Women Aren’t Attracted To You If You’re Doing These
“I just don’t get it, man,” my good friend Steve said while chugging down his third beer, “things were going great and we were already making out.”
He was already three dates into a girl he really liked when he got the “You’re a nice guy but it’s just not working out” speech from her.
“I thought it was turning into something serious, then she dumped me out of the blue…over a text message! I mean seriously, who does that?”
Then he finished it off by saying, “After all that hard work, she just threw it in my face. God, why do I even bother?”
And that right there, is one of the biggest reasons why guys lose out with women.
I’ve seen a lot of other men like Steve utter that line in similar situations, which brings us to the first problem that typically plagues men…
#1: Having an “Entitlement Mentality”
I feel for guys who put in the effort, learn how to pick up women and try their luck. It’s not easy putting your ego on the chopping block, hoping the girl you like doesn’t chop it into a million pieces and flush it down the drain.
But it happens anyway – all the time.
So guys get bitter over getting burned. Then they develop this belief that women should throw themselves at guys just for showing up.
It’s what “nice” guys whine about: “Why aren’t women into me for being a harmless, non-threatening dude, unlike those a-holes who treat them like crap?”
It’s like saying you deserve a medal for not going to jail for shooting someone or robbing a bank.
Of course you’re supposed to be a decent human being! People don’t have to thank you for that.
Nothing hurts like a bitch more than rejection, I know. But if you’re going to flip out about it, you’re only making it worse for yourself.
As a matter of fact, you’ll let yourself slip deeper into your self-made downward spiral if you’re not careful. That’s why you have to avoid…
