Now…let´s go a little more IN-DEPTH on the stuff we discussed in the first part of this article. I don’t want to confuse anyone, so it’s important to start with the first part and THEN digest this sequel to it. Now: He who controls the frame, controls the interaction. Examples of frames: boss-employee, parent-child, buyer-seller etc. We are attracted to people with higher status then ourselves, so we should use the opportunity to assume the most favorable stance: the dominant one. You convey this by conversational scaling: show your upper hand by keeping her challenged while remaining calm. There are three techniques for this: the picky buyer stance, playful teasing and active challenging. But let’s go from the general terms to applying them to Foreignality here.

Being Picky, Challenging And Teasing Her Part II

The best part of it all is that when you tease, challenge and/or be picky ABOUT someone’s foreignality you basically put them in a double bind: you’re busting their balls AND there is very little to reply on. Example: let’s say your american and the foreign woman of choice is Chinese. I can start about her being involved in a secret consipracy to overthrow the American government and start another chopstick communist state, I can give her pen and paper, be silent…and when she asks what it’s for: ahhh..come on! Don’t be greedy with your uncle’s autograph and go ask him! I really liked Shanghai Knights! Jackie Chan is the greatest, etc. etc. But what has she to bring to the table to top your teases? Exactly…almost nothing. And if she tries, let´s go a little more in-depth with the framesetting because we can´t possibly expect her to sit still and agree with all the outrageous stuff you´re saying, right?
– If she denies them, accuse her of being in the denial phase, after which comes acceptance, embracement and finnaly…healing (lol!)
– If she gets grumpy accuse her of taking things to personally, advise her to go the the drug store to get a subscription for chill pills
– If she counters, STILL accuse her of taking things to personally and being a covert patriot for defending her country too much, awhh..how cute, the (fill in ethnicity) are trying to defend themselves…I think it’s time for another…(name your country tragedy here)
– Etc. you go and be original now and make up your own.
And remember with all this nationality ball busting one rule is a KILLER: the returning joke. It means when you find an effective ball buster, fall back on it…whenever she tries to tease/challenge herself. Each country has it’s own stereotypes, DO use them and exagerate whenever possible (just don’t overdo it without playful humor or you’ll become a racist). Example: mexicans (latins) are said to have a short fuse and get angry very quickly. So…whenever that mexican gets grumpy/is angry about something etc. say: you know what…I have to go, because whenever you (her people) get angry? Things start to magically fly around towards people´s heads..and THIS Einstein still needs his.
So BE creative and when you yourself go blank? www.google.com my friend.

The Reversal: Use Their Foreignality Against Their Little Smart *ss

Being picky with foreign women is almost TOO easy. So…I´ve come up with an entire technique to exploit this. Use it if she’s trying to be picky first, is grumpy or has her period, tries to tease or challenge, does or says something stupid, whenever she doesn’t know something herself or when people ask, etc. etc. Basically the reversal means using the us vs. them approach in your challenging/being picky/teasing behavior. Here are some examples with the us being americans and the them being mexicans:

– -sigh-…always those Mexicans…
– And I thought us Americans didn’t know anything…but we ain’t got SHIT on you mexicans! (when she doesn’t know something)
– And I thought us Americans were dumb brutes…but now I know my first real, live mexican? I know better! (when she does/says something dumb)
– Well…you KNOW what they say about Mexicans…(in reply to a tease, challenge or picky line from her…and then NEVER say what it is > gives you being mysterious as a bonus)
– Well…I don’t know how YOUR people usually do it, but HERE we have…manners/food that doesn’t look like it’s ment for dogs/etc. etc. (when she brags about nationality..usually happens after you bust on her as a reply, the manners line can be used whenever she forgets asking how you are, how your day was, saying her name, etc.)
– It’s cute..how you’re being the snobby Mexican and all, but I KNOW you have a fetisj for Americans..admit it. (when she brags or replies on picky/teases/challenges) The reversal always comes across as a being picky technique, with here and there involving the other frames…depending on which line you use. What is does is exploit HER foreignality (her x-factor) by comparing to the higher standard: YOUR standard. She has to live up to your world purely because she is from a certain background and you’re being picky about it.

Dealing With Multi-Nationality Women

Off course the world isn´t as simple as we sometimes want it to be. You´re maybe thinking by now: yeah but what if she´s a mix of several nationalities? This is a typical case of a limiting belief. I would say: long live the UN, lol. Now onto the girl that´s a chinese-american mix as an example, and then you´ll now why multi-nationality is EVEN BETTER:

– Wow, that’s one strange mix right there. You aren’t as strange as your mix, are you?
– I wonder…how did your parents meet? I mean…America is WAY over here and China is allllll the way over there! (Do this while holding out your hands and describe a map, dramatize: spread your left arm as wide as you can and point the first country of hers to be here then lower your right arm, bend a little through the knees and point the furthest distance you can get to physically). > For 2 countries, otherwise you’ll be pointing your ASS off
– What the f…! Your both American…AND Chinese? Your family was on MTV’s Dismissed global edition, wasn’t it? (can be for any amount of nationalities)
– DAMN girl…how long…just HOW long have your parents been working for the UN? (when dealing with 3 or more nationalities or global baby’s as I like to call them)
– Now THAT is one FREAKY ass mix! The UN don’t have SHIT on you girl! (same as above)

It also offers unique benefits to talk to a girl whose origins come from multiple countries. Whenever she’s in doubt about something, thinking to long or being quiet to long? Say: damn…you can’t make up your mind can you? Do we have a little…doubter here? It must be your DNA, I mean seriously…
– even your BLOOD can’t make up it’s mind on where it’s from and where it’s going!
– you are JUST as indecisive as your BLOOD is..am I American? Im a Chinese? Make up your damn mind already!

So…accuse her of being indecisive…JUST like her nationality. You can also tease on what the combination of stereotypes would look like, f.e. American-Chinese: if she’s being smart say Oh no! Here comes the wild western cowgirl shooting with Buddhist knowledge! Im so scared right now! etc. Girls love outrageousness, simply for the fact that it´ll shake them out of their boring day-to-day lives. Now with that in mind, what happens if you have a multi-nationality woman…and start to mix multiple stereotypes in ONE being picky/teasing/challenging comment? YES, it´s outrageousness. That´s why multi-nationality women are so wonderful to talk to.

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Onward…

Foreignality & Body Language

Remember that words are only about 5% of our communication, the other 95 is body language, voice tone and use, etc.? Well guess what: there are a lot of ways you can use it to your advantage. Off course in every conversation the general rules for body language and voice tone apply: you can be picky about things she says just by giving her the eyebrow, having a deep calm voice, etc. But what about applying body language to foreign women specifically? These techniques are the KILLERS. And here´s how you pull it off:

– Ever noticed how certain kinds of people have certain kinds of accents (and are being stereotyped about it)? Indians talk like Abu from the Simpsons, Chinese give you white ´lice´ and make your steak medium ´lale´, latins can´t stop saying homz, texans are something else, etc.? Guess what…when you´re in the middle of conversation and the teasing goes back and forth, you can throw in the slang/accent. She´ll slap your arm for it (that´s kino remember?), she´ll tell you you´re so mean, rude, etc. (evidence that she sees you as higher status), she´ll propably beg you to stop. And with that last one, how about throwing in a: make me! Or a what do I get in return? VERY powerful stuff.

– Ever noticed how certain kinds of people have a certain kind of DRESS STYLE? Mexicans wear sombreros and poncho´s, Indians all have the red dot on their forehead, etc. Off course these are stereotypes you can tease/be picky or challenge with…but how about doing them one better and SHOW them?! Example:

I once went out with this mexican girl, and since the stereotype is that they love backyard party´s? I got a bunch of my friends and girls together in my backyard…party, lol! I picked her up in the central shopping street here and ´all of a sudden´ (I planned it and walked past it on purpose) I came across this sombrero. I put it on and: Hey look at my cool sombrero homz! I like amigo! Hello my name is Mariella and I´m too proud of my stupid tacos! Etc. etc. She was laughing her ass off, slapped my arm and thought I was sooo mean, and I took it off. We got to my place and after I introduced her I started to tease her again. She thought she was smart when she had a nice little reply for one of my comments and then…I put the sombrero back on and started all over again. Everybody was laughing now and she begged me to stop, so I said make me after which she kissed me because she ´wanted me to shut up and with her lips on mine I couldn´t talk that dumb stuff anymore.´ Or so she thought, because I pushed her off my lap, stood up and went on and asked what was in it for me if I stopped to please her. She pulled me inside my house and the rest is history..for my bed!

There are TONS of props like the one above you can use on ANY type of foreign woman, so like I said before: see what fits her stereotypes and be creative.

The Bigger Picture

Onto the eye-opener I want to end the foreignality chapter with…
When you think of foreign people, you automatically start to think of wayyyy across the globe aren´t you?

But WHAT IF…you started to think of foreign as unfamiliar to your location? Think about it: do certain regions in your country have stereotypes, x-factors, about them? (such as that only steers and queers come from Texas?) Do certain cities have stereotypes about them? (if you´re from Vegas you´re either a stripper/hooker/pornstar, a gambler or a mobster). In other words: EVERY location on earth, no matter if it´s a country, a region, a city, a neighborhood or EVEN a certain school…has it´s stereotypes, it’s x-factor. Yale has it´s bulldog you can use as a prop, texans have..well, a LOT.

And WHAT IF…you saw EVERY stereotype type out there as a foreignality, an x-factor to play around with? Blondes, nerds, mailmen, etc.? So WHY don´t you start to see every woman outside your door as being foreign?

There´s a thousand-and-then-some ways of using the full potential of foreignality, so be creative, go read up on some stereotypes and then use it to your advantage out there! Foreignality makes EVERY little facet of a woman’s background connectable to the stereotypes…which gives you a HUGE amount of material to be picky about, challenge about, tease about, roleplay with, storytell and anchor on, etc. etc.

It gives YOU the power to be as unique as you possibly can be, because using canned opening lines on hot women ISN’T unique…BUT accusing her of being a total Star Wars freak, Bill Gates fanclub president + brainiac bookwurm just for wearing glasses IS (and that was just ONE example of using the nerd stereotype).

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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