The reason why people tend to STOP doing something as soon as they come across an obstacle that seems too big is simple: MOST people stop RIGHT before they’re successful because they quit after temporary defeat, because they lack PERSISTENCE.
Maybe you DID go out, DID approach a girl, DID get her email….but then you move onto to another one because she said no the first time you asked her out on a date. WRONG!
And I’ve got a metaphoric story to tell you about how wrong it is, my dear reader…
“…This fella named Darby was caught by the “gold fever” in the gold-rush days, and went west to dig and grow rich. He had never heard that more gold has been mined from the brains of men than has ever been taken from the earth. He staked a claim and went to work with pick and shovel. The going was hard, but his lust for gold was definite.
After weeks of labor, he was rewarded by the discovery of the shining ore. He needed machinery to bring the ore to the surface. Quietly, he covered up the mine, retraced his footsteps to his home in Williamsburg, Maryland, told his relatives and a few neighbors of the “strike.” They got together money for the needed machinery, had it shipped. Darby went back to work the mine.
The first car of ore was mined, and shipped to a smelter. The returns proved they had one of the richest mines in Colorado! A few more cars of that ore would clear the debts. Then would come the big killing in profits. Down went the drills! Up went the hopes of Darby! Then something happened! The vein of gold disappeared! They had come to the end of the rainbow, and the pot of gold was no longer there! They drilled on, desperately trying to pick up the vein again-all without success. Finally, they decided to QUIT.
They sold the machinery to a junk man for a few hundred dollars, and then took the train back home. Some “junk” men are dumb, but not this one! He called in a mining engineer to look at the mine and do a little calculating. The engineer advised that the project had failed, because the owners were not familiar with “fault lines.” His calculations showed that the vein would be found JUST THREE FEET FROM WHERE THE DARBYS HAD STOPPED DRILLING! That is exactly where it was found! The ‘junk’ man took millions of dollars in ore from the mine, because he knew enough to seek expert counsel before giving up…”
So when you think about persistence, do you REALLY want to become the next Darby my friend? Or would you rather be like Thomas Edison. Who? Edison. Edison FAILED 10.000 times before he made the incandescent electric light bulb work! Because to him? Each unsuccessful experiment was the elimination of a solution that wouldn’t work, and THAT is what persistence is all about. Every failure brings with it the seed of an equivalent success, as long as you learn from it and PERSIST! So you owe it to yourself to be the junk man, the Edison..BE persistent and stop overthinking things already will ya?
But We're Not Through Yet...
Because now we got that out of the way, tell me, how are you my friend? How are you REALLY doing in the Inner Game department of your life?
Come on...be honest here!
Because if you're reading this right now, it sounds to me like you need to check out how you can solve your "Inner Game" problems and by Inner Game I mean how you think about yourself, women and the world..your beliefs, insecurities and confidence as well.
It's all in your head man, 99% of your problems with women & dating exist only in our own mind..
And actually, I'm about to do some heavy duty, intense Inner Game coaching not long from now on Friday/Saturday and during this first session?
You'll join me and some other guys as we tear insecurities apart..and put them back together again piece by piece with some REALLY powerful techniques that have improved my "game" miles at a time.
I'm going to reveal, among other things, an exercise to you that will allow you to turn EVERY insecurity upside down until it's gone, step by step..by asking a number of very SPECIFIC questions to yourself that force you to reframe what you believed to be true.
Because that's the thing about insecurities: they are no more then misbeliefs, half or false assumptions and things taken out of context..but you just have to see WHERE things got out of context..and this technique will blow your mind! It's so much fun to do, and reality changing at the same time..
And I highly recommend you join us if you just admitted to yourself that you're having trouble with being yourself, with being a wussy and with your level of confidence.
Aren't you sick of feeling uncomfortable around women? Aren't you sick of having FEARS and
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And if you're up for it? For some Inner Game action that you've been waiting to get going for a long time now..then I would sure love to help you.
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check out this cool video about Inner Game that my friend Mark made
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