Category: Columns

This is the right time for me to give the word to 8Mod, someone who I’ve been having VERY interesting conversations with. You see, he’s my first student that did a fuck close…in other words: who slept with someone thanks to my advice! Next to being one of the STARS on my forums (and more if he keeps it up), he wanted to write a Field Report of his latest adventures for you all. So, here it is…the very FIRST 8Mod Column!

Was out Last friday night with a few friends having a fun night and so
we decided to venture to our local discobar… Its fairly small but
good crowd-kinda place where everyone knows everyone but good for a
few late beers, lol.

We arrived about 12.30 and made my way to the smoking area, started up some conversation with a two set about different brands of cigarettes and started busting on them or selecting a cheaper brand!!!

ME: Hey can I get a light please?
THEM: Ya no problem…
ME: Thanks,(TURNING AWAY AND TURNING BACK) Hey theres a weird smell of whatever your smoking,lol
HB7 (HB is slang for Hot Babe, 7 stands for the rating from 1-10 …

Hi it’s Jason again, writing for my good friend Dirty D…better known to you as Carlos. But now, let me REALLY introduce myself:

I am not a “pick up artist.” 

I don’t do pick up lines.

Yet so many people want to be a PUA. Why?

The community in my opinion has gone off in a wrong direction. When the Seduction Community started back in the 80s, only Ross Jeffries was in business. Everyone else kept quiet and helpfully gave out advice. They sat around genuinely critiquing and building each other up. We wanted to all understand the mysteries of women, to connect with them, to somehow understand them. They were wonderful creatures, worthy of respect and honor.

These days, everything has changed. With the internet and the massive publicity of The Game by Neil Strauss more and more people are turning to “pick up” as the title states. As a Game. This isn’t a game. These are living people with emotions and desires. Not one woman or man is the same as another. When you run “game” per se, you are dehumanizing her and debasing yourself. We (as men) have created the games women play, and women have created …

It’s i4nim4ted here, posting from my new Mac Book! It took me 3 freaking hours to fix up a mishap (those of you who I talked with know what I’m on about) but here I am. And today I promise I will talk about the Juggler Method less than I always do, lol!

Recently I’ve been pondering about just the community in general. Personally for myself, I’ve noticed that I’ve been too caught up in the method. And as I trawl these boards I see my symptoms too. “WHAT DO TO BUILD RAPPORT? I perspective! OEQ (Open-Ended Questions)! smile more! use the vacuum!”

Three days ago, this guy Rourke and I were chatting and I brought up the concept of “I perspective.” I had recently read sometihing and I had just been hit by doubts that maybe, just maybe I wasn’t doing it right.

I had become a slave to the method.

While I was wallowing in self doubt Rourke had some good thoughts.
“Don’t, he said, read too much into things. Don’t turn the I Perspective into a routine. The I perspective is all about being honest and saying whatever the f–k comes to your head as long as …