Do you see how this concept works? You simply look for a skill that someone in your environment has and you give your entire social circle and their friends access to the skill.

Since (as self help guru Dale Carnegie says) everyone’s your master in some area of life? All these people also have skills, so then you can send people to them if they need their skill.

In short: you will grow into someone who knows someone with skill A, someone with skill B, and so on and so on.

Guess what they call these kinds of people? Connectors. Connectors and mafiosi hahaha!

All kidding aside, being someone who has access to all kinds of skills means YOUR life becomes a whole lot easier too when YOU need to get something done.

It also means that expanding your social circle happens on auto-pilot: more and more people will come to you to get A done or to get B done… and so on…

And hey… you can bet your ass that women need stuff done too. A whole lot of stuff! It’s an easy way to meet women.

Tip #4 To Expand Your Social Circle: Simply Say “Hi!”

You’re a regular at more places than you’d think. In case you don’t know: a regular is someone who visits a place often. And you do that with your…

- Your work
- Your college
- Your favorite club

And there are probably many other places where you come often, but these are the best ones because MANY people are regulars at work, college, or clubs.

There you go and think again: “Why is that important?”

It’s important because to expand your social circle, you have to think long term. Here’s what you do.

1) You say “Hi” to ANY woman and ANY man that seems interesting at the places where you’re a regular

2) Next time you go there? Look for all the people you said “Hi” to and you greet them again and ask how their day is going

3) The time after that when you go there? You look for them again and everyone you see you introduce yourself to, ask their names, and invite them for a cup of coffee (or a drink)

It’s real easy to do number 3. Simply say something along the lines of:

“Hi! You know, I never got your name? What’s your name? My name is …. and it’s nice to meet you! I always see you here, and yet we never went and got ourselves a cup of cofee. Let’s change that! Let’s grab a cup of coffee.”

Here’s why saying “Hi” at places where you’re a regular works so well and why you will hear “YES” a lot when you offer to grab a cup of coffee or a drink somewhere:

In Robert Cialdini’s awesome book Influence, he shares a key insight about liking someone. Here it goes:

“We tend to like people who are similar to us more than people who are not so similar to us.”

In my own words: the people you say “Hi” to several times see that you’re in or that you like the same place as they do. That makes you similar to them and because you’re similar to them? It’s easier to BE LIKED by them. It’s easier to become their friends.

Just admit it.

Little did you know that the simple word “Hi” had so much power, right?

These 4 awesome tips about how to expand your social circle I just gave you help you to:

- They help you expand your circle of friends FOR YOU after you break up with your girlfriend and need to get out more. Once you get out more you obviously meet more women…

- They help you quickly build a new social circle when you’ve moved from one city to another city where you don’t know anyone yet. You’ll have new friends (and new women) within weeks!

- They help you practice your social skills and your conversational skills. Once you do that you’re only one step away from creating a circle of friends that introduces you to hot, interesting women

And right about now this EXTREME movie junkie is gonna go ahead and watch himself some movies. I’m thinking about watching the new Predators. Why? Because I loved the first movie with the invisible aliens in the jungle fighting Mister Terminator (Arnold Schwarzenegger) himself. It was freaking awesome!

But you know what? I want to do you a favor right now.

Listen: you may not watch as many movies as I do, but this tip is still something to remember. If you go to www.solarmovie.com you can watch the latest and greatest movies online for free in high quality. I’m not supposed to promote piracy on my blog so I will say this only to please the authorities: please buy the DVD of the movie if you like what you see online.
And hey… remember who gave you these tips to expand your social circle. Remember who gave you the free movies link too.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

P.S. If you want to expand your social circle and be pro-active about meeting new people, to befriend connectors, to become a connector yourself and to quickly talk to total strangers? Then you need to improve your confidence. Hell, it doesn’t hurt to know what to say to people either!

If you want to improve your confidence, work on your social skills, and know what to say to people? Then check out my daily Inner Game newsletter with tips to improve your life.

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How To Improve Your Lifestyle To Meet More Women

Dennis Miedema — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 09:47:32 +0000

Lots of men ask me for tips on how to be more confident so they can get more dates, but have you heard that if you know how to improve your lifestyle… you can meet MUCH MORE women?

I regularly share many tips on improving your confidence inside my Inner Game newsletter, but…

But your lifestyle is important too. Just answer the questions below and you’ll see.

Have you ever…

- Have you ever stayed home because none of your friends had time to go out with you to an awesome club or bar nearby while you wanted to go out? It disappointed you didn’t it? You wanted to meet some women but you couldn’t. It’s frustrating, right?

- Have you ever moved from one city to the next, felt isolated, and noticed that meeting women was suddenly much more difficult because you didn’t know where to go? First you seem to know everyone and then your life seemed to be pretty damn empty…

- Have you ever had a period in your life where you didn’t go out much and stayed at home most of the time? Try to think back to that period in your life: could you count the number of friends you had on 1 or 2 hands?

If you have ever been in one of these situations or still regularly get into them, then something’s wrong with your lifestyle. This blog will help you change that, because it’s a shame. What is?

You’re missing many, many opportunities to meet women because of your own lifestyle… and that’s a damn shame!

I can almost hear you think: “Why is improving my lifestyle important in the dating game?”

Scientists once did a research project on the attraction levels of men during the 60s and 70s. You know, the hippie ages.

They wanted to discover why some men were able to sleep with much more and much better looking women than others.

And what they found? What they found was AMAZING…

The scientists were quick to discover that the most attractive men were the men with the most NOVELTY in their lives. The men that did exciting, fun stuff in their free time got the most women.

Better said: the guys with an exciting lifestyle got the most women.

Are you starting to see the big picture here? Are you starting to realize that your lifestyle can help you meet more women?

Look, do you really want to be a guy who stays home during weekends or who spends months or even years on getting his next girlfriend? If your answer is no, then this blog post is for you.

This blog post is all about how to improve your lifestyle to meet more women. In a moment you’ll see how improving your lifestyle has a lot to do with expanding your social circle…

Because the ultimate goal of improving your lifestyle is attracting the people and circumstances that you want into your life. And you need friends to do that: your social circle is the key.

#1 Way To Improve Your Lifestyle: Don’t Fly Solo

Whether you love basketball, soccer, hockey, reading books, or watching movies like me: it doesn’t matter. If you really want to start attracting more women into your life, then flying solo has to go.

What I mean by that is simple: do as little as possible alone. Always invite people and always accept invitations.

Example…

Why read books all by yourself when you can invite friends or women to read or discuss books together? Hey, reading books can be boring but newsflash dude: 80% of the world’s readers are female…

And the more you invite others to join you to do some fun stuff together, the more they will invite YOU.

An important lesson from Dale Carnegie’s book How To Win Friends And Influence People is: you never know who’s going to show up too when you accept an invitation. Maybe it’s your future date or even your future girlfriend.

So never turn down an invitation: always accept, show up, and see who’s there. This way you’ll get to know many fun, exciting people who all know women you DON’T know yet…

Plus, never doing things on your own but doing it all with friends or women means you can practice your conversational skills, your social skills, and so on with everything you do.

If you want to learn how to know what to say to women, then working on your conversational skills and social skills can never be a bad thing right?

#2 Way To Improve Your Lifestyle: Keep Your Type Of Woman Close

There’s something I’ll never understand about 90% of all the single guys out there. I hope you’re not one of them: you go out once in a while, go to a birthday here and there, but you stay single. You hope you’ll find your type of girl somehow some way, but she never comes.

And you’re still wondering why you can’t find a woman that’s right for you? Come on!

If you know what your type of woman is, you should place yourself in as many situations as possible where she would be. It’s that or never finding “miss right”. Here’s what I mean:

- Like sophisticated, intellectual, artsy women? Make sure you spend most of your time in art galleries, museums, on culture trips, and in book stores.

- Like political or activist women? Go to peace rallies, conventions of political parties or debates, or join Greenpeace and similar organizations.

- Like Asian women? Become a member of Facebook groups called Asian pride, befriend Asian people, get your groceries in Asian supermarkets, always eat and possibly get a job in Chinatown, go to parties with Asian DJ’s or Asian themes. The list goes on and on…

Like I said: place yourself in as many situations as possible where YOUR kind of girl would end up in too.

When you start doing this, you’ll DOUBLE your chances of meeting your type of woman. If not more.

Start doing this and it will only be a matter of time until you will meet a hot, interesting, intelligent woman that is just right for you. I 100% guarantee it!

#3 Way To Improve Your Lifestyle: Never Stay Home

This is a BIG ONE. Never stay home when you have free time on your hands. Period.

I know way too many guys who stay home on a Friday or a Saturday because their buddies can’t go clubbing with them. That means they can only go clubbing if they go alone so they never go, because they think it’s weird.

It’s not weird if you show up ANYWHERE alone. It’s weird if you stay alone. Who cares if you need to go to a club or bar alone? You can always make new (female) friends there…

Remember how the social circle game goes?

It’s:

1) Make friends wherever you go and invite your new friends to do fun stuff with you
2) They will be happy to return the favor and they’ll invite you for social occasions
2) You don’t know who else shows up, but there will almost always be new women there…

Are you starting to see how meeting women through your social circle can be a never ending thing when you keep adding people to your social circle? And the best way to make new friends is to… improve your lifestyle with these tips for going out more.

Here’s a funny story: I once had a bit too much Goldstrike (40% alcohol with gold flakes in it) to drink but nothing to do because my loser friends bailed on me and didn’t want to go out. I didn’t want to stay at home, so I took a book about economics as thick as a phonebook to a loungebar downtown. Most of the night is a HUGE black hole in my memory, but I still remember how a pretty dark-haired girl approached me to ask if I was alright.

I playfully commented that although I needed to study for an exam that day, I came to make a statement: being a bookwurm and a party animal at the same time is more than possible. She laughed so hard and told me that was exactly what she was thinking. She studied medicine and had exams coming up as well.

Then I suddenly woke up with sweat dripping down my back and my heart beating like crazy in a strange looking room: gray-colored, papers and books all over the place. I was totally confused and, disorientated as I was, I tried to get up, tripped and fell flat on my face. Ouch! I just tripped over my own Economics book…

I was scared, because this looked like a man’s room! God no! I thought crazy thoughts: “have I been kidnapped by the Chinese organ mafia? Have I been raped by a gay looking for some heterosexual piece of ass? Am I being Punk’d by Ashton Kutcher?”

All the noise I caused made someone run up the stairs and slam open the door. It was the pretty dark-haired girl from the night before asking me if I was alright. I was relieved. No Chinese organ mafia or rapist homosexuals here. Just a girl who spends most of her life studying instead of decorating her room…

But then she asked me if we were in a relationship now that we had sex and if I wanted to meet her parents or not. Red alert! Any woman who asks for a relationship after having drunken sex is a lunatic! But I saw no way to escape and I got nervous. There are just too many crazy psycho b*tches out there who do awful things with a man’s sausage when you make them angry…

So when she walked to the shower and asked me to join her, I told her I would come in a minute. I didn’t know how fast to get the hell out of there! I wanted to get away from that lunatic who expected a relationship and “meet the parents” out of drunken sex. Have you ever tried to run down the street with your pants on your ankles? It’s challenging, trust me!

And it turns out she was a lunatic: she texted me for 3 weeks straight about how she would have her revenge if she would ever find me. And I don’t even remember giving her my number. Needless to say: she still has my book about Economics to this very day!

Moral of the story: you never know what happens when you never stay at home. It’s fun to experience crazy adventures like the one I just shared with you. This kind of stuff only happens when you get out more, even if you feel like nothing special is going to happen.

And now I’d like to throw some questions at you. Please answer these in a comment below:

1) There are 7 days in a week. How many nights a week do you stay home?
2) How many times are you invited for social ocassions? And do you think you can improve that?

And maybe it’s because I’m a total movie slut. Or… maybe it’s because I grew up on the Rambo, Terminator, and Diehard series, but I just have to tell you a thing or two about The Expendables.

It’s the first movie EVER in which Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, and Bruce Willis meet to kick the crap out of some loser dictator and his mindless slaves. I loved the body parts flying around.

I often end up in heated arguments with other movie junkies every time I say there’s something wrong with the movies of today: they’re too soft! I hate wussy movies to death. They make me sick.

The Expendables brought back memories… memories of how a REAL action movie should be: senseless violence where you see enemies being murdered for almost the entire length of the movie!

Hollywood is finally back… but I’ll shut up now and find more ways for you to improve your lifestyle to meet more women.

So more tips for lifestyle improvement coming your way soon…

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

P.S. If you stop flying solo, keep your type of woman close, and never stay at home? You’re one step closer to creating your perfect lifestyle that attracts the circumstances and women into it that YOU want. What the next step is?

The next step is improving your confidence and knowing how to approach people so you’re easily able to make new friends when you do the 3 things I mentioned before. If you want to take this next step, then I highly recommend that you see for yourself how my daily newsletter can help you do that.

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What To Say On A First Date To Get A Second Date And More…

Dennis Miedema — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 18:19:46 +0000

Here’s a juicy secret about what to say on a first date: most guys think that talking too much is something for the ladies. The truth is that ANYONE can make the mistake of revealing too much information. Hell, it’s usually you as a man who says way too much on a first date!

Sometimes you can say the right things, but most of the time you will say stuff that scares women away without knowing it. And then you’ll sit there, frustrated and home alone, wondering why she doesn’t call you anymore.

Do you really want to screw up your first dates because you don’t know when to shut up or what to say? If your answer is “NO”, then you’ll want to read the rest of this blog post…

And this blog post today will be all about what to say on a first date and what you DON’T say. This one will be all about conversational techniques that will help you stop worrying about everything but when to kiss her during the date.

90% of the men out there worry about what to say more than about when to kiss a woman when they’re on a first date. I’m here to change that forever.

So, I just said that sometimes it’s best to stop talking. Let’s first look at the reason why you need to shut the hell up sometimes:

Why Do Men Say Too Much On A First Date?

It’s because women read into details. EVERY detail. They can discover a million things about you just by looking at your clothes and how you’re standing. Why?

It’s because in the days when we lived in tribes, danger was everywhere. Wild beasts that ate women and the kids. Mother Nature with her earthquakes and floods. Groups of plundering cavemen that could rape women, and I don’t know what else.

Imagine how being able to read into details had an advantage back then: noticing the slightest difference meant being better able to survive because you could spot danger sooner. Since women stayed home and watched after the kids while men hunted back then, it makes sense that women are better at reading into details than you and I are.

Remember this next time you’re trying to have a monopoly on talking during a first date…

Remember it? Awesome! And now you know why you need to be quiet sometimes?

It’s time to look at which information you SHOULDN’T and SHOULD say on a first date:

1) Don’t talk about your ex, because it shows you’re not over that b*atch yet. But do talk about the type of woman you’re interested in.

2) Don’t talk about money, because most women don’t fall for money. Most women fall for personality and charisma, so don’t even try to impress women with that crap. The only thing related to money that women love talking about is shopping.

3) Don’t talk about ANY negative aspect of your life, because if you already do that on the first date women will think it’s just a “preview” of the hell that is your daily life. Do talk about positive stuff in your life: hobbies, passions, likes, dreams, etc.

I would say this is a good start to not screwing up first dates for yourself by saying the wrong things.

And now it’s time for me to share a great “conversational technique” with you. Call it “leaving something for dessert.” It has to do with what you DON’T say on a first date…

You won’t believe how many men sit there and talk for hours and hours with women during a first date. Sure, that can be fun sometimes, but why do that if you want to get a second date?

Think about it: if you share everything there is to know about you the first time, then what the hell are you going to say on a second date? And third? And a fourth date?

So leave some mystery for her. Tell her a lot, but not everything. Leave that for next time.

Why do this?

Because most men give in to women: they do everything they can to “get the girl”, which makes them boring. By letting her work to get to know you better, you’re not like those losers who kiss ass. You’re hard to get. Women love hard to get.

Got another juicy secret for you: the human brain tends to fill in the blanks when you give it incomplete information. Usually our brain fills in the blanks with wishful thinking: the way you hope things to be.

By not revealing all the information about yourself, you let her brain do all the work FOR YOU because of how the human brain operates.

In short: she likes you more because you didn’t tell her everything and she can’t do anything about it. Don’t you just love psychology!?

I like where we’re going with this blog about what to say on a first date: you now know why talking too much can ruin your first date, you’re now able to talk about stuff she likes and which helps you make it to the kiss, you know why “leaving something for dessert” creates attraction, and I’ve got even more first date tips waiting for you…

Here’s Another Tip For What To Say On a First Date…

I think it was self help guru Dale Carnegie who said:

“A poor conversationalist talks about himself all day. An average conversationalist asks questions and lets the other person talk. A great conversationalist listens and then talks about you.”

Words to live by.

The best insight about talking with women I can ever share with you is this: you don’t need to say more than she does. You need to say less on a first date. Why?

- The more you ask questions and then ask follow up questions, the more you seem genuinely interested in her. Meanwhile, she will be talking 80% of the time while you sit there and listen and come across like you’re REALLY into her because you listen with all of your attention.

- The more information she gives you about herself, the more of a connection she feels with you. Think about it: we share all information with our best friends and only some info with colleagues. The more she reveals, the closer she feels to you!

- The more information she gives you, the more things you can use to playfully tease her, be picky about, challenge her with, and so on. Better said: everything she says you can and should use “against” her to create attraction. So be like the cops in movies: keep her talking and then use what she says against her.

Do you see now why it’s better to say less on a first date than she does?

And there’s one more conversational technique I’d like to share with you. It’s so obvious once you hear it, but almost no man talks about it…

When On A First Date, Ask Her About First Dates

Show your confidence here: ask her what her worst first date ever was. Then ask her if she would kiss the guy if she saw him right now and would give her $10 for it.

Stuff like that.

Talk about your and her worst first date, your first date ever, and do that in a playful way.

On a subtle level it shows her you’re confident: you let her know that you don’t take the first date, her OR yourself too seriously.

And that’s what you want to show her, because most men think of the women they’re dating the first time as “she maybe miss right” or “she could be my future girlfriend”.
Meanwhile, women think about first dates very casually: “Let’s just see what happens”.

By talking about previous first dates, you show a woman you’re not a desperate wussy who wants to marry her because the first date was kind of awesome.

Here’s a brief summary of the right things to say on a first date:

- Talk about the type of woman you’re interested in
- Talk about shopping and what you like to shop for
- Talk about positive things in your life: hobbies, talents, passions, likes, etc.
- Don’t talk like there’s no tomorrow, leave some mystery by saving details for later
- Listen more than you talk, then talk about her. Then, maybe, talk about yourself. The more she talks the more you can use to create attraction remember!
- Talk about her and your worst first date and her first date ever in a playful way

Follow these “rules” and there’s no way in hell that you can screw up what to say on a first date!

And now I’d like to ask for a favor: let me know about your first date experiences by posting a comment below. Tell me:

1) Have you ever shared too much information on a date? What happened?
2) Which “rule” for talking to women during the first date will you definitely try next time?

But hey, it’s about time for me to flee the scene here. One of my buddies dug up this old school Jackie Chan movie where he’s doing his drunken style kung fu thing.

I love movies and martial arts movies especially, so this movie junkie is out! Bye!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

P.S. After NOT screwing up talking to women during a first date, there’s still the part of how to kiss them and how to take them home. I will leave that for another topic before this blog turns into a damn book.

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How To Get Dating Tips For Free

Dennis Miedema — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 20:18:07 +0000

Lots of men in these crappy economic times have asked me: “Dennis, how can I get some free dating tips? I don’t have any money to pay for ebooks or coaching!”

I was poor once too, so I want to help you get dating tips for free!

Why?

Especially during my vacation in Italy this summer I saw so much poverty. People living on the street. So many of them. Every damn street had at least 5 homeless people! It made me sad. And angry that no one helped them.

These bums had broken teeth, their clothes were torn apart. They smelled like they took their last shower 10 years ago… and no one helped them.

I was poor in the past, so I know. I know what it’s like to WANT something so bad but to NEVER get it because you can’t afford it. It makes a man desperate.

It made me realize that getting help with women and dating can be the same like living on the street: everybody CAN help you, but they don’t… because you don’t pay them. They don’t get anything in return, so why help? I don’t want to be like that…

That’s why I’m writing this blog today: to help you without expecting ANYTHING in return. If you can’t afford to pay for dating tips, I have some GREAT news for you…

You can get AND share free dating tips inside the Win With Women Community.

The what!?

The Win With Women Community, which is like a forum on STEROIDS. Check it out HERE

You can start topics and ask for help, give help by replying to topics and so on… just like on a regular dating tips forum.

The only difference is that those regular dating tips forums like Venusian Arts, Pick Up Artist Forum, the Askmen.com forum, and others stop there.

But the Win With Women Community? It goes further and helps you meet more women faster, better, more easily, and in a way that’s much more fun!

How Does The Win With Women Community Help You Better Than Those Boring, Lame, Dusty Old Forums Of The Past?

- It allows you to share questions, ideas, problems, and praise with your friends on Twitter and Facebook. You will be their hero for sharing all those secret dating tips about meeting women for free. That means at least 2 free drinks for you next time it’s boys night out!

- It allows you to get email updates when someone replies to a question, problem or idea you have. That means you DON’T have to wait for days or weeks until you can solve your problem with women… AND… you will know there is help waiting for you within hours!

- Whenever you have a question about women, dating, me, my products, or my coaching? You can ask it on almost every page of the Win With Women site! More and more pages now have Feedback buttons that allow you to get and share dating tips on the spot. Real easy.

And the list goes on and on…

But let’s take a step back. I have a simple but IMPORTANT question for you…

Don’t You Just Hate THESE Things About Today’s Dating Forums:

1) There’s no respect for beginners. No respect for guys who are just getting started with learning about women and themselves. Too many egos, too little help.

2) When you have a question for a dating guru? One of his “instructors” (slaves) answers it or someone else does. You almost never get a guru’s answers. How lame and gay

3) When you say something that goes AGAINST the opinion of a dating guru or share an idea that criticizes a guru? You’re banned and can never join the forum again. How insecure of him and frustrating for you!

I don’t think you need to accept ANY of this sh*t from other dating coaches, not even me if I should get a HUGE ego in the future. You want help from people like you, not people with their heads up their own ass, right?

The Win With Women Community is different than the old forums because I LOVE beginners who are starting to learn about women, me the dating guru personally answers as much questions as possible, and I NEVER ban you for having an opinion. I LOVE opinions!

So if you want to meet more women faster, more easily, while having lots more fun? Then the Community is the awesomest place for you to learn how to meet women. And remember: all that dating tips will be FREE.

So there’s really no reason NOT to become a member of the Win With Women Community. But I have to warn you: it’s not for everyone!

It’s only for guys that want to get AND share free dating tips with other guys and me. There’s no place for greedy bastards in my Community.

It’s also not for the weak or for men who easily cry: some feedback on problems may be confronting, but sometimes you need the brutal truth. Can’t handle it? Then never become a member!

But if you think you CAN share and get dating tips? If you think you CAN handle confronting feedback? If you think you deserve the honor of becoming a member?

Then become a member of the Win With Women Community by CLICKING HERE

Time for some questions I want to ask you. Please answer the questions in a comment. A comment only takes a minute of your time!

1) What do YOU think makes a good forum or community? What is your definition of a good forum?
2) What do you miss on the old and boring dating forums and pua forums that already exist?
3) Are you on any of the dating forums or pick up artist forums? Which ones?

And now I seriously need some f*cking coffee! Yes, I know, I am using lots of foul language today, but can you blame me?

I just got sick after getting home from vacation because the temperature difference was too large for ANY normal human being to deal with.

The vacation wasn’t all bad though: me and my girlfriend definitely set some kind of record for bedroom workouts, the culture there was awesome (the Vatican is truly impressive)… and the food?

Drewl, drewl! May I recommend gnocchi, fettucini, bucatini, and pizza diavola?

Anyways, I’m off to grab my cup of cocaine… uhh I mean coffee!

Enjoy the free dating tips inside the Win With Women Community and remember: we’re just getting started with this, so there will be more and more dating tips in there very soon!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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Brief Blog Break

Dennis Miedema — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 19:13:28 +0000

Hey there, I hope you will enjoy the summer time because I like you! Whether you’re going on vacation or not: make the most of your summer, will you?

I’m going on vacation to Rome, Italy tomorrow and I’ll stay there until the 8th of August. Let’s see if the Romans and Colosseum can handle a Dennis gone WILD because of coffee, hot weather, and movies.

That means there won’t be any new blogs with free dating tips for you during the next 2 weeks…

But don’t worry, because I’ll try to post some short tips on my Twitter and Facebook profiles for you as many times as possible.

My Facebook profile: http://www.facebook.com/dennis.miedema
My Twitter profile: http://twitter.com/denmiew3

I’ll also try to post some photos to Facebook so you can see my crazy adventures with your own eyes.

Try to go on vacation dude, it’s good for you! I will start posting more new blog posts with dating advice for men than ever on Monday the 9th of August and beyond… so come back here then to get more free dating tips!

I don’t want to keep you waiting with improving your life, so next to the short tips on my Facebook/Twitter? Here are some awesome links I’ve collected that you can learn from:

- Self help tips from gurus like Napoleon Hill, Tony Robbins and Dale Carnegie
- Classic writings on attraction, picking up women and seduction
- My Youtube channel with videos about calling women, meeting women online, interviews, etc.

Enjoy these resources about self help and attraction… and I´ll see you after my vacation!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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How To Please Your Girlfriend In Bed – Sex Advice

Dennis Miedema — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 12:06:31 +0000

Today I want to talk about how to please your girlfriend in bed. It’s more than logical for me to start giving sex advice, because what happens if my dating tips help you get a successful date? That’s right… porn-like sex!

But first, let’s get something straight here…

When I say please your girlfriend in bed, I mean the woman you’re in a relationship with for months or years. But I also mean a girlfriend for 1 night…

Hey, I don’t judge dude…

Whether you’re an one night stand man or a relationship man, I don’t care. I’m just the guy giving sex advice.

So, let’s get started with that advice then shall we?

Don’t Ever, EVER… Be A Wussy In Bed

Maybe this sounds obvious, but it’s not. Here’s why…

1) 90% of the men out there today focus on a woman’s pleasure. They want to make sure she has an orgasm, because they think that tells them they’re great lovers.

2) Most regular guys like you and me also ask “does that feel good to you?” and similar questions several times. The worst question to ask in the world: “did you come?” Why so insecure about whether you’re doing the right thing or not?

3) Guys also tend to ask women to change position or to do something, instead of telling women or simply putting them where they need to be.

Have you ever felt like you need to achieve in bed? Ever had problems with getting it up because you felt too much pressure to please a woman in bed?

Don’t lie now, be honest!

The #1 cause of feeling anxiety to achieve in bed is focusing on HER pleasure and on if you’re doing things the right way. That’s when you think too much. Stop overthinking it and start enjoying it!

And the 3 mistakes in bed I told you about before can be summarized in one sentence: don’t try to get approval from a woman in bed. It turns her off BIG TIME.

Don’t ask anything and tell women what to do in bed. Hell, don’t even tell them and physically put them where they need to be. Want a different position? Take her hand and put her in that freaking position!

Why?

Women want to meet and date “real” men: dominant, non-approval seeking, confident…

And if they want that with dating already, they REALLY want it in bed. Women don’t want a wussy in bed, ever. They want a gentleman on the street and a beast in the bed just like we want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed…

So if you want to please your girlfriend in bed?

- You don’t ask, you do
- You don’t focus on her pleasure (too much)
- You don’t think about sex or during sex, you enjoy the damn moment

Doing these 3 simple things and knowing why is the first step to pleasing your girlfriend in bed. Hell, it’s the first step towards having pornstar-like sex!

And YES! I said the first step, because there’s more…

How To Last Longer In Bed

I have always wanted to last longer in bed. I’ve been practising it for years and I have much sex advice to share with you to please your girlfriend in bed…

And although women usually don’t climax just by having sex, they really enjoy having it! That’s why it’s not a bad idea to try and last longer in bed.

Here are several ways to do it:

1) The moment you feel like you’re almost going to climax? STOP! Take your penis out of her and leave it out of there for 10 seconds. Then go back in. We can only climax with continuous stimulation. Those 10 seconds are just long enough for us to need stimulation from start to finish again. In short: you will last longer in bed with these extra seconds.

2) Different positions require different amounts of effort. Don’t be stupid by doing her while standing and then going doggystyle. Why is that being stupid? Because you need lots of energy and a muscular sixpack for both positions. You will get tired or get cramps and that’s a sure fire way to screw the sex up. No climax then buddy! So switch it up: go from a position that’s physically heavy for you (doggy) to one that’s heavy for her (her on top facing you), back to heavy for you again… and so on. That way you can last much longer in bed…

3) Different positions stimulate you and her in different ways. You feel a different sensation when you have sex doggystyle than when she’s riding on top of you. Because you’re stimulated in different places, you can last longer in bed by switching positions. Positions that stimulate different things (than the missionary position): doggy, standing up with her back towards you, her on top, her on top with her back towards you, sideways while laying on the bed, with her legs over your shoulders, etc.

NOTE: I just gave you sex advice for lasting longer that doesn’t have anything to do with breathing, meditation, tantra or any of that other stuff on purpose. Why? because for most people it’s a little “out there” to start talking about chi and whatever.

Stop being a wussy and start doing these 3 things in bed I mentioned above and you’ll be much better at pleasing your girlfriend in bed.

And remember: don’t overthink it, enjoy it!

Once you start doing this?

- You will feel no more pressure to achieve in bed and can finally relax and enjoy the sex
- You will know exactly how to please your girlfriend in bed
- You will last much longer in bed

In short: follow my sex advice and you’ll have better sex for a longer period of time!

Please answers these questions for me by posting a comment below:

1) Which sex tip is the most useful tip for you and why?
2) Do you have any sex advice to share with the world? Tell us!

And now if you’ll excuse me?

This movie abuser is going to watch The Matrix for the fourth time now.

No matter what you think of action movies, only a dumb ass would NOT admit that The Matrix raised the bar for all action movies: an incredibly deep story, awesome graphics and slow-motion bullet time…

It makes me want to please my girlfriend in bed in slow-motion to see what happens… just kidding!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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The Calling Women and Texting Women Newsletter

Dennis Miedema — Sun, 18 Jul 2010 11:54:35 +0000

“Did You Know That Most Men FAIL To Date Women Not Because They Can’t Approach, But Because They Can’t Get A Phone Number Or Ask Women Out Over The Phone? That’s Finally Over Now With My Tips For Calling Women And Texting Women!”

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How long should you wait with calling a woman after you get her number? You’ll be surprised to find out why you should NOT wait several days with your call. Once you understand, you will turn more and more phone numbers into actual dates with hot, interesting, and fun women who are eager to date a man like you…

How do you talk to women over the phone? How do you create attraction during a phonecall? I’m about to share ALL the secrets I’ve “stolen” from callcenters as a customer service agent that make people like you when you call. This makes women (and people in general) call you back several times because they had so much fun with you over the phone!

How do you ask women out over the phone? What do you do if they say “NO”? Learn how to get a date when you call her without making it sound forced or pushy. Getting a date when you call will become as easy as taking a shower in the morning thanks to a simple psychological secret…

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But… my tips for calling and texting AREN’T for you when you can’t approach women at all. Think about it: there is no phone number without first walking up to a woman and getting it. The secrets I’m about to share with you are only useful if you AT LEAST have the guts to walk up to a woman and start talking to her…

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Feminism Is Wrong: It Ruins Your Chances With Women…

Dennis Miedema — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 21:54:08 +0000

The latest news: several Dutch feminists have hated on me these past couple of weeks with personal attacks and more! I think it’s time for a reply… learn why feminism is wrong…

Why are these feminists hating on me?

Because I give you dating advice, which they call “learning men how to manipulate women”. That must be the biggest lie and BAD ASSUMPTION I’ve heard in my ENTIRE life.

They must have lots their damn minds, wouldn’t you agree?

I encounter dozens of guys suffering from a severe male identity crisis on a daily basis… I see them in clubs and bars, on the streets, in schools, in the workplace…

These guys simply don’t know what being a man actually means! Hell, they fear women won’t like them if they display the characteristics that make men masculine.

They think it’s bad to do the stuff that makes men attractive in the first place.

Have you ever felt like you don’t know what being a man actually is? Ever feared that women don’t like you if you stop caring about their opinion?

I’m willing to bet that your answer is YES, but do you know why you’re thinking this way?

It’s because FEMINISM scared you into thinking this way. That’s why I think feminism is wrong: it ruins your chances to get women and you don’t even know it!

An example:

You don’t do anything when you see an interesting women. Why? Because you think she won’t like you when she realizes you approached her with sexual intentions…

What made you scared of women who could find out you have sexual intentions?

All the news about sexual harassment, men being chauvinists pigs when they talk to women with intentions and so on… every time women have told you that being dominant is wrong, that taking the lead is bad…

Feminism is almost solely responsible for this fear of approaching. It took them more than 50 years to scare you, but they did it! But there’s more…

Find out below…

Here Are 3 Reasons Why Feminism Has Gone Crazy

1) Feminists think dating advice for men equals turning you into a playboy
2) Feminists assume dating coaches only teach regular guys like yourself techniques to get women
3) Feminists think my way of meeting women is teaching you how to manipulate women

Let’s look at these ridiculous attempts to destroy me and my dating advice one by one…

Feminism Is Wrong #1: Dating Advice Does NOT Turn Men Into Players

Feminists assume that because I give you dating advice that I’m only trying to teach you how to disrespect women, manipulate women and be a player.

They tell you getting dating advice is wrong because players taking advantage of women are wong.

This makes you either hesitate or refuse to ask another man for advice on women and dating…

But dating advice and players are NOT related damn it! These haters inside the feminism movements shouldn’t be so narrow-minded.

They also claim I’m trying to make you believe that being yourself is wrong.

These claims of the ladies are all lies because:

- I teach you how to get a girlfriend… OR… how to get more experience with women without breaking any hearts. In short: no players to be found here, just men improving their lives.

- I teach you how to reach your full potential with women and in life. I DON’T teach how to be something or someone you’re not, hell, I am AGAINST routines for getting women. They’re fake.

Assuming that dating advice equals turning men into playboys is like saying all feminists are lesbians. Don’t stereotype me OR my fans and customers or I will stereotype you feminists.

You as my fan and/or customer deserve respect, so anyone who doesn’t treat you with respect gets a blog post just like this that burns them down to the ground!

Feminism Is Wrong #2: Not All Dating Coaches Are About The Techniques

It’s funny to me how some in the feminism movement assume that as a dating coach I only teach men techniques to get women.

But the brutal truth is:

I’m teaching you how to improve your life: your confidence, your social circle, your conversational skills, and your success in the dating game.

Teaching men how to meet and date women is only a small part of the whole ladies

And one more thing…

Us men LIVE on techniques, but only to understand how things work. As soon as I’ve shown you WHY ABC works with women and how, you can take care of things on their own.

That’s why I teach you techniques for meeting and dating women as training wheels that disappear with experience…

Hell, I always tell my customers: don’t be a Dennis clone, be you. Only I can do me, so you do you. I give you tips for getting women in YOUR situation. I give tips that fit YOUR personality…

And I’ll keeping giving tips until you learn how to meet and date women yourself.

And there you go: I just busted the myth feminists spread that I never give enough tips so I can keep getting paid by single men such as yourself.

To me a successful fan or customer is someone who doesn’t need me anymore because he can be himself and easily get ANY woman without my help. I want YOU to be like this!

So I have to disappoint a whole bunch of feminists here: sorry, I don’t teach men how to be technique using robots that don’t have a genuine interest in women. Losers like Ross Jeffries teach that, but I don’t…

But maybe you ladies try to teach your husbands how to behave so they never annoy you anymore?

That’s typical of feminists: always trying to change men instead of accepting us for who we are.

Feminism Is Wrong #3: Learning How To Meet Women Is NOT Manipulation

There once were these annoying, frustrated women called power feminists who thought that dating advice for men is about trying to make women like us men…

And then I, Dennis Miedema, came and said this:

A guy sees a beautiful woman he feels he has to meet, so he walks up to her and the two start talking. He asks for her number and takes her out on a date. At the start of the date he buys the woman flowers… and THAT is manipulation.

Why?

Would give your best friend flowers? Then why are you giving women flowers? To make them like you. You’re getting flowers to manipulate women into liking you or approving of you…

You giving women flowers, candy, dinners at fancy restaurants and so forth? THAT is manipulation…

But learning how to meet women is about reaching your full potential so women like you for who you are:

- A confident guy who can make women laugh
- A guy who doesn’t take himself too seriously
- A guy who can be himself around women

How is that manipulation?

Hell, I truly believe the manipulation of women actually STOPS when I teach men how to meet them, so all you haters inside the feminism group out there?

You ladies better take a second look at what you said. It was ignorant, hateful and based on opinions and not facts. Get off your ass feminists… and read a book.

Geoffrey Miller’s – The Mating Mind for example. Read it. It explains you girls what my advice is based on: facts… and not a hate against women.

So, next time you feminists open your mouth to vomit personal attacks at me?

Remember one thing: do not f*ck with me!

That goes for anyone else attacking me without reason or facts… I will blow you away with facts about the dating game. If you step to me you better step correct.

You made me angry by disrespecting my fans and customers and claiming they’re robots, mindless zombies and I don’t know what else. Don’t do that anymore. I defend my people!

Back to you, my dear fan and/or customer:

I have some questions for you that I want you to answer in a comment. Post your comment with the answers below:

1) Were you ever scared of what would happen when a woman you approached would find out that you had sexual intentions?
2) Have you ever felt like you don’t know what being a man is or should be?
3) What do you think about feminism about reading this blog post?

And know the biggest coffee drinker in the Netherlands (that’s me!) is going to drink some more of his black gold with extra sugar… Yummie!

I hope this blog post makes you think about how you’ve been influenced into believing certain things by certain groups in society.

And I also hope you sign up for my daily newsletter below, because it’s filled with more thought provoking tips and insights about meeting and dating women.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
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How To Text Women: When Do You Text And When Do You Call?

Dennis Miedema — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 11:55:01 +0000

A lot of men ask me the following question about how to text women: when do you text women and when do you call women? They ask me because don’t want to miss going on a great date because they make a mistake…

Do you want to miss a date because you didn’t text women in the right way? No?

Yeah… I thought so! And the first thing I’ll tell you about how to text women is…

DON’T text women INSTEAD OF calling them after you got their phone number.

Why?

Because it makes you look insecure as hell!

Sure, texting someone is WAY easier than calling them. Although texting usually takes longer than a quick phonecall? It requires less energy. Thinking along those lines? Texting seems to be the smart thing to do after you get a woman’s number…

But a woman will think: “Why doesn’t he have the guts to call me? Is there something wrong with him? Or was he not that interested in me?”

In short: if you text women the first time instead of calling them? You’re seen as an insecure wussy or an asshole who’s not genuinely interested in them.

Can you guess what that means?

It means that if you text women the first time without giving them a good reason, you will ruin your chances with them.

Even if you stutter, get nervous or feel uncomfortable as soon as you try to call women? Calling the first time is always better than texting.

Calling a woman to ask her out on a date always beats texting:

1) It’s more personal (you hear each other’s voices)

2) It’s faster (sending 10 text messages takes half an hour to an hour, but talking for 10 minutes over the phone… takes 10 minutes!)

3) You can hear when it’s a good time to ask her out and when it’s not (and with text messages you have no idea of what’s happening around her)

How To Text Women: What IS A Good Time For It Then?

The best time I know to text women is when they don’t pick up the phone when you call them.

This is especially true for the first time you contact a woman after getting her number: no one answered the phone? Then start sending text messages!

Why is this the best time?

If you text a woman a day or several days after calling her and she texts you back, guess what that tells you?

The moment she texts you back is the moment she’s available. That means you can CALL HER. So, wait for 1 minute and call her. It’s more personal, faster, and it makes getting dates easier.

Do you see what’s happening here?

Instead of having to guess when a woman is available to talk to you over the phone, you will KNOW when she is available.

That means you can use text messages as a TEST to see if you can call a woman to ask her out on a date. How awesome is that?!

This technique has never failed me yet, simply because if a woman is NOT available she doesn’t text back.

The advantages of using text messages as a test to know if you can call:

- You won’t feel insecure anymore by calling women several times without knowing if they’re not available or not interested when they don’t answer the phone

- You won’t feel frustrated anymore because you have no idea when it’s a good time to call women. You’ll know exactly what time is best: as soon as they text you back.

How To Text Women: Another GREAT Time To Text…

Women sometimes have strange habits. This is where you start noticing how different women REALLY are.

This is the MOST IMPORTANT secret about when women text men…

Whenever women are at a social ocassion (a birthday, a party, a wedding, etc.) they always end up texting the person they like the the most. This is especially true if they’re bored or NOT enjoying themselves.

They also do this when they’re at work or school by the way. Whenever they’re bored or somewhere they don’t want to be? They text the people they think about first.

So if a woman texts you and says she’s at some social ocassion, can you guess what that means?

It means she’s interested in you and wishes you were there with her!

Would it be a good idea to text women just after they indirectly let you know they’re interested in you?

Do I even need to answer that question for you? Forgot everything I told you about how to text women?

Text her back RIGHT AWAY. Doesn’t even matter what you text back either, because you’ll create attraction just by responding to her interest in you.

And now on a lighter note: there is one more moment in time that’s EXCELLENT for texting women… want to know when? Then the photo below will tell you exactly when…

When to text: when people force you to turn off your f*cking phone, that’s when!

And now I want to ask you some questions. Please answer these by posting a comment below: I love to hear your opinion and experiences! And now it’s time for this movie maniac to go and see Ip Man one more time. Ip man was the man who taught Bruce Lee what he knew. He was Bruce’s master.

1) Have you ever texted a woman the first time you contacted her after getting her number?
2) What do you do to find out if a woman can talk to you over the phone? Will you try my technique of using a text message as a test?

The movie tells the story of how Ip Man survived the Japanese occupation of China and how he started his kung fu school which eventually attracted Bruce Lee…

Martial arts movies rule, especially if they have a story based on history or legends!

Enjoy trying out these tips for how to text women (and when to text)

I’m out of here…

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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Today Is Just TOO Much (8 Hours Left)

Dennis Miedema — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 14:36:02 +0000

Hey dude, I’m sorry…

The site just went crazy because of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program. I guess today is TOO much.

This is INSANE…

The shopping cart that processes your orders was offline for like 15-30 minutes, because of all the freaking visitors!

So if you visited my site and it was offline? If you tried to order but the shopping cart couldn’t handle it?

I sincerely apologize for ANY incovenience this may have caused you. Off course I want you to be able to visit the site and order and YES I expected lots of people to order. BUT…

But the shopping cart apparently didn’t expect everyone! I’m real sorry if you were bothered by it.

And I Just Want To Let You Know…

You have around 8 hours left until the 30+ valuable bonuses from the best dating coaches are gone. You ONLY get these bonuses with you order of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program TODAY.

CLICK HERE to grab your copy of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program right now.

The bonuses are quickly becoming UNAVAILABLE today. There are only 2 guys with bonuses left…

- Carlos Xuma bonuses: GONE
- Formhandle bonuses: GONE
- Simon Heong: GONE
- Shane Stanfield: GONE
- Brandon Rendon (meeting women online veteran)
- Tony Almeida (master of conversational techniques)

If you still want to get ebooks with tons of dating advice from the best dating coaches FOR FREE together with my Program that gives you success with calling women and texting women?

Then order your copy right away by CLICKING HERE

The final bonuses will only be online and available for around another 8 hours… so act fast and click the link above.

And in case you forgot? NO my Calling Women and Texting Women Program is not only about the bonuses some dating coaches are giving away, stupid!

It’s about easily getting women’s phone numbers, calling women, and getting dates during the first phonecall.

It’s about texting women in a way that makes them STALK YOU for more of your time, because they just HAVE TO get to know you better…

Here are some of the benefits my Program gives you:

=> The BIG secret to why ASKING for a phone number ruins your success with women. Then it shows you why TAKING a phone number is much better… and it takes those numbers for you.

=> My Program gives you women’s phone numbers with a word-for-word description of the 3 sentences you need to say. The only time my fans and customers are rejected after using these 3 lines? Is when they’re completely drunk on New Year’s Eve!

=> 2 powerful tactics that gave my close friend David a way to know EXACTLY when to call women. And… at what time of day to call women. 8 out of 10 women he calls pick up the phone!

=> The 5 KEY elements of ANY successful phonecall. After you learn these elements? You’ll always know what to say. You won’t stutter or hesitate while talking either. You will be able to easily call women and get a date within minutes. All without problems.

=> 4 powerful tactics that will get a woman to go on a date with you. These tactics will do it all for you without forcing women to go on a date. By the way: My Chinese friend Han has proven that this stuff works all over the planet. He has become the Hong Kong version of Hugh Hefner!

=> How to treat the 3 types of callers. Many men who fail with calling women don’t know that ALL women behave in 3 different ways when you call them. If you don’t know how to handle each caller type? You can forget about having success with calling women. If you know the 3 types of callers? You go on a date with almost EVERY woman you call, because it’s what I’m doing right now!

=> 3 situations that are PERFECT for texting a woman. They will make her fall in love with you within minutes. That’s how powerful these text messages “out of nowhere” are. Here’s a fun secret: I learned this from seeing what my sister always does when she’s bored…

=> How to know when it’s better to call a woman and when it’s better to text her. Knowing this is TRULY IMPORTANT, because texting her when you need to call will RUIN your chances with a woman

=> Seven strategies for how to send text messages to women. As soon as you start using these 7 strategies when you text women? Women become addicted to texting you, just because they CAN’T WAIT to find out what you will text next…

And much much more…

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And now… it’s COFFEE TIME for this caffein junkie.

I stayed up all night preparing for today and I still have something like 8 hours to beat before today’s a part of history.

And that can only mean one thing: me drinking my cup of black gold with extra sugar. Right after that it’s watching Prince of Persia to get my blood pumping with a good old fashioned action movie!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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2 Bonuses Are Gone… So Be Fast!

Dennis Miedema — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 06:01:03 +0000

Dear Win With Women Junkie,

I promised that if you get the Calling Women and Texting Women Program TODAY (Sunday the 4th of July), you get something special:

Everyone that gets the Program today, gets 30+ EXTRA bonuses from some of the best dating coaches in the world!

I spent weeks on convincing these dating coaches to give some of their dating advice and/or products away FOR FREE. And I did it! But they made me promise that I will not give them away forever… because they need to pay the rent and pay for food on the table too.

It’s now 8 AM in the morning over here in the Netherlands. That means the bonuses Carlos Xuma and Formhandle could have given you are GONE.

More bonuses will dissappear: The bonuses from Simon Heong and Shane Stanfield will no longer be available 8 hours from now…

So quickly check out the Calling Women and Texting Women Program before ALL the extra bonuses are gone by CLICKING HERE

Don’t Know Who Simon And Shane Are?

Simon – Simon is THE expert on bad boys. He gives you a blueprint that explains to you the reasons why bad boys are so attractive to women. Discover the age old secrets of bad boys…

Then enjoy a webinar that gives you the ways to start being a bad boy. Learn how to be just as attractive as bad boys thanks to Simon.

Shane – Shane is the master of creating attraction. Until 4 PM in the afternoon today, he gives you 10 (!) videos about the ten attraction triggers. You’re about to learn the ten triggers that create attraction so you can get ANY woman,
if you choose to.

It’s now 8 AM in the morning over here in the Netherlands. That means the bonuses of Carlos Xuma and Formhandle are GONE FOREVER.

More bonuses will dissappear: The bonuses from Simon Heong and Shane Stanfield will no longer be available 8 hours from now…

So quickly check out the success with calling women and texting women the Calling Women and Texting Women Program gives you by CLICKING HERE.

Make sure you check it out fast, before the rest of the 30+extra bonuses are kidnapped from my site and never returned!

The other bonuses will disappear one by one during the rest of the day.

Don’t get me wrong, you can still easily get more phone numbers from women and go on more dates after calling them with everything that’s in my Program…

BUT…

If you wait with ordering until tomorrow? You simply WILL NOT GET all the ebooks, reports, audio files, and videos that some of the greatest thinkers in the dating world have ever made.

And that would be a shame, wouldn’t it?

I’m heading to my friend’s place right now to watch Demolition Men one more time. I think it’s one of the best movies Wesley Snipes was ever in together with the Blade series…

Fun fact about Demolition Men: in the movie that takes place in the future, Arnold Schwarzenegger has become president of the United States. That movie was made 5-10 years before Arnold became governor of California.

Seems like Arnold is indeed on his way to become what he was in the movie!

Isn’t that weird?

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

P.S. Remember: time is running out! I am only allowed to give all the 30+ valuable bonuses from other dating coaches away for several hours. Each hour, more and more bonuses disappear. So the longer you wait with getting a copy of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program? The less value you’ll get for your money. The Program and the bonuses combined are easily worth $954 if not more, but the price is WAY LESS. So I highly recommend you check out the Calling Women and Texting Women Program by CLICKING HERE

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Get The Calling Women and Texting Women Program TODAY

Dennis Miedema — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 22:06:59 +0000

Let us get right down to business. Today, business is getting phone numbers, calling women and texting women. The Calling Women and Texting Women Program is here now.

During the last couple of weeks I asked you and all other Win With Women fans and customers to tell me their biggest problems with calling women and texting women. I have received more than 200 emails, Facebook messages and phonecalls in total thanks to you!

There were so many different problems and challenges with calling women and texting women that I decided to create a product for you. My product gives you solutions to all the problems you have told me about.

That product is the Calling Women and Texting Women Program.

- Have you ever felt rejected after asking a woman for her number and hearing a NO?

- Have you ever SCREWED UP a phonecall because you just did not know how to ask her out and because you were talking about bullsh*t?

- Ever got a fake phone number or a voicemail and never talked to that hot, interesting lady again?

Then my Program will help you get a YES when you ask for a phone number… AND…

It gives you a woman who picks up the phone when you call her. And then?

Then it gives you a date because of my R3 process that lets you TAKE ACTION AND WIN during ANY phonecall.

How Can You Check Out The Program?

You can check out the Calling Women and Texting Women Program now by CLICKING HERE

Five to seven years ago when I approached around 20 women? I was lucky if I got 5 phone numbers out of it. Hell, I was a lucky bastard if I got 1 date after calling one of those 5 women…

Then I started working in callcenters to get used to talking to women over the phone. I could already create attraction, but I SUCKED at calling women. That is why I worked in callcenters for 7 looong years…

And now when I approach around 20 women? I can easily get 10 phone numbers. And that is on a BAD DAY. When I call all ten women? I can get 5 dates without much effort…

Getting 10 phone numbers on ANY day or night you go outside to meet women. Is that what you want? Do you want more success with women when you call or send text messages?

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WARNING: Don Not Wait With Checking Out The Program…

Because…

1) If you get it BEFORE 8 AM in the morning today, you get 30+ valuable bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world

2) If you get it BETWEEN 8 AM and 4 PM in the afternoon today, there will be around 20 bonuses from the best coaches left

3) If you get it BETWEEN 4 PM and midnight today, there will be only 13 bonuses from the best dating coaches left

And if you get it AFTER TODAY? There will be ZERO bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world left…

The longer you wait with getting the Program, the less bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world you will get!

The dating coaches that give their bonuses away for free today only:

- Formhandle (owner of Fastseduction, the biggest seduction site on the planet)
- Shane Stanfield (no one knows more about creating attraction than Shane)
- Simon Heong (expert of why bad boys are so attractive)
- Brandon Rendon (meeting women online guru)
- Tony (the world’s best small talker – nobody talks to women like he does!)
- My friend Carlos Xuma (famous dating guru, expert of the alpha male)

THAT’S why you may not want to wait with ordering your copy of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program.

I highly recommend you see what the Calling Women and Texting Women program gives you by CLICKING HERE.

And if you don not mind? It is COFFEE TIME for me. Now I know this coffee junkie always drinks way too strong coffee every single day, but today?

Today will be a VERY long and busy day for me. You can bet your ass that I am going to stay up the entire night and day just to make sure that everyone who needs help with calling and texting GETS HELP.

Later!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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Tomorrow Never Dies…

Dennis Miedema — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 10:25:43 +0000

“Tomorrow Never Dies” is the 18th James Bond film. This movie junkie thought it was awesome! But how are Tomorrow Never Dies and Win With Women related?

Because tomorrow, Sunday July 4th, is THE day that you can get your copy of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program on Win-With-Women.com. And I want you to remember tomorrow: I hope tomorrow never dies inside your mind…

Why?

Because imagine that tomorrow is the day ALL your problems with getting women’s phone numbers, calling women, and texting women will be HISTORY. Your problems will disappear…

No more frustration because a woman doesn’t pick up the phone. No more calling women but NOT getting dates because you don’t know how to lead the conversation towards a date. No more being nervous and uncomfortable when talking over the phone…

There will be only success with women when you call them and text them. Women will think it’s difficult to say “NO” to you when you ask their number. And saying “NO” when you ask for a date will almost be IMPOSSIBLE for women, because there will be no reason why NOT to go on a date…

In the United States tomorrow it’s Independence Day where everyone celebrates their freedom and independence. And that’s ironic, because tomorrow may also become the day that YOU free yourself from the difficulties of the dating game:

For the first time ever, you may be able to CHOOSE which woman you go out with. You may very well suffer from a nasty problem: choosing between dating woman A and dating woman B almost every day, because more and more women are lining up to date you…

BUT WAIT JUST A DAMN SECOND THERE!

I know I’m making a bold promise. And this is me being honest: I know getting these kinds of results with women can sound unbelievable to you right now.

That´s why I want to tell you about the benefits the Calling Women and Texting Women Program will give you tomorrow, Sunday, July 4.

The Program Contains…

=> The BIG secret to why ASKING for a phone number ruins your success with women. Then it shows you why TAKING a phone number is much better… and it takes those numbers for you.

=> 2 powerful tactics that gave my close friend David a way to know EXACTLY when to call women. And… at what time of day to call women. 8 out of 10 women he calls pick up the phone!

=> How to know when it’s better to call a woman and when it’s better to text her. Knowing this is TRULY IMPORTANT, because texting her when you need to call will RUIN your chances with a woman

These were only 9 benefits that the Calling Women and Texting Women Program gives you… and guess what?

There are AT LEAST 28 benefits the Program gives you, because this is not just ANY ebook + some videos about calling women and texting women product…
No.

My Program was created thanks to YOUR feedback. It is here thanks to everyone who asked me questions about calling, getting numbers and texting.

Because of your help, I have pretty much said everything there is to say about calling and texting in my Program: it gives you MASTERY of calling women and texting women, not just a cool technique here and another cool one there.

If you want to get your copy of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program on Sunday July 4th, check out Win-With-Women.com as soon as it is Sunday.

Because remember: there are 30+ valuable bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world waiting for you as my way of saying “THANKS” for getting the Program…

But you will ONLY get these EXTRA 30+ valuable bonuses if you order your copy on Sunday July 4 and order it RIGHT AWAY…

Because even if you get it as early as 11 AM in the morning? Some bonuses will already be gone: the stuff from Carlos Xuma and Formhandle for example…

Now you know the reason why it is ORDER TIME as soon as the clock hits midnight tonight: the longer you wait, the more you will miss…

Go to the site as soon as it is Sunday July 4 so you will not miss ANY of the 30 EXTRA bonuses.

Wew… this film fan senses his need to watch ANY random James Bond movie right away.

My addiction made me start with James Bond today, so I might as well end things today with James Bond right?

And I will watch some James while enjoying my other CRAZY addiction: way too strong coffee. I call it my black gold with extra sugar.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

P.S. Remember: at midnight tonight, you can get the Calling Women and Texting Women Program on Win-With-Women.com. The Program already gives you some AWESOME bonus materials, but if you order right away at midnight? You will get 30+ EXTRA bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world. Those extra bonuses are only available with your order between midnight and 8 AM in the morning this Sunday, July 4th. After 8 AM in the morning more and more extra bonuses will start to disappear… so be quick with your order…

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Calling Women (A CRAZY Story!)

Dennis Miedema — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 20:38:07 +0000

I’ve heard such a CRAZY story about calling women that I just HAVE TO share with you…

Meet Richard:

Richard is just like you and me. He’s a pretty young , average looking dude from Long Beach, USA. Last Thursday he sent me an email. He was one of dozens of guys that asked me for help with calling women.

But Richard’s story? It was tough to listen to. His last date was back in 2008! And…

Women gave him fake phone numbers all the time. Women NEVER called him back when he called. I’m not kidding: of the real phone numbers he got, ZERO women called him back.

Have you ever gotten a fake phone number from a woman yourself? And have you ever called a woman, felt excited to take her out, but she never answered the phone or called you back?

Then you know how Richard felt: frustrated with the results you get with women’s phone numbers and calling women. You’re getting more desperate by the minute. You have a hard time getting dates with women…

I Could Only Do 1 Thing…

The Calling Women and Texting Women Program wasn’t finished yet. The complete version of it will ONLY be available this Sunday July 4th 2010 on Win-With-Women.com

But I felt bad for Richard.

So, I decided to let him order an incomplete copy of the Program so he could start getting more results with women as fast as possible. I have given several other guys incomplete versions of the Program because I saw they needed to improve their lives and do that FAST.

That’s just how much I care about the women and dating problems of the average guy: YOU. If I see you need help and need help fast? I’ll give it to you. That’s just who I am.

Ask anyone of my students: I am available for dating advice whenever you need me to be available.

Anyways, Richard started using the techniques of the incomplete Program last Friday. I emailed him a couple times during the last few days to see how he was doing, but he didn’t email me back.

Richard emailed me back yesterday and DAMN… I almost had a heart attack!

This Is What Richard Did With The Incomplete Program…

In 7 days he did what most regular guys can only fantasize about:

- Richard got 16 phone numbers from women (they were ALL real and every woman he called answered the phone)
- He went on 3 dates (that’s one date per 2 days!)
- He slept with 2 of his dates

I am so proud of you Richard! I really hope you’re reading this Rich. Look at how far you’ve come!

And if you’re NOT Richard and reading this: Have you ever dreamed about getting these kind of results with women?

Ever wanted to be the bad ass man you always see in the movies that all women fall in love with?

Well, guess what? Being a bad ass with getting women’s phone numbers, calling women, and texting women has now become a very REAL possibility!

You may be able to do what Richard did this Sunday the 4th of July…

Richard got 16 numbers, 3 dates, and 2 porn-like nights in 1 freaking week with an INCOMPLETE version of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program.

That’s CRAZY! Those are AWESOME levels of success with women, wouldn’t you agree?

Now I know I’m good at giving dating advice and meeting women… but do you want me to be honest?

I didn’t know I was THAT good at helping men meet more women and get more dates. WOW!

Don’t Get Me Wrong…

Listen up. Let’s be realistic here. Let’s be honest!

I’m not saying YOU will get 16 phone numbers in 7 days. You are not Richard. You are not me…

But what if you only get HALF the amount of numbers Richard got in a week? Then you’re still getting 8 phone numbers in a week! That’s more than 1 per day…

And even if you SUCK at getting women’s phone numbers and can only get 1/4th of what Richard got, then guess what? You will still be getting 4 phone numbers during 1 week…

Richard went on a date with almost 1 out of 4 women. Can you imagine how many dates YOU will have every single week, even if you only get 1/4th of Richard’s results with women?

I’m telling you…

You’ll start seeing the dating game as your friend, like I do.

No more frustration because you can’t “get the girl” when you ask for her number. No more being angry or desperate when you get a number, call, but never get a date. No more sitting at home thinking about dating women with no dates to go on.

The Calling Women and Texting Women Program will make getting phone numbers, calling women and even texting women so easy that a baby could do it.

You can get the Calling Women and Texting Women Program THIS Sunday on the 4th of July on Win-With-Women.com. But you have to be fast with ordering the Program…

Why Is There A Need For Speed?

I’ve stalked some of the world’s best dating coaches for WEEKS. I wanted them to give away some of their ebooks, audio programs, and DVD videos away FOR FREE to my fans and customers only.

I am all about overdelivering value to you as my way of saying “THANK YOU” for being a Win With Women fan. And this time, I’ve achieved something special for you:

30+ valuable bonuses are waiting for EVERY MAN that gets the Calling Women and Texting Women Program this Sunday, July 4. ONLY the guys who order it this Sunday will get of all this “Army of Bonuses”…

But all the dating coaches I have convinced to give you their tips for free have to pay the rent too. They need to put food on the table as well, so I can only give away the “Army of Bonuses” for a limited time:

1) The very first minute of Sunday the 4th of July the Program will go live. But these cool bonuses will be GONE FOREVER after 8 o’clock in the morning:

- Formhandle’s audio program and ebooks (owner of Fastseduction, the biggest seduction site on the planet)
- My friend Carlos Xuma’s audio program (he’s a master of alpha male psychology)

2) After 4 o’clock in the afternoon this Sunday, these bonuses will also DISAPPEAR:

- Shane Stanfield video collection about creating attraction (no one knows more about creating attraction than Shane)
- Simon Heong’s bad boy techniques (he’s an expert of why bad boys are so attractive)

3) After midnight on Sunday July 4th, 2010? ALL bonuses of the Army of Bonuses will no longer be available:

Formhandle, Shane Stanfield, Simon Heong, Brandon Rendo, Tony Almeida, Carlos Xuma…

All these 6 men will stop giving away their bonuses AFTER this Sunday, July 4. More and more of them will stop giving away their bonuses during the day…

It’s the best deal I could get to get you more dating advice for free.

That means you need to order the Calling Women and Texting Women Program this Sunday on Win-With-Women.com. Because if you don’t?

You will LOSE 30+ valuable bonuses that are easily worth $900+ combined…

Plus, you need to decide for yourself:

Do you want to keep getting the results with women you’re getting now?

OR… do you want to get the results with women Richard gets? The results that I get?

If you want to go from SHITTY results with women to getting 4, 8, or maybe even 16 phone numbers in 7 days that will easily become dates…

Then check out my site as soon as it’s this Sunday. Because on the blog? I will tell you EXACTLY how to order your copy of the Program.

And now it’s time for Grown Ups.

No, that does NOT mean I was being a child before this. It means I want to see the movie Grown Ups. It’s a comedy with Adam Sandler, the guy from King of Queens, Chris Rock and some other pretty familiar comedians…

In short: 1 movie containing some of the best comedians ever. How could that go wrong? A movie like that can only be 1 thing for this movie junkie: too damn funny.

I can’t wait to laugh my ass off! I also can’t wait to get more crazy stories about the effects of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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3 Days Left Until You’re A Master Caller…

Dennis Miedema — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 18:47:10 +0000

Did you know that there are only 3 days left until you’re a master caller? Three days until mastering how to call women?

It sounds awesome, doesn’t it:

1) Being able to get a woman’s phone number with ease, even if you’re insecure
2) Not being nervous or quiet when you call women
3) Knowing the steps you need to take to get a date during a phonecall

WARNING: you DON’T have to fantasize about having that much success with calling women and texting women anymore…

Because as soon as it’s this Sunday, July 4?

You can learn from a callcenter veteran who has successfully called thousands of women. You can learn from someone who has dated more women than he can count OF those thousands of women…

That someone is… ME!

And I created the Calling Women and Texting Women Program as a guide for regular guys to get success with women when you call them or text them.

And Sunday July 4th you can get the Program right here on Win-With-Women.com

If you have NO IDEA of what the Program is about or what it gives you? Please check out the video that explains it to you by clicking the link below right away:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=skU_khJ_TOU

And guess what?

The Calling Women and Texting Women Program ALSO gives you the shortcut…

It gives you the shortcut to becoming a master of getting women’s phone numbers, calling women, and texting women…

You’ll be a master caller who gets all the girls with his highly effective phone conversations, isn’t that what you want?

Hell, let me be honest with you:

You Don’t Have A Choice…

If you do NOT get better at calling women, you can forget about getting more dates with women…

I explained the reason why there is no date for you without women’s phone numbers in yesterday’s blog. Read it by clicking on “yesterday” if you have not read it yet.

Did you read yesterday’s blog? Great!

1 out of EVERY 3 women you call date you and sleep with you on the first date…

But ONLY if you get the Calling Women and Texting Women Program as soon as it’s Sunday…

Why Buy It As Early As Possible On Sunday, July 4?

Because…

1) If you buy it BEFORE 8 AM in the morning on Sunday, you get 30+ valuable bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world + The Program

2) If you buy it BETWEEN 8 AM and 4 PM in the afternoon on Sunday, there will be around 20 bonuses from the best coaches left + The Program

3) If you buy it BETWEEN 4 PM and midnight on Sunday, there will be only 13 bonuses from the best dating coaches left + The Program

And if you buy it AFTER Sunday the 4th of July, there will be ZERO bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world left… + The Program

The longer you wait with buying the Program, the less bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world you will get!

These are the dating coaches that ONLY give their bonuses this Sunday:

- Formhandle (owner of Fastseduction, the biggest seduction site on the planet)
- Shane Stanfield (no one knows more about creating attraction than Shane)
- Simon Heong (expert of why bad boys are so attractive)
- Brandon Rendon (guru of talking to women online)
- Tony (the world’s best small talker – nobody talks to women like he does!)
- My friend Carlos Xuma (master of alpha male psychology)

THAT’S why you may not want to wait with buying your copy of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program:

These bonuses will start to DISAPPEAR after Sunday morning at 8 o’clock…

Want to get the Program? Check Win-With-Women.com as soon as it’s Sunday to see how to order your copy. So, keep your eyes focused on the site!

Now if you’ll excuse me, this coffee junkie is going to get his black cup of sunshine that brightens his day. Don’t look at me that way dude, yes I KNOW I’m addicted to it…

But what’s worse: drinking too much coffee or never having the energy to chase your dreams? It’s far better to live a regretless life in which you achieve your goals and that’s unhealthy in some ways…

Than living a boring life filled with failure that is SUPER healthy…

Proof: the Calling Women and Texting Women Program!

I will start selling it on Sunday the 4th of July. But that’s not my point: my point is I was able to make the Program because of my coffee addiction that kept me going. And if you have not seen the video that explains what the Program is about?

Click the link below now to see a video of what the Program gives you:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=skU_khJ_TOU

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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Who Else Wants A Phone Filled With Women Waiting For Dates?

Dennis Miedema — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 20:15:09 +0000

Yesterday I said “Get The Results With Calling Women You Can Be Proud Of.” I said it because of the way average guys take part in the dating game…

And it’s this:

For average guys like you and me, we think the dating game knows 3 important steps you ALWAYS need to take…

1) First you approach a woman and create attraction
2) Then you get her number and call her
3) Then you get the date and go on a date

You’re probably a VICTIM of this 3 step process and you maybe don’t even know it. This 3 step process RUINS your chances to get a date…

Why?

Because what if you SUCK at calling women and texting women?

Not being good at calling means not getting much dates, because there is no date without a call.

Have you ever felt kinda lonely and like your phone is way too damn empty?

Ever felt like your schedule for the week looks like a ghost town while you really WANT TO meet and date women?

Well, guess what? Most men don’t know what to do about it. That’s why they’re kind of ashamed of the current results they’re getting with calling women…

Who knows… maybe you’re a little ashamed of the success you’re having with calling women and texting women right now. Are you? Are you ashamed?

Do you feel frustrated about it?

If your answer was “YES”, then listen to this…

When you get more women’s phone numbers and call more women, you will get more dates.

That’s not a CLAIM on my part. No.

If you get more numbers and call more women, you WILL get more dates. It’s as certain as saying the Earth is round. This is reality: more calls = more dates!

Meanwhile, a lot of men focus on meeting women allllll the time. They can’t stop asking me about how to approach women. I wonder why…

Because if you can’t get results with your phone, then approaching women is USELESS. Meeting women has no use if you can’t call women and get a date.

90% of the time there is no date after meeting a woman if you don’t know how to handle a conversation over the phone…

This is why I created the Calling Women and Texting Women Program:

To STOP letting you be a victim of the 3 step process of the dating game. I created it so you can get the results with calling women and texting women that you can be proud of.

And once you get your copy of the Program? You can stop feeling desperate and lonely… and START filling your phone with one phone number after another… after another.

Before you know it? You’ll be the most infamous womanizer in the city: you’ll be the guy who has nothing but dates on his schedule for the week…

All because more phone numbers = more calls = more dates…

Do You Want More?

The Calling Women and Texting Women Program gives you answers to questions like…

When should you call women? Why do women never call you back? Should you leave a voicemail message if you can’t reach her? What do you say during a call to get a date? What if a woman doesn’t agree to go on a date during the 1st call?

The Program also gives you a test to see if a woman is free to talk over the phone (you will want to know this trick, trust me!) and many other insider secrets…

And I say INSIDER on purpose man, because I’ve worked in callcenters for 7 looong years. It was seven years of 30-40 calls per day where I had to sell myself and get better at talking to people over the phone. I started working there on purpose.

I’ve called more people and more women in my life than I can count and it has made me VERY successful with calling and texting women to get dates…

These days I have a phone filled with women waiting for dates. Who else wants a phone filled with women waiting for a date? Do you want that?

Because this veteran callcenter agent is about to share all my knowledge of getting phone numbers, calling, texting, phones, and more with you… are you ready for it?

If you’re ready then keep your freaking eyes open on Sunday the 4th of July…

Why?

Because THAT’S the “launch day” of the Program. And below is all the information you’ll need about getting your copy of the Program…

What Happens On Sunday July 4th, 2010?

The Program will be available for you to order as soon as it’s Sunday, July 4.

And I’m willing to bet that it’s probably a smart idea to hurry with getting your copy. You don’t want to be the sucker that came in last in the race who misses out on all the glory of the first comers…

Why get it as soon as it’s Sunday July 4th?

Because…

1) If you order BEFORE 8 AM in the morning on Sunday, you get 30+ valuable bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world

2) If you order BETWEEN 8 AM and 4 PM in the afternoon on Sunday, there will be around 20 bonuses from the best coaches left

3) If you order BETWEEN 4 PM and midnight on Sunday, there will be only 13 bonuses from the best dating coaches left

And if you order AFTER Sunday the 4th of July, there will be ZERO bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world left…

The longer you wait with ordering, the less bonuses from the best dating coaches in the world you will get NEXT TO everything the Program already gives you!

Overview of the world’s best dating coaches that give away their advice for free on Sunday:

- Carlos Xuma (one of the most famous dating gurus in the world)
- Formhandle (the guy behind the biggest seduction site in the world)
- Simon Heong (the one and only bad boy expert)
- Shane Stanfield (guru of the psychology behind attraction)
- Brandon Rendon (meeting women online veteran)
- Tony Almeida (master of conversational techniques)

Carlos, Formhandle, Simon Heong, Shane Stanfield, Brandon Rendon and Tony Almeida will be giving you 30+ valuable bonuses with their dating advice FOR FREE…

But only this Sunday on July 4th… and only during several hours on Sunday.

That’s why you may want to be fast with ordering, because once a bonus is not available anymore? It’s GONE FOREVER.

More information about how to order will follow soon…

Because I have to dive into my couch right now and watch movies as the filthy movie whore that I am. I’m telling you, movies are like crack to me.

Can’t stop looking at them, using them, abusing them. And everyone I know SUFFERS from my addiction, because I become a speechless robot during ANY movie. I’m not available to the world anymore then…

So maybe it’s time for an “intervention” where all my fans and students come together to tell me that I should stop watching so many damn movies. And that I should START giving more dating advice!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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Get The Results With Calling Women You Can Be Proud Of

Dennis Miedema — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 14:08:13 +0000

If you’re reading this TODAY, Tuesday the 29th of June, you can easily call yourself one lucky bastard…

Why?

Because today is the ONLY day you can get a Free Chapter of the ebook of the Calling Women and Texting Women Program.

Click HERE to download it now, because it will be gone in 24 hours…

Everyone that DOESN’T read this blog on Tuesday simply won’t get this Free Chapter, ever! Lazy asses are losers in my opinion.

You know what? I’m not even going to tell you what your free chapter is all about. That’s for you to find out. All I can say is: important insights…

I WILL tell you though that you can get a SNEAK PREVIEW of all the different chapter of the ebook of the Program. I included the Table of Contents of the FULL ebook so you’ll know what to expect from the FULL version…

So grab that Free Chapter RIGHT HERE to see what you can expect…

And now we got that out of the way? It’s time…

It’s time to share with you how I’ve listened to all of your feedback. I want to show you I was SERIOUS. I was serious when I said: I want to create my product WITH you, because I’m here to help YOU… not myself.

Below you’ll find just SOME of the requests for tips I’ve honored. These tips are now all in the Program…

How I Used Your Feedback For The Program

1) Andy – he asked me for some tips on the costs of calling women. He doesn’t want a high phone bill, do you? INCLUDED IT!

2) Samuel – he begged me for tips on writing a woman’s phone number, because he thinks it takes you too long to write down. He gets nervous when a woman’s just standing there while he’s busy writing. WAS ALREADY IN IT!

3) Roberto – he wants to know what you can do when a woman keeps saying “NO” when you ask for a number. He’s frustrated, but doesn’t have to feel that way anymore because it… WAS ALREADY IN IT!

4) Dave – he asked me for tips on how to call women: the women you are in a relationship with or have been dating for a while now. You don’t have to be insecure around your girlfriend or ask how to keep her anymore, because I… INCLUDED IT! (IN A BONUS)

5) Francois – he demands to know how you can get more control over your voice. Maybe you stutter, talk too fast, or talk a lot but don’t say anything when you call women. That’s a thing of the past now, because I… INCLUDED IT!

6) Imtiaas and others – he asks for help with taking action during a call. If you feel like calls are going nowhere? If you want to know how to get a date out of a phonecall? You’ll be happy to hear that I… INCLUDED IT! (IN A BONUS)

As you can see: I really care about the problems you need help with when it comes to calling women and texting women. I am including solutions to most if not ALL of your problems, because I really want to see you get more success with women.

Thanks for all the feedback so far! You can still send more feedback to winwithwomen@live.nl if you send it to me BEFORE Sunday, July 4th…

I also want to thank Lidia, my girlfriend Naisa, Victor, Paulo, George, Wesley, Mark, my best friend Sherwin, Brian and all the others that let me know:

“We want the Calling Women and Texting Women Program!”

Haha thanks guys, but you’ll have to wait until Sunday the 4th of July before you can order your copy of the Program.

Not even my girlfriend or best friend will get it before this Sunday!

Why?

Because I want to include everything in the Program that needs to be in there, because I’m not doing this for the money. No.

I’m doing this because I want to help as many men as possible with calling women and texting women. I will ONLY release the Program for sale this Sunday if I feel I have answered all your questions to the best of my ability.

So if you don’t mind?

I’m going to watch one of my favorite war movies now for inspiration: Saving Private Ryan. It tells the blood and guts story of how horrible World War II was and how horrible ANY war is. Meanwhile it motivates you to survive the tough times in life…

It’s such a good story, watch it some time. You’ll love the crap out of it!

As soon as I’m done watching, I’m using more feedback to make more Program.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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I want to be honest with you about the Calling Women and Texting Women Program…

Dennis Miedema — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 17:16:32 +0000

Hey Win With Women fan, I want to be honest with you:

I HATE people who ask you for money, take your money, and then never give you something valuable in return.

I call those people thiefs, liars, scammers… and I HATE those f*cking bastards.

That’s why I will NOT ask you to order the Calling Women and Texting Women Program and then tell you that there’s no money back after 30 days like some lame dating coaches do…

You don’t want to know how many dating coaches do this:

“Oh you want your $$$ back? Well you can’t get it back because you’re too late!”

It’s not fair for you, because if you can’t get results with a guy’s advice? You end up losing money AND self-esteem. That’s not fair!

That’s why I’m doing something different with my new Program about calling and sending text messages. I give a lifetime guarantee:

- Can’t get results now? You can keep all my advice and get all your money back

- Can’t get results after 5 years? You can STILL keep it all and STILL get your money back

Same goes for 10, 15, 50, and 500 years (in case you’re a vampire).

Hell, I go one step further with my lifetime guarantee and offer you 3 “booty calls” or else… but more on that later

I just wanted to tell you this from man to man: I’m an honest dude and if my tips don’t work for you? I understand and won’t hate on you for it. I give back what you paid and we’re still friends.

And now we’re already being honest? Let’s continue…

I’m NOT the only guy on the planet that is making a product about getting women’s phone numbers, how to call women, sending text messages.

But I DO know this:

I AM the only guy on the planet that has 7 years of experience with working in callcenters. There it was call 40-60 people PER DAY and sell them stuff or get fired. That’s a lot of people I called in 7 years…

And I started working in callcenters on purpose: I used to SUCK at calling women. Yes I managed to get a number, but talking on the phone?

Seriously, I could NOT get a date out of ANY phonecall.

And I was really nervous when I was chatting up women over the phone…

So I decided to start working in callcenters so I could get conversational skills. I wanted to be able to take action on the phone and get something out of a phonecall.

Fast forward 7 years: I’ve had outrageous success over the phone and I get a date out of 1 in 3 phonecalls. And that’s when I’m being honest.

But I’m not saying this to brag about myself. No.

I am telling you this because I wonder why: I wonder why other people dare to sell tips for how to call women when they’re not experienced?

Because even if you’re real good with women, your experience is limited to several dozen or maybe a couple hundred people.

What is more accurate: research done on 300 people… OR… research done on 12 THOUSAND or more people? I think you know the answer.

There’s no one with as much experience with calling people and phones than I have. I can see the other so called “phone experts” shitting their pants now.

Hell, of those 7 years I’ve been working for the T-Mobile customer service for 3 years. And T-Mobile freaking SELLS mobile phones… how much more experienced can a guy get?!

But WAIT… there’s even more honesty lying ahead…

Do you want a Free Chapter?

Here’s the deal: even if you don’t get my Calling Women and Texting Women Program on Sunday July 4th, 2010?

It’s okay…

I still want you to be able to have more success with women thanks to my tips for getting women’s phone numbers, calling, and sending text messages.

That’s why I am giving away a FREE CHAPTER of the ebook of the Program.

When will I give away the Free Chapter? On Tuesday June 29th, 2010!

See your email or the blog on Win-With-Women.com on Tuesday June 29th, 2010 to find out how to download your Free Chapter…

Tuesday the 29th of June is the ONLY day the free chapter will be available for you.

I want to remind you though:

There’s an ebook, 2 bonus videos, 3 unadvertised bonuses AND 30+ valuable bonuses waiting for you if you get the ENTIRE Program on the 4th of July…

There you have it.

I’m known for telling the BRUTAL TRUTH about dating and today’s email was all about the brutal truth behind the Program. And as you have just seen: brutal doesn’t always mean BAD.

And as we near the end, this movie groupie HAS to share it with you:

I grew up on action flicks by Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, and Bruce Willis. I mean which guy DOESN’T know Terminator, Rambo, or Die Hard?

If you haven’t watched ANY of these movies, then I’m willing to bet that you’re a woman reading this newsletter. It isn’t possible to NOT know these movies!

Anyways, what I wanted to say: Arnold, Sylvester, and Bruce will ALL appear in this upcoming action movie called The Expendables. How awesome is THAT?

All movie junkies on the globe should celebrate. I’m serious. Expendables is supposed to come out somewhere in August and I can’t wait… can you?

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

P.S. It’s still not too late to email me your ideas! What do you want me to put in the Program? When you think about getting phone numbers, calling women, and texting women… what do you need help with? Email it to winwithwomen@live.nl and I’ll make sure I put it in the Program.

P.P.S. Remember: Tuesday June 29th, 2010 will be the ONLY day you can download and enjoy a FREE CHAPTER of the ebook for the Calling Women And Texting Women Program. See your email or the blog on Win-With-Women.com on Tuesday June 29th, 2010 to find out how to download your Free Chapter…

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Did I CRASH Youtube last Sunday? (This is WEIRD)

Dennis Miedema — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 17:31:10 +0000

Want to know something that’s both funny and weird?

I’ve watched myself a whole lot of Youtube in my lifespan. Music videos, documentaries, and entire movies are on there… BUT…

What I never expected was that 1 video is actually able to crash the Youtube servers! I never knew that could happen…

You see, only minutes after I put the trailer for the Calling Women And Texting Women Program on Youtube? Youtube crashed for several minutes!

Youtube kept crashing and crashing every time I tried to watch the trailer… it kept failing to laod and crash for several minutes… can you believe it?

THAT’S how popular the trailer was!

So, in case you suffered from the crash and haven’t seen the trailer yet?

Click the link below right away to check out the Calling Women And Texting Women Program trailer:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=skU_khJ_TOU

And in case Youtube crashes (again), go here instead to watch it:

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xdr46s_calling-women-and-texting-women-pro_school

Another weird thing happened with Youtube: the calling women trailer went from 513 views to 5 views to 30 views. That all happened within minutes… strange huh?

Thanks everyone that emailed me after watching the trailer! I got more than 40 emails…

And I live on your support. I will include all the problems with calling women you need help with. Everything you emailed and called me about will be in this stuff.

Here are some of the reactions to the trailer and me announcing the Calling Women And Texting Women Program:

“Got a question: where can I buy it?? I wanna buy it homz!! I cant wait because I suck at calling chicks. I Like ur advice amigo so tell me when and where.”
– Diego S, from I think it’s Mexico?

“Sorry mate, but I am skeptical of new products. I am a fellow who wants to see others prove it works first before I pay for anything. But if it’s true that you also give tricks for texting women? I want to know more. And if you really include how to use your phone to get more than one date and how to use it for approaching girls? Then I am definitely interested.”
– Cedrick from Bristol, United Kingdom

“This is a must have bro!”
– Peter from New York City, USA

Thanks for sharing your enthusiasm AND concerns with the world guys

Around 40 emails and crashing Youtube servers for several minutes, things will probably get insane when my material goes live.

With all this crazyness already going on? I really wonder what’s going to happen on Sunday, July 4th when the Program is launched…

I just hope Win-With-Women.com will stay online long enough the 4th of July so people can actually order my tips for calling women and texting women!

I’ve got other news as well… you’ll LOVE this. Hear it is…

It’s news from…

Some Of The Best Dating Coaches In The World:

Last time I mentioned that dating gurus Carlos Xuma and Formhandle will give away some of their advice FOR FREE together with the Calling Women And Texting Women Program.

But even more dating coaches have joined the gang and will give away some of their stuff for free after some persuasion by me. See the list with your own eyes:

- Carlos Xuma (one of the most famous dating gurus in the world)
- Formhandle (guy behind the biggest seduction site in the world)
- Simon Heong (bad boy expert)
- Shane Stanfield (guru of the psychology behind attraction)
- Brandon Rendon (meeting women online veteran)
- Tony Almeida (expert of conversational techniques)

It took quite some time to get Carlos, Formhandle, Simon, Shane, Brandon and Tony on board… but I did it! And together? Together they will give you an ARMY OF BONUSES.

Together they will give you 30+ valuable bonuses filled with dating tips about the topics they’ve mastered if you get my Program.

I’m really happy that I can make this possible for you. I just want to OVERDELIVER value to you. I just want to make my materials worth your time and energy.

Now, the dating coaches I summed up only want to give some of their best dating tips away for a SHORT period of time…

It almost seems like these guys are greedy with their tips!

Anyways, 8 hours after the Program is launched? I already have to stop giving away some of these awesome bonuses. These dating coaches only want me to give away their material for a limited time: less than 1 day.

That means you need to be fast with getting your copy or you will miss out on a lot of value, lots of free advice… and I don’t want you to miss ANYTHING!

More information about when which bonuses are gone will come soon…

Stay tuned for more information about the what, the when and the where of the Calling Women And Texting Women Program.

And now…

I’m off to watch the Karate Kid (remake). I have high expectations, probably because I’m a movie junkie and a MAJOR martial arts fan.

No one comes close to Bruce Lee, but Karate Kid was still kind of a classic.

So let’s just hope that Hollywood didn’t screw this remake up just like they screw up most remakes…

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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