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The #1 Secret To Why Most Men Fail With Most Women…

As a dating coach, I can easily tell you what the #1 secret to why most men fail with most women is. And it’s time to do something about it.

You see, a lot of men always come to me to ask why a woman doesn’t like them (anymore).

They tried so hard to make a good impression. It makes them wonder what her problem is or was.

But…

It’s not a woman’s problem and women are NOT the enemy. Like it or not…

The problem is… YOU. Better said, a combination of you having the wrong expectations and you being inexperienced makes you FAIL with women. Is there a solution for this OVERLOOKED PROBLEM?

At this point I’d like to say: 50 Cent. The famous rapper can teach you a lot about women and dating and he doesn’t even know it.

Here’s what you can learn from 50 Cent…

The only thing most people will ever see is 50 Cent’s first hit, In Da Club. They think success fell in his lap or that he get out without much effort.

What you don’t see is that the man had been rapping for at least 8 years before he became …

Carlos Xuma Recommends…

Hey guys,

As always, it’s Carlos Xuma from Win With Women here, and I’d like to share some cool sites with you…

These are some interesting dating blogs and sites for various reasons: they contain huge amounts of awesome tips, there are lots of videos there, or the blog posts are simply so damn entertaining to read.

Let’s get to it!

April Braswell’s Blog
April’s one of the top FEMALE dating coaches out there today. Why not learn about women… from a woman? If anyone claims to know more about women than women themselves (and me), they’re lying. I highly recommend you read some of her blog posts.

They’re entertaining and insightful.

http://aprilbraswell.com/blog/

Ask Dan And Jennifer
And then there’s Dan and Jennifer. After telling you that it’s probably a good idea to seek out some dating advice from a female dating coach, I’m gonna go ahead and tell you that dating advice from a couple isn’t a bad idea either. Dan and Jennifer’s site has lots of question and answer-like articles and videos about numerous topics:

Sexuality, how to break up with someone, how to “keep the girl” and more… go and see for yourself!

http://www.askdanandjennifer.com

Dating Advice From

Carlos Xuma Column: Why dating is much like marketing…

Hi it’s Carlos Xuma from Win With Women and I think it’s time to have some fun. Join me as we look at the dating game from a different perspective for a sec.

You see, during my 6 hour long free tv show about dating that I did last weekend I’ve said more than once that marketing is similar to dating. Whether you like to hear it or not, the only difference is that with marketing you’re selling products and with dating you’re selling YOU.

I can almost hear some of the men reading the above thinking “boooo! You’re wrong! Screw you Carlos!”

But I’m not… and here’s the proof.

The 4 P’s Of Marketing

Ever heard of them? They are: Price, Place, Product, and Promotion. Explaining them all would be beyond the scope of this article, so let me generalize by saying: each P is a way for a company to let itself or the product stand out in the crowd and get more attention and/or buyers.

And there’s a little phrase there that makes marketing and dating similar: standing out. Darwin talked about the survival of the fitTEST for a reason: the man who is fitter than others …