Category: Interviews with dating gurus

Hey it’s Carlos Xuma and earlier this month I had the chance to do a video interview. A chance to share my thoughts on several dating-related topics.

Want to know which topics I discussed during the interview? Then keep on reading below…

A self help coach from Belgium was supposed to interview me, she couldn’t make it for some reason, so I got my girlfriend to do the video interview with me because that self help coach had some tough questions for me. And you know what? I wanted to answer every single question that coach had for me to prove a point!

I wanted to prove that I am not who she thought me to be and that I’m not what she thought me to be.

Here are some of the topics she wanted to ask me questions about:

– The situation with Joseph Matthews (also known as Thundercat) and why I hate him and think he’s a liar

– Why I am a controversial dating coach in the Netherlands

– My thoughts on why mainstream media and “regular” dating coaches make fun of pick up artists and vice versa. And why both sides are DEAD WRONG.

– What …

Interviewing Carlos Xuma has been an honor, and so much fun! In case you’re wondering who he is: Carlos Xuma was named in 2007’s Top 10 Dating Gurus and…

Here’s some backstory: years ago he saw his friends being broke but still getting the girl, but he? Oh no, Carlos Xuma could NOT get the girl.

That’s when he made it his mission to start figuring out how attraction worked, even though he first believed it was impossible: “People don’t choose who they be with so you can’t control it…” he thought.

He has come a long way obviously and these days? Carlos DOES know how to control it…

So what did we talk about? A whole bunch of things really! We managed to cover a lot of ground in a short amount of time, so allow me to try and give you a brief overview of the interview with Carlos Xuma below…

What This Carlos Xuma Interview Was All About

– Approaching women: the biggest mistakes men make when they want to approach a woman, and why it’s not about knowing what to say first but knowing what to say second. This is such an easily prevented mistake that …

Hi it’s Carlos and I want you to join me today as I interview dating guru Derek Rake. Derek is the author of the INFAMOUS Rake Letters, the newsletter which I’m sure some of you have heard of, a LOT of useful articles and mastermind behind the very insightful Seducer’s Vault. Inside you’ll find POWERFUL advice on how to handle the information overflow of the entire WORLD of dating systems out there, he talks about the current NLP hype and you can ALSO find a very useful bonus we’re giving to YOU, our dear reader.

So without further ado I present to you…Derek Rake!

Welcome Derek. I’m glad you took the time to do this interview with me. Off course the BIG question everyone always wants to ask is: How did you yourself start in the dating game, and how did you become an authority in it? Why are you a dating guru these days?

It was about 6 years back when I was on the verge of an extremely nasty breakup. During that time, I was in the middle of a dramatic change in my life, not only in terms of my relationship (with my then long-time girlfriend), but …