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Attract women

A Quick Guide To Shit Tests

I have this friend of mine.

He’s got sick game – if you’re a single guy hitting the scene, you would love to go out with him.

And if you’re a guy looking for that one awesome girlfriend, he’d be the perfect guy to hit the scene with too, since he always seem to meet a future girlfriend when we go out together.

He’s great at opening, getting physical, winging and has an awesome, positive attitude about everything.\

A true badass.

But he has one skill that could be better, one he’s currently working on, one that A LOT of guys struggle with at first.

It’s getting tested, or more precisely, passing tests.

We know girls are going to test you, especially if you’re leading things somewhere sexual.

And if you’re in a relationship, they’re going to test you EVEN MORE because they constantly want to make sure they’re not investing in mediocrity.

Women testing you is as inevitable as me going crazy with vodka red bull on my birthday.

But do you know why they really test?

Why they almost always feel a need to throw it back at you first before they excitedly surrender to …

Attract women / What women want

What Do Women Really Think About?

What is she really thinking? I bet you want to know. And who doesn’t?

Hell, sometimes SHE wants to know what she’s thinking.

Women are confusing and they don’t make things easy on guys.

Even Edward Cullen, the supposedly hottest vampire from the “Twilight” movies – who women drool over – would want to read Bella’s mind, the woman he loves – and it frustrates the hell out of him because he can’t.

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A scene from a “Twilight” movie proves that:

Isabella Swan: Wait. You say you heard what they were thinking? So what you…you read minds?

Edward Cullen: I can read every mind in this room apart from yours. There’s…Money. Sex. Money. Sex. Cat…And then you, nothing. That’s very frustrating.

The same thing happens in the True Blood series, where they give the WOMAN the ability to read men’s minds – which is a woman’s fantasy-come-true.

We asked a few women and here are some of the things they think about that you might find helpful to better understand the woman you want in your life.

WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: The first time you meet

The first time she sees you, she’s checking you out. Thinking …

The Friends Zone

How To Avoid The Friend’s Zone…

Question From A Reader:

Hey Man,

I have a question about a scenario. Maybe you have covered this elsewhere, but recently an ex-roommate of mine who is also a friend is acting differently after her and her boyfriend split once he got another gal pregnant and went with her. It has been some time since.

She always has liked seeing me which I thought was just friend, but it is questionable whether men and women can be just friends.

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She’s single now, I’m single, and she has planned to come ALL the way down from Oregon to where I now am in Texas. She has been saying things multiple times under the presumable context of friendship frequently such as:

“I love you. I wish you were closer.”
“I wish you were here.”
“You’re my only friend.”

She uses the word friend, but why would a gal come all the way here to “get a break” with me specifically. What’s up with this love word too for a friend.

She calls me friend and then acts like this. I can’t tell if she likes me though as a friend because she says “friend” a lot, but then more seems to …