How To Meet Women – With No Fear And No Rejection – Part 1
Why do we do this to ourselves?
Why do guys force themselves to walk up to women and start a conversation?
Well, I suppose the answer is really pretty basic and obvious. If we didn’t, nothing would really happen. Women understand intuitively that it’s the man’s job to approach.
I believe that this one burden men have to bear is part of a bigger picture of evolutionary design. After all, we are demonstrating that we have the balls and the fortitude to talk to her – and risk possible rejection.
If we couldn’t do that, could she expect us to protect her and to keep her safe?
Probably not.
So the unfortunate side effect is that if we don’t find the courage to chat a girl up, we’re at risk of being kicked out of the gene pool… for good. But the real danger is that most men will rush into a relationship with a woman that is below their standards – they will settle – simply because their inner fear of having to approach women (or be alone) will get the better of them.
You might even find this fact shocking: Many hot women have told me that they rate themselves lower in appearance than most of the women, and men, they’ve met. I find that they frequently have a distorted self-image about specific areas of their appearance. It’s been shown again and again in surveys and studies that our opinion of our cability tends to be highly over-rated, but our evaluation of our own appearance and looks is almost alwaysunder-rated.
