How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Author: Carlos

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A Quick Guide To Shit Tests

I have this friend of mine.

He’s got sick game – if you’re a single guy hitting the scene, you would love to go out with him.

And if you’re a guy looking for that one awesome girlfriend, he’d be the perfect guy to hit the scene with too, since he always seem to meet a future girlfriend when we go out together.

He’s great at opening, getting physical, winging and has an awesome, positive attitude about everything.\

A true badass.

But he has one skill that could be better, one he’s currently working on, one that A LOT of guys struggle with at first.

It’s getting tested, or more precisely, passing tests.

We know girls are going to test you, especially if you’re leading things somewhere sexual.

And if you’re in a relationship, they’re going to test you EVEN MORE because they constantly want to make sure they’re not investing in mediocrity.

Women testing you is as inevitable as me going crazy with vodka red bull on my birthday.

But do you know why they really test?

Why they almost always feel a need to throw it back at you first before they excitedly surrender to …

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Kai Zen – The Art Of Con?dence With Women (Cont?d)

Last time we discussed why your foundation may be weak. Business could be good, you may think you have everything under control, but something is not right.

You may have switched into “provider” mode and are focusing on success.

You have stopped the “courting” phase, and your lady is drifting and you don?t know why, or maybe you don?t even see it.

You think you are doing everything right, but something feels wrong.

This goes for whether you are seeing different ladies, or you have found one that you really like and have been together awhile. No matter where you are, the more solid your foundation is, the more solid your game will be.

Kai Zen – constantly improving yourself, can strengthen that foundation and you will be far more aware and in control of your dating and/or relationship status.

If you know something is going wrong, you can ?x it!

Maybe you have been in that situation before, or headed there soon. You may already be there and truly not know it, like I was. No matter where you are, it may not be too late to turn it around. You can not only save a dying relationship, but …

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3 Signs You’re Not Getting Laid Tonight

Let’s face it – there’s nothing worse than putting a few hours of work into charming a woman, and you’re moving in on home base – only to have her say “No, I’m not ready…”

Or “No, not tonight…”

Or “We’re moving too fast…”

I’m sure you’ve heard one of those, or maybe even a few others.

All of them basically tell you one thing:

You’re not getting laid tonight.

Wouldn’t it be better if you knew this in advance? So you could cut your losses?

Maybe go home and watch a movie or get a few hours extra sleep.

Well, I’m going to share a few of the signs that tell you you’re not getting laid so you can spot this roadblock way in advance.

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Sign #1 that you’re not getting laid tonight:

She’s cold and “different.”

You sense a change in the climate with her. She’s nothing like she was the other night when you were all sunshine and cuddly kittens together.

And the more you try to get that affection and spark going, the more she seems to resist you.

Frankly, the best thing you can do in this situation …