3) Get some perspective

Think about it: Would you have a problem going up and talking to a woman if you saw that she had dropped something, like her bracelet or necklace? Seems like a pretty legit excuse, right?

So why is it so hard to give her the “gift” of meeting you?

Seems kinda crazy when I say it like that, but it’s true. You are worth way more to her in fun and sexy times than that piece of jewelry every will be.

And think of it this way, too: You miss every shot you don’t take. So when you talk yourself out of trying, you’re not keeping things “the same” or maintaining some kind of status quo… you’re really one down. You’ve lost because you didn’t act.

If you look at it that way, it becomes very uncomfortable to just let those opportunities slip away, doesn’t it?

4) Have an easy opener to get things started

The most common excuse guys have for not talking to a woman is that they “don’t have anything to say.” Which is really a lame excuse. The reality is that their panicked mind is trying to come up with any reason to not take a chance.

Just have a quick and easy conversation starter to get her talking. I’ll share mine:

“Hey, I was just about to leave when I saw you over here. I knew I’d kick myself if I didn’t come over and say hello. My name is Carlos…”

Ba-da-boom. You’re in. It took less than 10 seconds, and now you’ve got the makings of a conversation.

Oh, and that “line” has never failed me yet. Not once.

How’s that for guaranteed?

The key is for you to simply start ignoring that voice you’ve rehearsed in your head. You know,that one. The one that says “You can’t…” even when you know you can. That’s all “confidence” really is, after all.

 

And sooner than you can possibly imagine, you’ll find yourself dating more women than ever before.

No more settling…

No more rejection…

No more missing out on the good stuff… The women you want, and the success you deserve.

Live The Alpha Lifestyle – get everything you deserve as a man…

Stay Alpha…

– Carlos Xuma