Carlos Xuma Column – Why I Give Dating Advice
Most men are totally unprepared for having the success with women they want, in fact, for having any success with women at all… while men are the pursuers by nature. That’s the way the world currently works whether we like it or not: it’s socially not accepted for women to chase men around, so we are more or less FORCED to approach them first…
The education that we have had when it comes to women is entirely wrong though: your upbringing, Hollywood and religion somehow made you as a man think that women fall for the nice, predictable guy who does everything for them and showers them with gifts, dinners, flowers and compliments… but nothing could be further from the truth…
And without proper education? The proper dating advice?
The levels of frustration, unhappiness and loneliness that you will experience will skyrocket while your overall chances of success with women hits rock bottom! You will end up chasing your own tail: feeling miserable and thus trying hard to “get the girl”(but by doing the wrong things you were told would work), and feeling even more miserable because of it when you see they don’t work. You start thinking it’s you …
