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Fifty Shades of Grey – How I Survived THAT Movie

What do you get when you put two uncharismatic romantic leads in a film with an unrealistic plot and stilted dialogue?

A multi-million dollar blockbuster hit, of course.

Remember when that sparkly vampire film came out years before? A good segment of the public bitched about Twilight while the creator laughed all the way to the bank.

And it’s happening all over again; talk about history repeating itself.

Once again, women are dragging guys to a movie that, for the most part, is meant for the female demographic. And like before, the people behind the franchise are raking in serious stacks of dough.

Oh, and here’s a fun fact: Fifty Shades of Grey originally started out as Twilight fan fiction (i.e. when people write about their favorite characters and put them in situations beyond the original plot).

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So, it’s no surprise that women are eating up Fifty Shades of Grey, especially since its roots go back to the same place.

As for me, I watched it just to see what the hype was about. Like Christian Grey told Anastasia Steele, “Try to keep an open mind.”

And that’s exactly what I did. Funny thing was, it wasn’t as bad as …

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You’ll Hate What I Think About Valentine’s Day

Apparently the authors of this article are psychic, mainly because they summarized everything I hate about “romantic” ideas into a single blog post.

As the spot-on article put it, “seemingly beautiful expressions of love are downright disturbing when you take a step back and consider them with an objective eye.”

Sorry to break it to you fellas, but real life ain’t the same as the movies. Not even close.

Go through that list, and really ask yourself if pulling those stunts won’t get you arrested or brand yourself as a desperate, try-hard creep.

And it’s not just Hollywood that’s feeding us with the belief that doing crazy stuff will earn us a “Boyfriend of the Year” award.

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I’m talking about the insidious “holiday” on the 14th of February. If you’re a reasonable, well-adjusted guy, you’d have enough sense to know you’re supposed to be romantic on a fairly REGULAR BASIS with your lady.

If you’re feeling the pressure to do something over-the-top on Valentine’s Day, let me offer you a little perspective on this “special” occasion.

Consider this: cramming all your efforts into a desperate, Hail Mary-esque, one-shot deal doesn’t exactly make for a healthy relationship.

Believe me, I’m not …

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How To Tell If Your Girlfriend Is Crazy

Let’s face it – as guys, we’re not really big on emotions. We don’t go out to the bar and tell each other, “Dude, why don’t we talk about our feelings over a couple of drinks?”

For the most part, that’s just not how we roll. I mean, I’d wager a lot of guys have been brought up to think that showing emotion is a sign of weakness.

Chalk it up to the old-school way of thinking, I guess. And that’s probably why we tend to go a bit overboard with the “Crazy” label when our wives or girlfriends get emotional from time to time.

Honestly, I think it’s a good idea if we scaled back a bit on the “crazy” comments just because they’re not dead stoic like some of us. This funny video makes a good point of that:

Sure, the ladies in our lives can get a tad unreasonable from time to time, but playing the crazy card doesn’t really work unless she’s doing something that’s genuinely insane.

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