Hey Guys,

First off thanks for taking the time out of your day from reading D’s awesome blog to glance over at this insignificant corner over here. Yeah see me? Hi!

You’re probably wondering, okaaaay who the hell is this and why do I have to listen to anything he says? The truth is you don’t. I don’t style myself as a “Pick Up Guru” or even a pick up artist. I’m just a fun guy who loves having conversations with others.

Here’s a bit of background information about me and how I caught up with D.

I’ve been in the community honestly for a relatively short time. Give or take a bit seven months. I was what you would call a “semi-natural.” I was really good with women at really random times. I would be really charismatic and funny at one moment. Then I became needy and put her on a pedestal the next. It was pretty maddening actually. So I actually started by clicking on a facebook link by David D (damn good marketer) and the journey began. I met D on the seduction chronicles forum and honestly we really connected well. He had good ideas, I had some half brained ideas and he was the only one who honestly supported my views and allowed me to bounce ideas here in this blog.

Pick up (if you want to call it that) has really been an evolution for me. I originally got interested in this field because honestly I wanted to connect with women, get a girlfriend and of course get lucky. But see, my key was not just any women, but high quality women, women I could carry on intellectual conversations, women who had boobs and brains. I entered the community under the influence of David De Angelo. I went and read his ebook about cocky and funny and I got my eyes opened. However, I didn’t want to be an asshole. At the time I probably misunderstood his whole concept of “Cocky & Funny” and was honestly more cocky then I ever was funny. The problem with cocky and funny is that the guy who made those lines was properly calibrated to the situation and part of his personality is cocky and funny. it is the confidence he exudes, not the lines, that makes him attractive. I’m not gonna knock David D though. It works, just not for me. My advice to you guys out there, if you have to TRY hard to be cocky and funny don’t do it. You’re probably not very funny and you’re just coming off as an asshole with contrived jokes.

Next, after David D failed for me, I went on to the next logical step in the evolution of pick up. The ubiquitous Mystery Method and all the other clones of it out there. If I sound very angry at Mystery Method, it’s because of my experiences. DISCLAIMER: MYSTERY METHOD WORKS…just not for me.

I couldn’t play the role of entertainer, I couldn’t memorize countless routines and sequences because honestly, I’m not that smart. For those of you who like routines and being over the top center of attention go Mystery Method. The PUA terminology in it overwhelmed me honestly. I remember being so stressed out learning it. *OMFG WTF I DIDN’T ENTER M3 correctly, OH SHIT I ONLY GOT 2 IOIs, HOW DID THAT CAT ROUTINE GO AGAIN? OH DAMN I’M LEANING IN!* It was crazy shit for me. I got so much into my head trying to juggle routines, stressed out about IOIs, and just so consumed with being spot on the method that I sounded really contrived. In my desperation, I started acquiring all the material i could find. I was trying to find the magic bullet of pick up.

Guess what?

I failed miserably. Lucky for me, among all that material was a small post from the mASF forum from a relative unknown person to me. HIs name was Wayne Elise, a.k.a Juggler and he said you could attract a woman by just being himself, and that he could make his grocery list more interesting than all the other pick up routines out there. The rest is history.

Now I will probably go into the Juggler Method during a later post (if interest is generated enough) but today I’m gonna talk about DHV.

DHV is something the community calls Demonstrating Higher Value. Now I may be getting this totally wrong but a DHV is a story you tell a woman that demonstrates qualities about you that she is supposed to find attractive. Like you talk about the time you saved someone from a car wreck etc. etc.

Now don’t get me wrong. DHVs work. But I never DHV. And here’s why…

If you are DHVing to get her attracted to you, you are coming from the mindset, oh here I am, what can I do to make her attracted to me. Oh I know I’ll DHV!

I never do that. I assume attraction on her part. Confidence is probably the most attractive trait out there. How confident are you really if you need to DHV. Real confident guys don’t DHV, they don’t have to. Do you think Brad Pitt DHVs? Do you think George Clooney DHVs? No, and they seem to get around fine. The real “alpha” males don’t need to talk about being alpha. They are alpha.

Onward…

So instead of DHVing, I DQ.
DQ stands for disqualify. Whenever someone qualifies me with one of their standards,

Either Good like:
Hey I really like your shirt

or Bad like:
You know what, you’re just trying to get me drunk to take me home with you.

I will respond with DQ like this.

Her: I really like your shirt!
Me: Hey, thanks, i got it on sale from the hobo on the corner, or something like, Thanks, my grandfather passed it down to me and I’m surprised I can still be instyle with it.
Her: You know what, you’re just trying to get me drunk to take me home with you.
Me: Absolutely! It’s my only game! How did you know! :p

DQ works like this:

If she qualifies you in a good way, say thank you/agree and put yourself in the bad category. Like…

Her: you know, I hate people who gossip.
Me: yeah, me too, but you know I gossip with my friends all the time. We talk bad about the crazy celebrities all the time.

Not only does it show your human side, it also shows you are confident with your weaknesses that you are able to bring them up. That is true confidence.

Wait you might ask! David D. said SELF DEPRECATING HUMOR is bad.

It is. But DQ is not self deprecating. It’s all in your tonality.
if you’re like, yeah I suck at life…sigh…then yeah you come off as a pussy, but if you’re like yeah you know what! I’m pretty lame :p i’m the king. If you hang out with me prepare to join my kingdom!

For example if you’re with a bunch of guys who are DHVing.
Guys: Yeah I’m so cool, I DHV I’m the protector provider, I’m hung like a horse.
You: Oh man, I got nothing on these guys. I’m not cool at all. In fact I only got a baby carrot.

You know who the girl believes?

Neither of us.

She doesn’t believe the Guys who say they are cool. And She doesn’t believe me when I say I’m uncool or full of shit.

😀 Guess who wins!

Thats just a short primer on DQ and why I don’t DHV. More on it later I suppose.

UNTIL NEXT WEEK.

YOUR FRIEND

4nim4ted

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