How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Category: Inner game

Inner game

How To Improve Your Inner Game (Video)

In this inner game & confidence 101 video series, I show you what Inner Game really is, and how to improve your inner game so you can get any woman you want.

Check it out below…

Want to know more about how to get that girl you’ve liked for a while now? Then stay tuned to the Win With Women blog!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Approach anxiety

Overcoming Approach Anxiety Made Easy

Guys often have trouble overcoming approach anxiety because they don’t even know what approach anxiety is, let alone overcoming it! It’s time to change that.

The first step to overcoming approach anxiety is realizing that focusing on the wrong outcome makes you even more afraid.

To be more specific: the solution to approach anxiety is NOT getting a woman’s phone number. This is actually the least important part of your conversation with her.

Why?

Because learning how to meet and date a woman is NOT about getting a phone number, that’s just a tiny little part of it.

So What IS Approach Anxiety All About?

Overcoming approach anxiety and learning how to meet women have nothing to do with getting the phone number or getting the date.

It’s about the learning itself, the path, because it’s not WHAT makes you get to the end of the road – that’s UNIMPORTANT… it’s about getting there with whatever tool you pick up along the way. If you look at a single interaction from that perspective, every single conversation with a woman – ANY woman – becomes feedback…

– It can teach you things about what you should improve in the body language …

Flake on you

Carlos Xuma On Women Who Flake On You

Hi it’s Carlos Xuma from Win With Women here and I want you to know something about me and about women who flake on you. They flake on you with reason.

But first the stuff about me: I’m not perfect… and when I want something? I just have to go and get it no matter what. Usually, that works to my advantage, but it lead to one of the biggest mistakes with women I’ve made in my life too…

You see, when I was younger I got the phone number of this beautiful Turkish girl. I’m talking the perfect tan here that no sun helped create, black, perfectly curled hair, and with those juicy lips you sometimes see and just have to kiss. And then she flaked on me.

Turkey, respect the beauty of the women there

Anyways, she had ass… she had the perfect body. The stuff you would drewl over. I don’t even remember how I got her number, but I DO remember that she lived like 2 hours away from me.

But I didn’t care, because when I want something I just have to go and get it remember?

So we called and texted back and forth many late nights and I noticed something about …