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Carlos Xuma Column: Why dating is much like marketing…

Hi it’s Carlos Xuma from Win With Women and I think it’s time to have some fun. Join me as we look at the dating game from a different perspective for a sec.

You see, during my 6 hour long free tv show about dating that I did last weekend I’ve said more than once that marketing is similar to dating. Whether you like to hear it or not, the only difference is that with marketing you’re selling products and with dating you’re selling YOU.

I can almost hear some of the men reading the above thinking “boooo! You’re wrong! Screw you Carlos!”

But I’m not… and here’s the proof.

The 4 P’s Of Marketing

Ever heard of them? They are: Price, Place, Product, and Promotion. Explaining them all would be beyond the scope of this article, so let me generalize by saying: each P is a way for a company to let itself or the product stand out in the crowd and get more attention and/or buyers.

And there’s a little phrase there that makes marketing and dating similar: standing out. Darwin talked about the survival of the fitTEST for a reason: the man who is fitter than others …

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Carlos Xuma Column – The Basics of Having Good “Game”

Hi it’s Carlos Xuma from the winwithwomenblog.com here and I just crave to talk about the basics of having good “game”… the essentials of how to get the girl, of how to achieve dating success.

It’s also what I’ll be talking about during my FREE live tv show I’m going to broadcast live on the internet on January 23, 2010, because how can you be an attraction powerhouse with women when you didn’t got the foundations of the house right?

So consider this dating article to be a sneak preview of what I’ll be discussing during the show, during which you can also ask me for dating advice on your personal dating questions.

For more info about how to watch the show and what the show is all about go to:

http://win-with-womenblog.com/?p=1416

Onward…

There are 5 “building blocks” on your way to becoming an attraction powerhouse that can get ANY girl and you’ll need to build all of them if you want your success with women to last:

Building Block For Good Game #1:

Immortal Inner Game

Even if you would learn a 1000 techniques for meeting women, if you still fear rejection, then ALL those techniques will be built …

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RockyJJP column- GAME: what separates the greats from everyone else

Every pick up artist I have ever seen, every well known ladies man out there, every guy that gets it consistently right with women, they all game differently, they have different styles methods and beliefs. Yet they are all successful, but why is this? I wondered. So being me, the persistent, need to know and understand all things guy I am, decided to work it out. So I carefully studied them. I watched there movements, watched tons of interviews and videos watched their live approaches and re watched them over and over again.

I didn’t discuss this in my blog post about having game yet, but I realised that the successful seducers all shared similar traits and commonalities that worked.

Traits that exuded and displayed all the same things but in different ways which triggered and lead their desired women on an emotional progression, a journey unlocking the same sequence of emotions in all woman that they interact with. It may sound confusing, but it’s not really, because all it means is that; all game boils down to the same core things that we must incorporate and display in ourselves in the interactions with all of the women we approach. …