Today I want to address something that is rather disturbing in my opinion: the fact that 99% of men DON’T know the difference between what DEFINES success with women and what HELPS success with women! They go and make the fatal mistake of thinking that things that help actually DETERMINE their success, with a lack of confidence, insecurities and low self-esteem as a result OR they only go for what defines success because doing what helps is a “no no”. So, I’ve just made it my mission teach you guys some true GEMS for advanced game!

But…what DOES define your success with women than?
Most of us know by now that women are attracted to a man’s CHARACTER and his TRAITS: mysterious, selective, challenging, outrageous, playful teaser, funny, good listener, ambitious, passionate, sexual and so on…this is all INNER GAME.

Your way of thinking, your character traits, values & beliefs…so your Inner Game makes your game successful. These are all qualities in a man that enable him to BREAK away from the shallow, average competition…therefore I call them Gamebreakers.

For years and years we have had what I call “Puritans” in the seduction community, mostly Pick up artists who’ve almost gone so far as to make Inner Game their RELIGION. They have certain unofficial rules, they for example preach a no drinking policy when picking up girls, they swear on never paying for something, etc. because “that’s how society programmed us, that’s what it wants us to do, we’ve learned to unprogram ourselves and therefore disagree and won’t do it.”

Message to the Puritan #1: RULES define BOUNDARIES within which operating is possible, therefore operating outside them would be impossible…which makes rules LIMITING BELIEFS. I’ve just found proof for that the community as a WHOLE has limiting beliefs!

I really don’t care whether or not the majority of the community is Puritan, but these people have forgotten that mastery is not about getting five big things right…it’s about getting two THOUSAND little things right. It’s about ensuring you have the HIGHEST probability of success…the 99.9999% certainty of success and THIS is where things that HELP your game come into play.

Message to the Puritan #2: Sure being shaven or not doesn’t DEFINE your success, but it simply HELPS if you’re shaven. Inner Game is 75%, the majority of your success, BUT the other 25% is ALL Outer Game. So what ARE these Gamehelpers than?

Attractive skills (TALENTS)
Gosh, do women like male displays of talent? Duhhh! They generate attraction so it never ever hurts to have some Outer Game skills man! A little secret: my own set of skills consists of skills that ALL can be done in very sexual ways (eating off of her, body shots & let me massage your front now respectively!)…so guess how I call these? Easy escalation skills (ees..y!), because they naturally guide you from touching to fucking…

– Cooking: I’m not the ruler of the kitchen, but AM a MASTER of making pasta’s AND Italian appetizers, which means I can feed both hungry partypoopers AND a sexy lady in private.

– Mixing cocktails: I’m not a bartender and never was, but I CAN make two to three cocktails VERY well…and guess which ones they are? The ones with the most visual appeal off course! Every party I go to people want to learn how to make them too…guess what I ask in return?

– Massaging: Never studied it, but I AM so smart as to always have massage oils around and am good at loosening up muscles very, very slowly and passionately AND tickling her with my nails…guess how much sexual tension that creates?

Eating & Sleeping
I’m NOT a health and or diet expert, but I’m not a DUMMY: off COURSE you’ll be more successfull when you’re wide awake with a full stomach…instead of looking at her all drowsy. Besides, if you’re sleeply you’re not that alert and it’ll surprise how MANY opportunities for approaching go by you unnoticed…

Crib Game
Off course it’s not NECESSARY to have the cleanest home EVER, but be smart about it will ya!? When you have some silk sheets on the bed, some candles, some sexual music (soul, r&b, various latin styles), when you can watch TV from your bed with her, when you have attributes like massage oil, naughty games and even sex toys around…do you really think that WON’T make the entire experience more comfortable, more romantic, more sexual, more adventurous for her??

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Onward…

Training
Never was a bodybuilder and never will be and my goal is NOT about being one of those broad chested monkeys with little, tiny legs…lol! But think about it…what opportunities do only having a nice sixpack and being fit offer you? A sixpack is also easy escalation if you hint on that you have something under there that she can feel..BUT only if you can feel too! And if you’re fit, gosh…would you be able to last longer during really active activities with her, during sex and would you be able to have some variety and do other kinds of positions? Duhhh! Next to all of this, working out actually gives you more POWER OVER YOUR EMOTIONS..because you release all negativity during the exercises and positive energy is created as a result of working out = feeling better about yourself = radiating happyness which will get noticed MORE = opportunity for approaching!

Personal Hygiene
I’ve met WAY too many Puritans with wildly growing beards, mustaches, hair and even bodily hair! Off course you can still attract more girls unshaven, but you will simply get noticed more if you DO shave…in other words: all of these Gamehelpers help YOU get more WARM approaches where women are checking YOU out! Did you know…that much of ‘how cute’ a man is, actually is based on his personal hygiene? His hair, his ability to take care of himself, his smooth and shaven skin, his tan (having a tan looks healthy, research has proven this!), clean and cut nails and a nice smell?

Wardrobe
Wearing the most expensive Armani suits, Prada sunglasses and multi-thousand dollar gators is NOT necessary, but most guys tend to forget that looking like a BUM does not IMPROVE your success! I see way too many guys with raggedy shoes, who mismatch colors and clothes and have a general lack of style. Please…no more brown with orange shoes, no more purple with red, no more lumberjack hats and shirts, you’re not trying to look like grandpa do you? You don’t need to be a fashion god, but think about it: if women see you take REALLY good care of yourself and strive to be classy, how will they think you will treat THEM? Like you’re going to take really good care of THEM and treat THEM as classy ladies!

Start paying attention to shoes since it’s every lady’s fetisj, start using attributes to accentuate colors, everybody wears dark so go bright or go light and use universal appealing combinations of colors such as white plus black man!

Message to the Puritan #3: Everytime I go out on the streets I get signs of interest EVERYWHERE I go, even in very small, crappy ass villages and very crowded places…in fact, can’t remember the last time I did a COLD approach! So guess what guys: these Outer Game skills HELP your success tremendously by improving the first impression TENFOLD. And once I start talking? YES I use Inner Game which gets me the close…but a) I don’t even have to look around for women anymore because THEY come to ME because of my skills, b) I achieve MASSIVE Social Game as soon as I display them, male and female = more opportunities and c) I use each and every one of them to improve the QUALITY of every encounter with women…for me AND for her!

“A Puritan is an associate of any number of religious groups advocating for more “purity” of worship and doctrine (of Inner Game). Puritans feel that Natural Game hasn’t gone far enough, and that the community is tolerant of practices which they associate with blasphemy: saying Outer Game ALSO influences a man’s success. The word “Puritan” was originally an alternate term for “Cathar” and was a pejorative used to characterize them as extremists.”

Puritans suck *ss…and fail to see Inner Game and Outer Game are two INTERLINKED concepts, seeing Inner Game as their “revelation.” Message to the Puritan: your Inner Game leads your success, but your Outer Game STEERS it…there is no dark without light, no internal without the external, so why not let them interact and have Total Game?

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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