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This guest blog post was written by Nick Savoy, the dating guru behind Love Systems.

Whenever I’m meeting people, guys invariably ask me for the “secret” of dating beautiful women. I hate this — because what they want doesn’t exist. They want a magic bullet: the ‘secret’ to attracting any woman, any time.

It sounds silly when phrased like that, but if you look online for dating advice for men, the search for the “quick fix” is everywhere. Before Love Systems came along the quick-fix was the consensus – see, for example, the book The Mystery Method on how to get beautiful women into bed.

That’s how Magic Bullets Handbook – the standard “bible” of dating and seduction for men – got its title. It’s an ironic title, since there is no such ‘Magic Bullet’. There are thousands of things you can do to improve your success with women. You don’t even have to get them all right, or even most. Which things are important depends a lot on the individual woman.

Still, Love Systems instructors and clients have, combined, approached over 100,000 women around the world over the last 7 years. That is a LOT of data and you …

Dating guru Nick Savoy wants to share what most average guys don’t know about succeeding with women in his first column on Win-With-Women.com. Let’s get to it!

Hi, I’m Nick Savoy. I’m a dating coach. Some would call me a pickup artist.

Labels mean all kinds of things. Some people think a dating coach or a pickup artist needs to dress in furry capes and leotards like on that TV show. Or be as dysfunctional as the characters from The Game spitting out made-up words like “negs” and “HB10s”.

I won’t lie – there are people like this. I know some of them. I used to work with some of them when I was co-founder and President of Mystery Method Corp (before it got weird). When these kinds of guys get together, it’s like Peter Pan meets Dungeons & Dragons.

But the good news is that “normal guys” are taking over – guys like Carlos or myself – people who have a normal job, a normal life, but who at some point decided they didn’t want to “settle”. In short, we wanted more and better options in our dating and sex lives, without all the cultish weirdness.

If you’re …