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The #1 Secret To Why Most Men Fail With Most Women…

As a dating coach, I can easily tell you what the #1 secret to why most men fail with most women is. And it’s time to do something about it.

You see, a lot of men always come to me to ask why a woman doesn’t like them (anymore).

They tried so hard to make a good impression. It makes them wonder what her problem is or was.

But…

It’s not a woman’s problem and women are NOT the enemy. Like it or not…

The problem is… YOU. Better said, a combination of you having the wrong expectations and you being inexperienced makes you FAIL with women. Is there a solution for this OVERLOOKED PROBLEM?

At this point I’d like to say: 50 Cent. The famous rapper can teach you a lot about women and dating and he doesn’t even know it.

Here’s what you can learn from 50 Cent…

The only thing most people will ever see is 50 Cent’s first hit, In Da Club. They think success fell in his lap or that he get out without much effort.

What you don’t see is that the man had been rapping for at least 8 years before he became …

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Etienne Charland: Mating Was Not Meant To Be So Complicated…

I’m proud to announce that my good friend Etienne made a column for the blog. This one’s about how mating was not meant to be so complicated.

He has some cool insights about dating to share. Me and him go a while back: back in early 2008 we were already discussing our asses off on dating expert Zan Perrion’s naturalgame.com forums… and we still discuss our buts off to this very day.

I give the word to Etienne from here…

I said many times that if mating was meant to be as complicated as it is, we wouldn’t be here today. If people always focus on, for example, what to text a girl instead of WHY to text a girl or not then things will remain the same. That’s what I’ve always said…

And I had no clue how right I was. I rarely read newspapers, but I happened to flip through the newspaper today and saw an articles that says that in 40 years, white people may become a minority in the United States because 48% of births are currently from immigrants.

That’s a huge thing right here.

With the mating dynamics of our Western society, unless there is …

Dennis Miedema column

Carlos Xuma Recommends…

Hey guys,

As always, it’s Carlos Xuma from Win With Women here, and I’d like to share some cool sites with you…

These are some interesting dating blogs and sites for various reasons: they contain huge amounts of awesome tips, there are lots of videos there, or the blog posts are simply so damn entertaining to read.

Let’s get to it!

April Braswell’s Blog
April’s one of the top FEMALE dating coaches out there today. Why not learn about women… from a woman? If anyone claims to know more about women than women themselves (and me), they’re lying. I highly recommend you read some of her blog posts.

They’re entertaining and insightful.

http://aprilbraswell.com/blog/

Ask Dan And Jennifer
And then there’s Dan and Jennifer. After telling you that it’s probably a good idea to seek out some dating advice from a female dating coach, I’m gonna go ahead and tell you that dating advice from a couple isn’t a bad idea either. Dan and Jennifer’s site has lots of question and answer-like articles and videos about numerous topics:

Sexuality, how to break up with someone, how to “keep the girl” and more… go and see for yourself!

http://www.askdanandjennifer.com

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