#3: Approach it From a Different Angle

Ok, now that you’ve given yourself time to work through your feelings, you’re ready to move on to looking back at the relationship.

The biggest mistake is to think that the breakup was all on you. Any relationship involves two people who both contributed to the end result.

Blaming yourself for everything that happened is going to keep you from looking back objectively. Worse, you’ll end up begging your ex to forgive you when you aren’t even sure how things really ended.

That said, don’t treat the breakup as a sign that your ex was too good for you, which is the mindset for a lot of guys. You didn’t go separate ways because you didn’t deserve her.

Instead, you’ll uncover the real reasons by looking at both sides of the picture. Think about all the things that you liked about her and the relationship, then contrast that with what you could have done better.

You may not like what you’ll uncover, but at least you can use what you learned to keep history from repeating itself.

That’s all it really takes: a healthy perspective to work from. Pretty soon, you’ll be in a better place, emotionally speaking.

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Stay Alpha…

– Carlos Xuma