You know…some people tell me I tease women too much, bust their balls too often or whatever you want to call it and that it’s very “beginner” of me to tease women the way that I do…and I don’t blame those dumb asses for not knowing me that well.

There are…also some people who think being sexual (one of the attractive character traits) is about being naughty and talking about sex all day…and I don’t blame THOSE dumb asses for knowing SEXUALITY not that well…

And today, I want to straigthen some things out and talk to all you readers out there about being sexual…and we’ll kick this series off with being a gentleman.

But Wait A Damn Minute! Isn’t Being A Gentleman, Being A WUSSY?

If you ONLY knew…because if there wasn’t no sex going on AT ALL during the 1800s, 1900s and so on because there was no attraction? YOU would not be alive today because of your dry spell great great grandfather!

You see, being sexual is always looked upon as “one thing” instead of TWO very unique mindsets. We have…
– The badboy mindset – raw sexuality, sex topics, being naughty, hard
– The gentleman mindset – charming, romantic, complimentary, witty conversation, smooth

The badboy mindset is for a later article, because I’m going to prove how being a charming, smooth, suave individual can help your game out a LOT!

How Being Charming Can Open Doors…

And then men say a gentleman is something for chick flicks and romance novels, as if!
Because I’m going to share with you RIGHT NOW why it’s so powerful with a little story…

You’re going to a fancy restaurant at her expensive and she let you pick the place, which is off course “La Bella Figura”, this BIG, Italian restaurant with nothing but the finest wines, candles, soft music and delicious courses.
So, you park the car in the parking lot not far from there and get out the car, telling her to stay there and sit. You walk to the other end of the car, open the door for her, grab her hand softly and help her get out the car while saying: “It’s always a treat to help such a beautiful lady, if you need more help…(pause) just let me know” and you wink at her, she giggles…

< STOP > Do you see what’s happening here?
1) Being a wussy is being her loveslave, letting her decide everything and let HER be in control, but as you can see…when you do it right? You’re in control because you A) tell her to stay and B) guiding her out of the car while controlling her hand…that’s 2 times being dominant guys!
2) No woman on the WORLD will mind you saying to her she’s beautiful, that makes HER feel sexual…and combine that with the insinuation behind need more help plus the pause and wink? And you’ve just been naughty yourself and made her feel sexual…
< END > Let’s continue….

You grab her hand “come on” as you walk to the door of the La Bella Figura and as soon as you’ve reached the door, you let go off her hand…open the door and tell her “Ladies first.”After you let her enter, you’re still holding the door and watch her curves moves, she sees you checking her out, you say “you have such an elegant pace about you” with a wink, she miles..
You continue towards your table after getting rid off the coats, hold out a chair for her and gesture her to sit down and as soon as she tries to…you “accidently” and quickly pull it out to far, and then push it back again “oops..” with a slight smile and she giggles again…

< STOP > Do you see what’s happening here?
1) Again I’m being dominant by taking her hand and guiding her towards the door, let her wait while I open it and then let her proceed…being dominant was an attraction building chracter trait remember?
2) You’re looking at her fine little figure, she discovers it but compliment her on the way she moves her hips (which a sign of femininity guys!) and she lets you continue with a smile because of your charm…because men compliment on tits, ass, make up etc. the obvious signs of femininity which EVERYONE compliments, making it sound insencere. But you? You compliment her on her subtle signs of femininity, which no one has complimented before…
3) You tease her by pretending to make her fall to the floor, but at the lost moment don’t…and comment on it like it was an accident while the both of you know better. She’s giggling but what happened? You’re not being picky, you’re not challenging, you’re not cocky & funny, you’re not mysterious, you’re not being outrageous, you’re not being funny…so how can that be? You’re charming, and being a gentleman. There’s power in subtle ways my son.
< END >

Onward…

You have a nice little dinner, she handles the check and you two are on your way out…and you hold her coat for her so she can slide into it and say “but only because you’re cute”. She giggles. “Is it warm enough for you?” You say, rubbing her coat while looking at your own…”yes” she answers with a smile. You open the door for her again, guide her through it, open the door of the car and let her in and are driving home, ready to drop her at her parents home, whom you’ve never met before.
You walk her to the door, ring the bell and wait for her parents to open up but on your way to the door? She almost trips, you catch her and say “Be careful of your tender little body silly, you don’t want to hurt it, you might be needing it later…” and wink, she giggles again. Ms. Walters, her mother, opens the door “is this him? how nice to meet youuu son, welcome! Come in, come in!” she says. “Wow…now I see where you get your good looks from baby. If I would have known, I would bring some flowers…” you say, winking at her mother…who immediately has a big smile on her face and looks at her daughter with that certain look…

< STOP > Do you see what’s happening here?
1) Next to guiding her to the door and car and letting her feel sexual again while handing her that coat,
2) She trips on the way to the door and what do you do? Again a subtle insinuation, because without ever saying you want to fuck her brains out? She knows EXACTLY what you mean…
3) Her mother opens and right after she lets you in, you compliment HER for HER looks TWICE (the good luks run in the family part and the flowers part)…and guess what happens when a woman sees you’re kind & charming to all women? Let alone that look mother and daughter have, that’s “he’s a keeper” look, because they both look at each other and know what the other is thinking: he’s a gentleman…a master of subtle sexuality…

Still think being a gentleman is gay? Or that being sexual is all about saying things about sex or doing naughty things to her? No? Yeah I thought so.

And hey, be sure to check out this blog post I wrote about how to approach a girl you like as a true gentleman. I just know you’ll LOVE it! I think it is must read if you want to know everything there is to know about approaching girls.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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