The antidote to this unnatural I’m-just-a-harmless-dude-trying-to-be-friends approach is to do the OPPOSITE. Make her think of you as someone she could have feelings for other than the platonic kind.

Don’t act like you’re doing something wrong by flirting with her. Women like a little boldness, although admittedly it can be a bit of delicate tightrope to walk.

That’s probably why so many guys are afraid of approaching women. Not only do they have trouble creating attraction and avoiding the “friends” approach, they also struggle NOT to come across as creepy or inappropriate.

But that’s still not an excuse for you NOT to take the right approach.

#3: Don’t Trigger Her He’s-Hitting-On-Me Alarm

Here’s what you do: don’t spell it out that you’re into her, but don’t exactly hide it either.

You need to keep her from thinking that you’re just another pal of hers. At the same time however, she shouldn’t think that you need something from her (i.e. sex, a relationship).

That means you’ll have to create an ideal mix of excitement and romantic intrigue to keep her on her toes. As I pointed out a while ago, it’s all about BALANCE.

The best way to go about it is making it seem like you think of her as “one of the boys”. Throw in a few key lines into your conversation like, “You seem like an awesome friend to hang out with.”

This will turn the tables on her and give YOU the leverage that you need.

But here’s the catch – while you’re doing this, you also have to add a dash of playful banter (a.k.a. flirting). This will mess with her head in a good way.

Let me be clear; I’m not saying you should play with a girl’s feelings if you’re not really interested in her.

What I am saying is that there’s nothing underhanded about using a little strategic MISDIRECTION to shut off her “he’s coming on to me” defenses.

The reality is that hot women get approached all the time by guys who are either too obvious about their romantic intentions…

…or those who act like they’re “friends” but actually want something more.

Being either one of these guys makes you look NEEDY. And when you need something from her, it automatically gives her the higher ground.

That’s not a good position to be in.

By making it look like you’re not after a romantic relationship WHILE dropping hints about your true feelings, she’ll wonder why you’re not tripping over yourself from worshipping the ground she walks on.

Let’s face it – women like wielding that power over us. And not giving it to them will make them chase YOU instead.

So remember, you should never feel ashamed of your sex drive, nor mute it by being her “friend”.

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