Why you’re getting rejected (and how to stop it)
Reason #3: Lack of stability
Ever wondered why women are attracted to guys with expensive cars, or prestigious job titles?
It’s because of the security and stability that comes with it.
Whatever the background of the woman is, or what her intentions are…it’s all the same. She wants to feel secure, and she can’t help being attracted to a guy who can provide that security.
It’s not gold-digging, it’s instinctual. There was a point in time not so long ago (just a few hundred years, really) where a woman needed a man to help ensure her survival. That instinct doesn’t go away overnight.
So how do you stop getting rejected?
ACKNOWLEDGE these things I just told you, and DO SOMETHING about them.
You need to stop the worrying and start the “DOING” process.
Here’s what you can do.
Begin the process of CHANGE
Create action plans on how to get to your goal of being a confident man.
You can do so by investing in yourself.
If you know you’re not dressing as well as you could, then ask someone to help you shop for a new wardrobe. If you feel your body isn’t fit, then start going to the gym. (And NO, you do not need to be ripped like one of those guys on the front of Men’s Health.)
Insecurities are something we all deal with, but unfortunately few guys ever really make any progress in overcoming them.
One look and you’ll know this was your destiny…
Stay Alpha…
– Carlos Xuma