How To Please Your Girlfriend In Bed – Sex Advice
Posted by Dennis Miedema | Posted in Sex Advice | Posted on 20-07-2010
Tags: how to please your girlfriend in bed, last longer in bed, pleasing in bed, Sex Advice
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Today I want to talk about how to please your girlfriend in bed. It’s more than logical for me to start giving sex advice, because what happens if my dating tips help you get a successful date? That’s right… porn-like sex!
But first, let’s get something straight here…
When I say please your girlfriend in bed, I mean the woman you’re in a relationship with for months or years. But I also mean a girlfriend for 1 night…
Hey, I don’t judge dude…
Whether you’re an one night stand man or a relationship man, I don’t care. I’m just the guy giving sex advice.
So, let’s get started with that advice then shall we?
Don’t Ever, EVER… Be A Wussy In Bed
Maybe this sounds obvious, but it’s not. Here’s why…
1) 90% of the men out there today focus on a woman’s pleasure. They want to make sure she has an orgasm, because they think that tells them they’re great lovers.
2) Most regular guys like you and me also ask “does that feel good to you?” and similar questions several times. The worst question to ask in the world: “did you come?” Why so insecure about whether you’re doing the right thing or not?
3) Guys also tend to ask women to change position or to do something, instead of telling women or simply putting them where they need to be.
Have you ever felt like you need to achieve in bed? Ever had problems with getting it up because you felt too much pressure to please a woman in bed?
Don’t lie now, be honest!
The #1 cause of feeling anxiety to achieve in bed is focusing on HER pleasure and on if you’re doing things the right way. That’s when you think too much. Stop overthinking it and start enjoying it!
And the 3 mistakes in bed I told you about before can be summarized in one sentence: don’t try to get approval from a woman in bed. It turns her off BIG TIME.
Don’t ask anything and tell women what to do in bed. Hell, don’t even tell them and physically put them where they need to be. Want a different position? Take her hand and put her in that freaking position!
Why?
Women want to meet and date “real” men: dominant, non-approval seeking, confident…
And if they want that with dating already, they REALLY want it in bed. Women don’t want a wussy in bed, ever. They want a gentleman on the street and a beast in the bed just like we want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed…
So if you want to please your girlfriend in bed?
- You don’t ask, you do
- You don’t focus on her pleasure (too much)
- You don’t think about sex or during sex, you enjoy the damn moment
Doing these 3 simple things and knowing why is the first step to pleasing your girlfriend in bed. Hell, it’s the first step towards having pornstar-like sex!
And YES! I said the first step, because there’s more…
How To Last Longer In Bed
I have always wanted to last longer in bed. I’ve been practising it for years and I have much sex advice to share with you to please your girlfriend in bed…
And although women usually don’t climax just by having sex, they really enjoy having it! That’s why it’s not a bad idea to try and last longer in bed.
Here are several ways to do it:
1) The moment you feel like you’re almost going to climax? STOP! Take your penis out of her and leave it out of there for 10 seconds. Then go back in. We can only climax with continuous stimulation. Those 10 seconds are just long enough for us to need stimulation from start to finish again. In short: you will last longer in bed with these extra seconds.
2) Different positions require different amounts of effort. Don’t be stupid by doing her while standing and then going doggystyle. Why is that being stupid? Because you need lots of energy and a muscular sixpack for both positions. You will get tired or get cramps and that’s a sure fire way to screw the sex up. No climax then buddy! So switch it up: go from a position that’s physically heavy for you (doggy) to one that’s heavy for her (her on top facing you), back to heavy for you again… and so on. That way you can last much longer in bed…
3) Different positions stimulate you and her in different ways. You feel a different sensation when you have sex doggystyle than when she’s riding on top of you. Because you’re stimulated in different places, you can last longer in bed by switching positions. Positions that stimulate different things (than the missionary position): doggy, standing up with her back towards you, her on top, her on top with her back towards you, sideways while laying on the bed, with her legs over your shoulders, etc.
NOTE: I just gave you sex advice for lasting longer that doesn’t have anything to do with breathing, meditation, tantra or any of that other stuff on purpose. Why? because for most people it’s a little “out there” to start talking about chi and whatever.
Stop being a wussy and start doing these 3 things in bed I mentioned above and you’ll be much better at pleasing your girlfriend in bed.
And remember: don’t overthink it, enjoy it!
Once you start doing this?
- You will feel no more pressure to achieve in bed and can finally relax and enjoy the sex
- You will know exactly how to please your girlfriend in bed
- You will last much longer in bed
In short: follow my sex advice and you’ll have better sex for a longer period of time!
Please answers these questions for me by posting a comment below:
1) Which sex tip is the most useful tip for you and why?
2) Do you have any sex advice to share with the world? Tell us!
And now if you’ll excuse me?
This movie abuser is going to watch The Matrix for the fourth time now.
No matter what you think of action movies, only a dumb ass would NOT admit that The Matrix raised the bar for all action movies: an incredibly deep story, awesome graphics and slow-motion bullet time…
It makes me want to please my girlfriend in bed in slow-motion to see what happens… just kidding!
To More Dating Success,
Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
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