Biography
The Story Of Dennis Miedema’s Life…
Last modified on 2010-08-31 21:28:51 GMT. 0 comments. Top.
Screw gentle, shallow intro’s, I’m going for but naked background info here that tells my WHOLE story:
About 5 years ago, I went through the most nightmarish period of my life:
- My parents got divorced (and used me to fight out their battles, you know, the usual)
- I got cheated on by my ex-girlfriend (I found out she slept with another guy only AFTER we broke up)
- My girlfriend after that (and now ex number 2) turned out to be a BIG *SS gold digger..which resulted in my being in debt with the wrong people for over $1000 which led to me…
- Dropping out of college to pay back that money
This was when I just KNEW I needed to get the women & dating part of my life handled, because every interaction and relationship with women I had (even the mother-son thing) went sour.
I mean, is there ANY way you can screw up with women worse than I did? Have you ever felt like this too and just had this… immediate need to learn how to deal with women NOW because you’re sick of how things are now?
But where could you learn that stuff?
I went to the bookstore, nothing… and since I never knew there was such a thing as a “dating guru” out there on the internet, I looked around me… and saw naturals. Men and women who were NATURALLY good in seducing the opposite sex… so I started befriending them.
Before that time, I was absolutely SCARED of women: of talking to them, of approaching them, and I got really nervous when I was around them. I simple had nooo confidence, I feared REJECTION whenever I would say “Hi” to a woman (even to women I friggin”knew!), and I felt I wasn’t WORTHY of meeting that special someone.
I fell in love with every woman I would encounter, and was hopelessly needy and desperate for their attention and love… which turned them off BIG TIME.
Nice guys always finish last, especially if you’re the guy who’s nice to the nice guys!
But once I saw WHAT those naturals did and HOW, and which EFFECT it had on the person they were talking to?
I saw attraction work: whenever it was a giggle, a smile or a naughty look? I would imitate the crap out of it, until I knew WHY it worked. Just to show you what these naturals were up to: one of my best friends for example, Patrick, is like a ROCKSTAR with women that come in groups… he gets them home with him for “instant parties”, and ends up having a threesome or foursome… almost every freaking week!
I wanted that kind of dating success for myself too, so I tried to hang out with these naturals as much as I could to learn everything there was to learn.
Since my dad is this big IT geek, I was practically born and raised on the internet so the obvious starting point for me were dating sites and social networks like MySpace and Facebook.
That’s where I experimented with all of it day in, day out (literally). I can still remember the days where I didn’t even go outside and was “studying” this stuff from 9-5 like it was yesterday. It took me bloog, sweat, and tears to get my inner issues handled… but my hard work payed off…
Because two years later… I had met and dated many, many beautiful, intelligent, and attractive women: singers, actresses, dancers, models, strippers, teacher, single moms… and everything in between.
Then this guy saw me do my thing once and asked me “did you read The Game or something?” I was like what the HECK is that? Then this dude told me to look for something he called “the seducion community.”
So I started Googling and my jaw dropped to the floor! As it turned out, there were many groups of men who were busy learning how to meet women all over the freaking PLANET… thousands and thousands of ‘em, so I started sharing my thoughts on some sites…
Next thing I know? All kinds of guys from the Netherlands, the UK, Singapore and more were asking ME for my help. It was when I knew what it would be like to be a celebrity that signs up with Facebook: getting stalked like CRAZY.
So just to cope with all the questions I started a free blog so I could help men in advance and still have somewhat of a life left. I mean, having hot female stalkers is fine with me, but male stalkers? No thank you Sir!
That’s why I started the Win With Women blog: to write dating articles and make dating videos that would answer questions in advance and that would help men grow, improve themselves, and get dating success.
Fast forward to present day…
These days I do personal coaching: I take guys out to the clubs and bars of the Netherlands, my country, to help them meet women there and/or help them build their confidence, develop their conversational skills and teach them everything there is to know about creating attraction.
I’ve also got a newsletter up and running that I’m proud to say has helped over 500 guys get better at meeting and dating women, but have many more success stories to share.. like Tom’s story…
He’s one of my students who was a virgin before I coached him. I helped him build his confidence and conversational skills and only 2 weeks later? He calls me to tell me he lost his virginity to two go go dancers!
The second time I coached him? He calls me again a couple of weeks later to tell me he now takes beautiful women home with him after going clubbing almost every night he goes out!
I think he proves my expertise more than I ever can…
And I look forward to helping you too in the future! If you want to be coached, you know where to find me. If not, just comment on this post 
To More Dating Success,
Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
Liked This Dating Article?
Share it on Twitter: … OR…
share it on Facebook:
Share
P.S. WAIT A SECOND – MORE FREE STUFF!
What you’ve just seen above were just the basics of my thoughts on women, dating, and creating attraction, and if you want to get a ton of other tips about how to quickly meet more women without much effort? Then sign up for my newsletter below…
P.P.S. For all journalists and bloggers: now you know me a little bit better, would you like to get to know Win With Women and our products and personal coaching better? Then check out the Dennis Miedema in the media page and/or Win With Women’s online media room. What’s in the media room? It gives you videos, photos, information about me, info about the products and services, and much more. Check out more about me now by clicking the links above.
