How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Author: Carlos

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Win With Women Is 2 Years Old!

Today my dating blog Win With Women turned 2 years old. And to celebrate, we’ve made a special birthday gift with your name on it. Keep reading to learn more…

Technically, Win With Women just turned 3 years old, because I first started giving dating advice to friends and online in the third week of January, 2008.

However, the blog as you see it before you today, my coaching sessions, the Simple Inner Game System, a team of dedicated people and so on didn’t come into existence until the third week of January, 2009.

And as you can read in the story of how we got started, it took a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to get where we are today. But we took action anyway.

We always tell you to take action if you want to make it in this world, and if you’ve read our story? You’ll know that we practice what we preach.

We’ve defeated lots of enemies, both internal and external. And Win With Women has helped at least 603 men approach 10,854 women, get 2,713 phone numbers, and go on 904 dates. If not more. All during the last couple years.

These past …

How to get her number

How To Get A Girl’s Number In The Blink Of An Eye

Don’t know how to get a girl’s number? I used to be just like you, but I’ve come a long way! And I want to help you with getting a girl’s number fast and easy.

If you want to know how to get a girl’s number faster than you can say, “Charlie Harper ain’t got SHIT on me!”, then read on and pay attention. Your love life depends on this.

You're about to learn how to get a girl's number faster than Charlie Harper does!

Before I show you how to get a girl’s number as easily as Charlie Harper does though, let’s get some nasty stuff out of the way first.

If someone says women are selective bitches who don’t give their phone number to just anyone, you need to start saying: BULLSHIT!

If someone says it’s all a waste of time because most give out fake numbers anyway, you need to start saying: BULLSHIT!

You CAN learn how to get a girl’s number, her REAL digits, without much effort…

Hell, you CAN get tons of phone numbers even if girls says no at first. How? I’m going to show you how to do it today.

But as with most things in life, there’s a wrong way and a right way to do it.…

Approaching women

How To Approach A Girl You Like And Leave Your Fears Behind

Want to know how to approach a girl you like and not become paralyzed with fear at the thought of talking to her? And are you TERRIFIED of approaching girls?

Let’s find out if you’re too scared to approach a girl you like! And then let’s do something about it, so you’ll know how to approach a girl you like, and get her number too, from this day forward.

But before I show you how to approach a girl you like though, it’s time to ask tough questions about approaching girls…

– Do you feel you don’t have the courage to step up to a girl you find attractive?
– Are you confused about what to say, even if you would grow the balls to approach?
– Do you freeze, get all tongue-tied and eventually give up when you try to start a conversation?
– Are you so scared she’ll reject you, that you decide to never approach her?
– Do you feel like you can’t take any more rejection?
– Are you clueless about how to approach a girl you like?

If this is you, then I have to say: I know where you’re coming from. I was …