How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

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Ways to ask a girl out

Approaching women / Ask a girl out

Ways to ask a girl out

I don’t know if there’s a perfect timing for anything dealing with women, least of all when to ask a girl out.

I mean, you never know what her mood will be from one minute to the next, right?

Ways to ask a girl out

Let’s face it… when you want to ask a girl out, you only have one answer you really want:

How do you ask her out so she will say YES?

We want the no-risk, guaranteed strategy that avoids any chance of rejection or failure. Now, we know that’s not possible, but we still want to avoid the embarrassment of a woman saying no.

There are typically two kinds of guys who ask this question:

Guy #1) Will ask her out eventually, and he usually figures out the timing.

It’s when he finally works his courage up.

And then there’s…

Guy #2) Will probably never find the courage to ask her out.

But instead, he hopes that if he analyzes it long enough, she will get around to asking HIM out, therefore avoiding any risk.

Guess what, Guy #2. It’ll never happen.

So if you’re a Guy #1, let’s get down to a few ways to ask a girl out …

Attract women

How To Attract Women – First Date Ideas That Rock

Going on a date might seem like the scariest part of the seduction game, but in reality it’s the opposite – provided you know what to do.

I’m going to cover the essential points of the date, and give you dozens of dating advice tips and strategies you can use. Once you have a solid game in place, your dates will practically run on auto-pilot.

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Keep in mind that dating and attracting a woman is easy when you have a plan to follow, and these strategies can form the framework of your success.

TIMING IS EVERYTHING

Don’t set up a date around lunch hours as much as possible. In fact, first dates should be AFTER 6-7 PM – anything earlier than that could land you in the Friend Zone.

It simply takes more work to create a romantic atmosphere before sundown. Plus, night dates create a better opportunity for her to crash at your place (and all that implies).

The women you’re after (i.e. high value ladies) probably have a full schedule towards the end of the week. Since most of us hate Mondays and the back-to-the-grind stress that it creates, avoid this day as well.

how to prepare for a date

That said, …

How to text women

5 Things to Never Text a Woman

Texting women is like dancing blindfolded through a minefield. Do it right and you’ll wind up happily in bed with the girl of your dreams…

Do it wrong and you’ll be turned into hamburger.

Okay, that may not be the most effective metaphor I’ve ever used, but it’s not too far from the truth. One wrong move and you’re just another deleted contact in her bit-bucket.

Recovery is a bit of a nightmare. Women aren’t likely to give you a second chance these days. It’s too easy for her to just move on to some other guy who gets it.

And these days, it’s next to impossible to get a woman’s attention away from her cell phone.

What to text a girl

Have you ever walked into a crowded Starbucks, only to see 30 people in line, and every one of them is in a trance-like stupor – eyes glued to their smartphone?

I see it all the time, and it’s kinda sobering to see that all the time.

But the good news is that you can use texting to reach women that were previously out of your reach.

I’ve got a few of the worst errors you can make texting, AND some tips …