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Category: Pick up artists

Some people love pick up artists, others hate them, but what do pick up artists stand for? And who among them is good and who is evil? Let’s find out!

On this page you’ll find all my thoughts on pick up artists, including the scams, the truth, the rumors, the facts, and more…

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The Seduction Community In 2011: The Future Of Pick Up

Long ago a thing called the seduction community, a.k.a. the pick up community, saw the light of day. But what does it stand for? And what does the future hold?

Look, if you’re a guy who’s been looking for dating advice for a while now? You probably already know what the seduction community is, but then again, you may not.

So here’s what insiders claim is the definition of seduction community…

“It’s a group of guys from all over the world that all have a common interest: improving their lives, becoming more confident, and most of all? Learning how to pick up more women with skill. That’s where the name pick up artist comes from.

These guys have chosen to come together on forums, blogs, websites, and in real life to figure out this stuff for themselves because “normal” people around them laugh at them or simply don’t know how to help them when they say they want to learn about how to pick up women.”

The first time around? It sounds awesome. It sounds like a group of people who are trying to improve their lives in a positive and major way.

Right?

Wrong! It was awesome, once. But …

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Pua Routines: Do They Work? And Do You Need Pua Routines?

The reason pua routines exist is, according to a pua (pick up artist), to make meeting women easier. But do routines really work? The answer may surprise you:

YES, sometimes pua routines are awesome. But quite often, they SUCK.

When it comes to pua routines and whether they work or not in the dating game, I must separate the newbie’s from the guys who’ve been around the block a couple times.

It doesn’t matter which category you fall into right now though, because I promise you:

By the time you’re done reading this post about pua routines?

You’ll know what to do to make meeting women incredibly easy for yourself.

So, let’s get to it!

Pua Routines Meet Newbie’s: Match Made In Heaven Or Not?

Pua routines may work if you're a newbie. Why? Keep reading to find out!

If you know me a little longer than this one blog post, it would be easy for you to think that I dislike pua routines because I dislike the pick up artist lingo, methods, and “community”.

But thinking I claim pua routines always suck is thinking in black and white in a world filled with multiple shades of grey, because here’s the BIG SECRET behind routines…

The people I got my game from? They’re “naturals”: …

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Joseph Matthews (AKA Thundercat) And His Top 10 Pick Up Artists

Thanks to Joseph Matthews (aka Thundercat) there’s a conspiracy going on for YEARS now. Those involved: the top 10 pick up artists. The victim: YOU.

So, what the hell exactly happened with the top 10 pick up artists?

Several of my fans and customers have sent me emails these past couple of weeks to ask me what I think about Joseph Matthews and his top 10 pick up artists. And I never mind giving my opinion, but first…

If you don’t know what a pick up artist is, here’s what’s up: a pick up artist is a guy who wants to get better at approaching women, creating attraction, and dating.

There are lots of single men that want to achieve the same goals, but the big difference is that pick up artists usually talk about it on a daily basis on many different sites, forums, and blogs using nicknames like Thundercat or AFC Adam. Plus, for many pick up artists? Achieving dating success has become an obsession, an addiction.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m friends with a lot of pick up artists, including some of the top 10 pick up artist, so I don’t disagree with what these guys …