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Win With Women

Improve your life / Social skills

10 Types of 30-Year-Old Single Guys

It can be tough breaking into another decade of your life. There’s always that sense of dread along the lines of “What the hell am I doing?”, whether you’re hitting your 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond.

It’s worse when you feel stuck in a rut, especially with your dating life. The older the single dudes get, the more they feel that frustrating need to find a lady friend who’s hot, smart, funny and a tiger in the sack.

Don’t worry, that’s where I come in – you might want to check this out if you need help with that.

By the way, I found this funny article about the common types of guys in their 30s who haven’t found The One just yet.

(If I were you, you’d best check out my product page so you don’t end up like #10.)

In the meantime though, read the article below and see if you can relate to the list – or know someone that fits into one of these guys.

Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma

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Win With Women

Title: 10 Types of 30-Year-Old Single Guys

30-year-old guys are a curious bunch.

Find me a group of 30-year-old men and I’ll pick out one …

Avoid Friend Zone

Attract women / How to understand women / The Friends Zone

3 Effective Ways to Cure “Just Friends” Syndrome

Being “just friends” with a woman you’re really into is the worst. You’ve probably been in that situation a few times, so you know how frustrating it is.

But you don’t have to put up with the same BS over and over again until you quit dating altogether. If you’re sick of being written off as a guy she’ll NEVER have feelings for, check out these tips below:

#1: Stop Being a Phony

Yes, you read that right. Admit it – you probably have more than a few female friends in your life and you’re interested in more than just being friends with them.

You know, the painfully hot friends you really have a crush on, yet act like you’re just friends with them.

Here’s my advice: get real with yourself and stop carrying the proverbial torch for these lady friends.

If you’re putting on a “just friends” act while secretly hoping she’ll sleep with you, that’s all you’ll get out of her – being just friends.

Avoid Friend Zone

Of course, this doesn’t apply to women you’re actually friends with.

If you like hanging out with a girl and have zero romantic interest in her, she falls into this category. Otherwise, …

turn off women

Attract women / What women want

The 3 Behaviors That Turn Women Off

Somewhere right now, a well-meaning guy is making women hate him without even knowing why. He thinks he’s trying to be a decent dude with certain gestures and habits, but in reality he’s killing his own appeal with them.

He’s thinking to himself, “What’s her deal anyway? I was just trying to be nice but she’s acting like I did something wrong.”

Unfortunately, he did do something and flip the wrong switches in her head, but can’t quite put his finger on it.

turn off women

After all, he was polite, didn’t make any creepy remarks about her body and or make any of the OBVIOUS mistakes with women.

Yet, a lot of men still turn women off, despite being on their best behavior.

So, what gives? Well, let me shed a little light on the things men do which actually work against them:

#1: Trying to Rationalize Dating

I know how weird it is to get turned down by the ladies even though you’re acting perfectly normal. But the thing is, there’s no point in rationalizing the attraction process.

On a basic level, attraction is a feeling, NOT a choice.

Making a conscious decision has NOTHING to do with liking someone.

Therefore, …