Category: Inner game

You already know them, have seen them around you: the naturals. Ever since you’ve been a little boy, you’ve seen those guys with ‘mystical powers’ getting ALL the girls they wanted, seemingly without effort. You secretly envied them and yet, when playing Dr. Phil for your dumped ladyfriends from out of the friend zone, you disapproved of them. Meanwhile, THEY’RE getting all the action and you still can’t figure out why the ladies see THEM as men, and you as a…friend. WHY is it…that when a man has MANY options in his lovelife so that he can CHOOSE who he dates, that he is suddenly a ‘playboy’, a ‘ladiesman’, a ‘skirt chaser’? And WHY is it that a woman who’s doing the same is not a ‘playgirl’, but labeled as a whore or a slut?

It’s because of societal views on which roles men and women should play. It all starts with the modern day role of men, or rather: the lack of it. Because…

When Are Boys Being Men, And Men Being Boys?

For thousands of year humanity has had initiation rituals to mark the change from boy into MANhood and girl into WOMANhood, different ones for different cultures. …

Being someone from a Catholic background I noticed it’s influence on my game EVERYDAY when I started to get more and more succesful with women and dating. Ever had that feeling that you were ‘not doing the right thing’….that certain aspects off picking up and dating women goes against your VALUES? I know I did in the past.

So I started to investigate WHAT my values really were, until it hit me that they were NOT mine at all! It was because of my Catholic background I refused to do certain things to get more succes, it was a BIG limited belief…until I did some research on it and found out EVERYBODY experiences religious constrictions in some way or another. It’s another KEY Matrix element. Why? Let’s take a look at Christianity for example.

How Religious Values CRIPPLED Our Confidence

This is not a slaughter of religions all around the world here because I believe people should have the right to choose what they belief in for themselves. Although the Ten Commandments of Christianity are DIRECT evidence as to which rules limit you, not stealing and murderering are NOT the limiting beliefs you want toi overcome, lol! Instead, it are …

You’re dating this cute girl that lives not far from you, about two blocks away. You got her using the skills and techniques that you learned from various dating systems and everything is going well…you EVEN had her in your bed, multiple times. The succes is unbelievable yet everywhere in fact, you’re thinking about trying to close ANOTHER girl. But then this one drops the bomb on you and tells you she LOVES you. You freak out, you panic and are at a loss of words that moment…because you were JUST dating her and wanted to leave it at that. Now she’s told you this, you have doubts: “I’d better stick around right? Otherwise I’ll break her heart right?” but while you’re saying yes to everything she suggests, you THINK no. Because all this time, you wanted to date multiple girls and get more experience in the game. And now…now you really DON’T know what to do anymore because you’re contradicting yourself: be the gentleman, stick to her vs. be a man, dump the chick!

Your conscience is battling with your deepest desires, leaving you confused, full of doubt, procrastinating any big decision. BUT…is it REALLY your own conscience talking …