How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Author: Carlos

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5 Tips For How To Get That Girl

how to get that girlOver the 13 years or so that I’ve been helping guys like you be successful with women, I’ve seen a lot of mistakes, and I’ve also seen those same mistakes turn into some really great lessons on how to get the woman you want.

Doesn’t matter if it’s for a weekend or for months, either.

And I don’t just want to show you how to get a girl to LIKE you… I want these women to fall madly in love – where they would literally drag you into bed for sweaty, no holds barred passion that would embarrass an adult film star.

So what I thought I’d do is to share 5 of my tips for how to get a girl in your life – and in your bed.

Tip 1: Talk Yourself Up – Without Being a Douche

Guys instinctively know that they need to get their accomplishments out on the table in front of her as fast as they can. Unfortunately, most guys do this buy bragging. And that just comes across as douchey.

What you need is a method to tell her about who you are and what you’re capable of, without making it sound like you’re

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how to text a girl

Attract women / Get girls

3 Tips for Texting

What to text a girlIn this age of texting and sexting, one skill you need to have is knowing how to use your phone to call a woman. You have to know how to call her and when to call her to have the best possible phone game.

In fact, if your phone game is tight enough, you can pretty much skip straight to sex without ever having to hang out with her.

One of the biggest problems I hear about from guys is that they can’t text a woman and get a response from her. It’s almost as if she gets off on reading the texts, but never responding.

Check out this email from a guy who had this problem:
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Hey, Carlos –

I was out last week at a few bars, and I met this really cool chick. We were into the same music, and she even liked some of the geeky shows I like on cable.

So I got her number, and I waited until the next day to text her. I just sent her a quick message:

“Hey, what’s up… I’m heading to Steamy’s later… wanna meet me?”

A few minutes go by, and I see on my iPhone …

attract women

Having game / How to understand women

3 Easy Ways To Keep Gold Diggers Out Of Your Life

In this crazy economy, it’s getting harder and harder for men to earn their keep while trying to impress the ladies at the same time. If that’s not enough, guys have to deal with the “men are cheapskates” stereotype as they try their best to make ends meet.

And unfortunately, a lot of guys often make the mistake of spending a good chunk of their hard-earned money on dates and what-not to make their woman feel special, only to be kicked to the curb later on.

The reality is that guys are often at risk of being taken for a ride by unsavory women who’ll leave them high and dry in the end. Whether you’re the CEO of a major corporation or an average dude getting by from paycheck to paycheck, you might meet a girl who makes a game out of sucking men dry (and not in the way you hope).

Golddigger

If this kind of girl senses any emotional weakness in you, she’ll pour honey in your ear and get you to cough up everything you’ve ever worked for.

But you don’t have to be another notch on a gold digger’s belt. With a few simple attitude adjustments, …