Fifty Shades of Grey – How I Survived THAT Movie
#2: Women Want You to Take Charge
Ok, let’s be absolutely clear on this. I don’t mean that you should feel superior to women or put them down.
As empowered women are today, they have a deep, basic need to surrender themselves to someone they can trust. This is exactly the fantasy that Fifty Shades of Grey taps into.
After all, the movie is built on a woman’s desire to be RAVISHED by the guy in her life.
She may be on top of every other aspect of her life, but it’s a different ballgame when it comes to intimate relationships. On some level, she wants the freedom to give up responsibility and feel her guy’s masculine strength.
You can capitalize on that by learning how to sweep a girl off her feet, especially when it comes to matters in the bedroom. Which brings me to my next point…
#3: Communicate Your Desires
If you really want to rock her world under the sheets, you’ll have to know how to turn her on.
Look, this movie is proof that to some extent, women WANT to be dominated by their partner. Why else are women lining up to see Anastasia get tied up and have Christian do naughty things to her?
But every woman’s comfort level is different. Talk to your woman about what she likes in bed and meet each other halfway with your respective desires.
Granted that her sexual fantasies isn’t the easiest topic to broach with your lady, you should still look out for an opportunity to probe for answers.
For instance, you could ask her during foreplay: “What do you want me to do to you?”
Or when the topic of sex comes up, make it look like you wanted to know what women in general think (even though it’s her own thoughts you’re really interested in):
“Actually, I was wondering – what would most women would want in bed?”
And if you’ve already seen the movie with her, it’s the perfect time to ask away:
“Do you think most women would want something like that? What kind of contract would you make if you were Anastasia?”
One thing’s for sure: Fifty Shades of Grey struck a nerve with the ladies, and the best thing a guy could do is learn from it.
As it happens, my Sexual Alpha Power course can help you create that same primal effect on women by boosting your masculine essence through the roof.
Stay Alpha,
– Carlos Xuma
