For most regular guys, creating attraction is as “simple” as nuclear physics: difficult stuff! It’s time to make creating attraction easier, wouldn’t you agree?

And it doesn’t matter if you admit it or not, but when it comes to creating attraction? Every time a girl says “OMG Brad Pitt or George Clooney or What’s His Name is so hot”? You get a little jealous inside and you wonder why these guys are so attractive.

Secretly, you want to have the same skills for creating attraction, for attracting women don’t you? And you know what? Here’s the juicy secret: you can have them, quite easily.

Hell, creating attraction better than any celebrity sex bomb can is easier than you would think. What’s that you say!? You want proof? Here’s your proof:

In last week’s blog post about creating attraction I showed you all the roads to victory, and it’s easy to win because there are so many ways to win! It showed you 27 ways of creating attraction, but guess what?

Creating attraction in general, and attracting women especially, doesn’t stop there. Oh no!

There are 27 MORE ways of creating attraction that I haven’t even shared with you yet… and now it’s time to share them all with you. Here’s why: I want to make the chance that you fail when you want to “get the girl” nothing more than 0%. Zero, zilch, nada, niente.

I want you to know how to get with a girl in only 4 days and pull it off without much effort…

I want to be absolutely sure that what I say about attraction gives you hotties like this one:

Want to have women as hot as her to fall in love with you? To almost BEG YOU for sex? Then you’ve come to the right place! Let’s continue where last week’s blog post about creating attraction ended.

27 More Ways of Creating Attraction, Ways Like…

1) Being distant: they don’t say “you don’t know what you got until it’s gone” for nothing. Give a woman the gift of missing you and she will remember how much fun she had with you and demand more. It’s almost like economics: when your “goods” are less available than she wants, your “price” goes up. When your “goods” are available more than she wants, your “price” goes down.

2) Being close: there’s a huge difference between hanging out with the woman you like and making her forget all about the time and where she is. Being close means making the absolute most out of every moment, being spontaneous, having as much fun as possible with her. This works extremely well when you use being distant as the opposite: today it’s 200% fun, tomorrow you’re gone. This is how bad boys do it and why creating attraction is their middle name.

3) Dressing for the occasion: to other people, you are what you wear. Women especially read into details and associate all kinds of things with your clothing style. Therefore, you grab the attention of different types of women with different clothing styles. Example: hip hop clothing is generally associated with thugs, so wear it and you will attract women who have a thing for bad boys more than usual.

4) Being the local maximum: if you know dominance creates attraction, then why not create a setting where you are the leader by definition? How? Organizing a party at your house. It’s YOUR party and YOUR house, therefore you decide what happens. There you’re the local leader, the local maximum. Other examples of the local maximum: the bartender in clubs, the teacher in school, etc. All great jobs to have (or roles to play) for creating attraction.

5) Using the scenery: whether you like it or not, women are easily influenced by scenery. Hell, we all are. Watching the sun set together, having a candlelit dinner. Women think it’s very romantic, so creating attraction is real easy in these kinds of circumstances. So, create the scenery and you create attraction!

6) Letting her identify with you: creating attraction isn’t “just” about sexual tension. For women it’s also about feeling a connection. One way of creating that connection is finding common interests. Another way is finding common experiences that make her identify with you. Example: she thinks government sucks because of XYZ, then you give an example of when government sucked in your life. It’s as simple as experiences, values, and opinions you have in common.

7) Being a psychological powerhouse: it can be as simple as explaining to a woman what I am explaining to you right now (which is the psychology behind dating). Or it can be asking her about difficult moments in her life and then telling her how that would probably have made her feel before she herself tells you. In short: telling a woman how she works and how she feels before she ever told you turns her on. That’s creating attraction in a major way right there!

8 ) Be extremely direct: it never ceases to amaze me how many men don’t have the balls to walk up to a woman who keeps staring at them (because she’s interested) and straight up “mouth rape” her. These days us guys over-think absolutely everything wayyyyy too much. Start living life with your body again. Don’t ask, do. If she likes you, don’t talk, kiss. Women secretly love this extremely direct physical approach to dating. Proof: buy one of those sleazy romance novels women always read and you’ll agree with me, because they’re filled with extremely direct make out sessions.

9) Being a novelty seeker: during the hippy days scientists wanted to know which hippies got the most flower power women. The result: the men who did novel stuff, stuff most people don’t do, don’t dare to do, don’t do yet, and so on. Makes sense too, because women want to escape from their boring every daily lives and the perfect way to forget it is… doing something new! Here creating attraction equals being adventurous with her.

10) Playfully teasing her: instead of kissing ass, being impressed by looks, and chasing women around like every other guy does… you’re mocking women in a not so serious way. They love it, because they know you don’t care about how they look and only about who they are. It makes you a challenge to get and women love the thrill of the chase as much as we do. Plus, they love humor!

Like my insights so far? If so, then you’ll be happy to know that…

Creating Attraction Doesn’t Stop Here, Because You Can Also:

11) Use your sense of humor: it’s the ability to turn normal situations into exciting ones because you make them funny. Once again this makes women forget about the boring routines and obligations their everyday life is usually filled with. Plus, making fun of yourself shows a woman that you are truly confident because you mock your own weaknesses and don’t care if she knows or not. This is what creating attraction is all about.

12) Use role plays when meeting women: most women love to take pictures of themselves and others. Maybe it’s a way to act out their top model fantasy, maybe not. Whatever’s the case, if you know most women love photo’s then why not go out there into the big bad world with a camera and be a photographer for a day who asks the ladies if they want their picture taken? And if you know a woman loves Italy or pasta or whatever, why not play a mobster for once? These kinds of role plays get women to notice you and to feel attracted to you, because you ARE what they like come to life. She loves fast cars? Be her racer. She loves Latin America? Be her salsa partner on the dance floor, etc.

13) Let her be someone else for a change: everybody has fantasies about what it would be like to be a … for a change. Women do too. They fantasize what it’s like to be an actress, a singer, a dancer, a mother, and sometimes even a pornstar (although they would never admit it). So let them be all those things in a playful way for a change: challenge them to play a nurse when you’re sick, to kick everyone’s ass on the dance floor with her and your moves, and so on. Creating attraction is sometimes nothing more than letting a fantasy come true.

14) Show your talent: you have at least 1 thing you can’t stop doing it, talking about it, trying to get even better at, etc. Women love it. This way of creating attraction is so powerful that even if a woman hates classical music, she will be attracted to you when you show your talent behind the piano. The reason? Beats me, but it works. So do it: show your talent!

15) Show your genuine interest: a woman knows men fall for looks and there are a lot of good looking women out there. So, if she knows a guy only likes her body? She knows it’s not real because he can like another woman’s body just as easily. She wants to know that you like her as a person, not as a piece of meat. Therefore women are attracted to men who show a genuine interest, who show “I like you for you and not for your big boobs.” Being persistent is the best way to show you’re real.

16) Rescue her if you want to start creating attraction: one of the ultimate female fantasies is the knight in shiny armor that comes to save her from the dragon (everything that’s wrong in her life). This is so powerful, that a woman will be attracted to you subconsciously even when you simply catch her when she accidentally falls. Warning: doing all her work or homework isn’t rescuing her. Rescuing her is being there when she’s in big trouble, like helping her with her work because she will get fired if she has not completed it by tomorrow. Stuff like that.

17) Exploit a common interest: social psychology proved that people like other people that are similar to them more and more easily than people who are different. Translation: attracting women is as easy as finding common interests and enjoying them together. Common interests create a deep connection and that amplifies the effect of creating attraction.

18 ) Love what women love: a woman starts noticing the difference between men and women as soon as she can talk, because she can talk about everything with other women but not with men. Plus, she likes very different things. Secretly, she hopes to find a man she CAN talk about everything with and she CAN watch a chick flick with without him falling asleep. There’s no better way to create a connection with women than by being able to talk about everything with them.

19) Always be positive: it’s a different form of being confident, really. Because if bad stuff happens to you, her, or the both of you, but you keep smiling? You keep making the most of it? You survive all of the bullsh*t that life throws at you? Then women can do nothing but think you’re strong and that you’re confident as hell. So, love the bright side of life dude. That’s already enough to start creating attraction, believe it or not.

20) Show your flaws every now and then: saying you aren’t scared during a horror movie is somewhat attractive to women because it’s showing confidence. BUT, there’s no better way to show confidence than to admitting you made a mistake or have a weakness to a woman and not getting upset or uncomfortable when doing it. It’s being confident because it shows women you can allow yourself to be vulnerable without feeling bad about it.

21) Make her jealous: if a girl is interested in you but suddenly sees that she has competition from another girl who also seems to want you? Then all of a sudden you’re hard to get… and women love the thrill of the chase. Humans have huge egos, because secretly women want to keep you all to themselves as soon as they feel attracted to you. Funny how creating attraction can be nothing more than stroking people’s egos isn’t it?

22) Be able to walk away when it comes to creating attraction: nothing radiates more confidence, dominance, and masculinity than giving her “take it or leave it moments.” She doesn’t like how you decorated your house, well, you can always NOT come over again. She doesn’t want to go to the movies with you on a date? Fine, then no date. I think you get the picture: show her you have a strong will and absolutely no desire to compensate or give in, ever.

23) Have a goal in life that’s bigger than you: having a big goal makes you different and thus attractive because almost no man has true, long term goals these days. Not only that, it also makes you hard to get even if she gets you as her man: she will always be in competition with your goal to get your attention and love, so she will always have to chase you. And remember: women love the thrill of the chase! Having a goal is closely related to another way of creating attraction, always leaving her wanting more… but more on that later.

24) Be persistent: it’s showing a girl you believe in yourself (confidence), it’s showing her you like her for who she is (showing a genuine interest), and more. It’s a combination of a lot of attractive traits I have already mentioned. In short: not giving up is hot to women, it’s what creating attraction is all about man! Hell, even with little things like trying to repair your TV while you failed ten times already. It works. And keeps working.

25) Be the trendsetter: it’s being dominant in a very subtle way, and dominance creates attraction. Being a trendsetter is nothing more than being the dominant force in any area of life that other people seem to follow. Example of how to do this: be one of the first to own the iPhone 4 999 GB or whatever. When all kinds of other people in her social circle start to get it, then a woman knows you led the way. You can set the trend with music, electronics, and so on. It’s easy!

26) Always leave her wanting more: ever saw your favorite show on TV and it was this awesome episode where things got really exciting and before you even knew how it ended you saw a “To be continued…”? You made sure you saw the episode after that because you wanted more, right? Creating attraction works in exactly the same way. Don’t tell your whole story today; tell something today and MAYBE more tomorrow. I think you get the picture.

27) Say “NO” more than you say “YES”: women are used to men who agree with them, chase them around, who give endless compliments, and so on. In short: they expect men to say “YES”, especially when it comes to sex or other physical contact. Guess what happens when you say “NO” you can’t kiss me on this first date? What happens when you say “NO” you can’t just jump on me and have sex? Then you are the hardest men to get they know and they just have to have you. It’s as simple as that.

Quoting the Looney Tunes pig: ah tha tha… that’s all folks! Enough about creating attraction.

Let me guess: before you started reading this blog post you didn’t know there were so many ways of creating attraction, did you? But there really are! And with a little effort? You can learn all of them in a couple of weeks.

Two Other Ingredients For Creating Attraction You’ll Need…

I have to be honest with you: you need to improve your confidence to do it and you need to work for it just a little bit. But no worries my friend: my Inner Game newsletter with free tips for your confidence, and for creating attraction, will help you. Make sure you get it, because it makes playing the dating game much easier for you.

On a lighter note: those cans with Pringles chips in the supermarket have all kinds of ways of creating attraction as well because, man, I can’t stop “accidentally” ending up in their isle and buying them! It has gotten to the point where other people watch movies with popcorn, but crazy old me? I watch movies with Pringles these days. Lame!

Maybe I should write a blog about creating attraction with food or… or… attracting women with your addictions? Okay, time for me to shut up now. This strong cup of coffee I’m drinking now is making me hallucinate, lol!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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