Dating Multiple Women After The “Tiger Woods Situation”
Dating multiple women certainly isn’t an uncommon idea for Tiger Woods, hell, the guy seemed to be dating 20 damn women at once! Bot how can you do it?
A whole lot of people got angry with Tiger Woods because of him dating multiple women. A whole lot of women became more jealous and paranoid around their men because of it… AND…
As a dating coach loads of guys ask me how to start dating multiple women, but after Tiger Woods? You can’t blame those same guys for thinking that dating multiple women has now either become impossible… OR… a lot more difficult.
Hell, you won’t believe how many single men have been asking me if dating multiple women is even possible. Possible without a psycho chick beating them up with a golf club or worse.
My opinion: YES, it’s possible.
But even BEFORE Tiger Woods single men dated multiple women all wrong. I just want to be sure that YOU won’t be one of those sad bastards that gets beat up or stalked by a crazy biatch.
How?
First off, by letting you discover the insights of my blog post about how to please your girlfriend so you won’t ever let a woman go crazy (because she’ll be way too busy enjoying herself).
Secondly, by sharing the BIG secret to dating multiple women with you. Well, to be honest with you: there are several secrets to doing it right and for as long as you want.
#1 Secret To Dating Multiple Women: Manage Expectations
The quickest way to screwing up your chances with women is by communicating the WRONG things.
Here’s a “story” that a lot of my customers have shared with me. Read it and ask yourself: does this sound familiar to me?
…You don’t have much experience with women: you’re just getting started with learning how to meet, date, and keep women. Because you really want to learn, you want to meet a lot of women. You want to date around and gain more experience. Then you meet a woman. It’s the first woman you have had success with in a long time and you sleep with her.
The next couple of days and weeks you love the attention and love (and sex) she is giving you. You want to meet more women, but you haven’t told her that when you met her and you still don’t tell her. Now she wants things from you. She wants to see you and you don’t know what to do because you don’t want to hurt her feelings…
Does that sound familiar to you? If it does, then STOP doing that.
Don’t expect a woman to “smell” that you don’t want a relationship with her. If you don’t tell her anything, then she’ll think you want to be soulmates just as bad as she wants it.
If you don’t, you’ll feel more guilty about leaving her the longer you stay with her. Jason (a close friend of mine) ended up being in a relationship he didn’t want to be in for 6 months because he couldn’t manage expectations. And 6 months? Is a loooong time!
So, how can you start managing expectations? You have to do it before you ever go on a date.
You have to manage expectations so women know what to expect and know you’re not the dude who will put a ring on their finger.
Six magic words here:
“I’m not looking for something serious”.
Tell women before you take them out on a date that you love being single, that you’re not looking for something serious, that you have too much going on in your life right now to settle down. That will DEFINITELY let them know you don’t want to be in a relationship.
I can almost hear you think: “Will a woman still date me when she knows I don’t want a relationship before we go out?”
YES she will.
If you created enough attraction, then she doesn’t care about HOW she can be with you… as long as she can be with you she’ll be happy. The how is not important because she loves you and bla… bla… bla…(the usual romantic stuff!)
Plus, women love a challenge and secretly hope they can still get you to settle down if they work for it…
In short: telling women you don’t want to be serious with them BEFORE you date them is the first step to dating several ladies. It’s the KEY to dating multiple women without drama.
#2 Secret To Dating Multiple Women: Unite & Conquer
The Romans had a saying: “divide and conquer”. If you manage to split an entire population into several smaller groups because they start having different opinions? It’s easier to take over the group.
With meeting more than one woman at a time it’s better to UNITE and conquer.
Let’s use an example where you’re dating 2 women to explain this…
If you try to date each woman on a different night, you will soon have problems when one woman can’t see you on Tuesday but CAN see you on Friday. But guess what? Friday is woman number 2 night. It will soon mean that you need to do everything on different days because of one woman and you’ll have to do that with TWO women. Do you see the problem there?
That’s why it’s best to ask both women out on one day. One during the afternoon, the other during the evening. Or one during the evening and the other at night.
Why? So you NEVER “screw up” a day by sitting home alone because one of the two women can’t see you.
If woman 1 can’t see you, you can still see woman 2 and you don’t have to change your life for when woman 1 CAN finally see you.
If they can both see you on the same day, hell, you’ll have a busy day. Unless you’re a wussy who can’t handle 2 women on 1 day…
#3 Secret To Dating Multiple Women: Play It Safe
Let me get this straight: I don’t promote you lying to women by saying you’re in a relationship with them, while you’re in “relationships” with multiple women. But I DO promote not being a dumb ass who puts himselves in strange situations where woman 1 contacts you while you’re on a date with woman 2, or worse…
You don’t want awkward silences, you don’t want women to get upset, and you sure as hell don’t want to lose one woman because of another woman you’re seeing. So, here are some quick tips for dating multiple women without Tiger Woods-like drama:
1) When on a date with one of the women you’re seeing? Turn off your phone! Don’t risk being called by number 1 when you’re with number 2.
2) When in the bedroom with one of the women you’re seeing? Turn off your phone! Don’t risk her reading text messages from other women. No matter how “not serious” a woman is with you, she will always get upset by romantic stuff you receive from other women.
3) Take a shower and change your bed before you see another woman. It’s NOT a good idea to date woman 2 when you or your bed smells like woman 1…
4) Make sure you know the places where the women you’re seeing go to a lot. You don’t want to be on a date with woman 1 and meet woman 2. NOT good for your dating success OR your balls, lol!
5) Clean your place: women somehow always seem to leave a hairclip, a photo, a watch, some glitters, some long hairs that aren’t yours. They’re just territorial like that and want to make sure everyone that visits knows you’re theirs. So, remove all that crap if you want to do the dating multiple women thing successfully!
6) Never talk about the women you’re seeing when you’re out with one of them. Don’t even talk about the others as if they were friends. Don’t. You will get drama, 100% guaranteed.
7) Birthday? Social ocassion? Be sure woman 1 and woman 2 won’t be at the event of a mutual friend. It will get your feelings hurt… and it will get your balls hurt!
Here’s a fun question: I wonder if Tiger Woods would have been caught if he would have used my tips…
Got some questions for you that you can answer in a comment below:
1) Have you ever been in a situation where a woman expected more from you dating her than she did? Tell the whole story man!
2) Think about the secrets to dating multiple women I’ve shared with you so far. Then, be honest and rank yourself from 1-10 on how well you have dated several chicks until my blog post. Why did you give yourself this rank?
3) What do you think about Tiger Woods and his sex adventures? Good? Bad?
Onward…
8.30 P.M. is movie time on Dutch television. Every single time you zap from channel to channel around 8.30 P.M. on a random day? You’ll see movie after movie… after movie. And during movie time I always get the urge: the urge to grab one of those big Pringles cans and going to battle on it. I mean eating every single damn piece of chips in there. I’m addicted.
It’s true what they say: “Once you pop you can’t stop”.
And I can definitely NOT stop eating Pringles chips when the flavor we’re talking about is Hot & Spicy. Hell, I’m going to get my daily dose of Hot & Spicy RIGHT NOW.
Dating multiple women simply makes a man hungry as hell, so bye!
To More Dating Success,
Carlos Xuma
Win With Women
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