Category: Dealing with jealousy

What happens to most men as soon as they see a woman or girl they like talk to another man? They become jealous… duhhh. But what if jealousy prevents you from having the success with women you want?

And where does jealousy come from anyway?

Here’s the story: the moment you see or heard that the woman you like was talking to another man who seemed to be a sexual threat to her (as in – there’s a chance that he could create attraction), you start to doubt yourself.

You start to doubt yourself and your own abilities, which leads to a fear of “losing the girl”. Since you obviously want to prevent that, you’ll try hard not to lose her… too hard.

You become needy for her attention and approval, you want to make sure that YOU’RE the favorite one (and often get angry if she doesn’t literally say that she likes you more than she likes him), and guess what the funny thing about that is?

By being needy, desperate and picking fights with her all the time because you’re scared of losing her… she’ll be turned off more and more, the attraction she felt for you becomes …