How to build a REAL connection –  Step 2: Be a good listener

It’s not enough that you just let her talk. You have to genuinely listen. Be interested in what she’s saying.

You can try and fake it… but most likely she’ll figure it out that you’re not really there. And when she does, you’ll lose that connection in a heartbeat.

Effort and time wasted.

So, it’s best to really pay attention to what she’s saying. Occasionally nod your head, maintain eye contact at all times, repeat what she’s saying and give a response from time to time.

Those indicators will make her feel a building attraction and connection to you.

You just have to nod and smile, and she’ll do all the work for you.

How to build a REAL connection – Step 3: Relate to her

When you let her talk and you attentively listen, you can share some of your personal stories too.

Like after she tells you all the details about her work problems, tell her how you experienced something similar. Your “shared” experiences will make her feel she can relate to you. This will be the start of her trusting you, because we only related to people who we think are like ourselves.

When she starts to trust you, she’ll lower her guard and feel safe around you. Always remember, women open up and get sexually intimate with the man who GETS her and allows her to discuss her favorite topic – herself.

Allow her to share her passion, hopes, dreams, and fears. All this stuff is invaluable to know what type of woman she is – and make your seduction that much easier.

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Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma