Whoever I’ve met, whoever I’ve studied, whoever I’ve read about. Whoever I haven’t met in my life that is winning with women, whoever it may be. We all share one quality, persistence. It may be the singe most vital element in achieving your goals with women. They and I have persisted through allot of obstacles. Whether they’d like to admit it or not. The saying persistence is the key is no joke, it’s very true.  When the going was tough, we pushed on, fought through the pain barrier, worked hard to achieve the desired results. Shrugging off failed approaches and not getting despondent, always moving forward, because the will to win is too great.

People give up too easily in everything in life. Be it before even starting out, in the middle or just at the end, when it gets too hard for them. I read once “people never fail, they just give up.” that is so true. The great people of our time of their respected fields will always tell you they worked hard for what they got. Especially the social artists we all look up to. Now persistence is not only vital, because you keep trying and learning, adjusting yourself to be good with women and abolishing approach anxiety by interacting with countless woman and increasing your social proof. But in set, it’s just as vital.

Not ever set you open and conversation you start goes smoothly or as according to plan. No girl is the same. They are all different, wonderful people in there own special way, and calibration along with persistence is needed. You might approach a girl who can’t speak English, it might be too loud in a club and she can’t hear you. You might try getting investment out of her and she does not comply. She might shoot you down off the bat. Do you smile and walk away or eject yourself from the set? No! You persist, when you ask her a question and she doesn’t answer, you don’t drop it and walk away. You keep your cool, you wait for a response. You smile and you ask again, if you ask her to invest by asking her something about herself, if she gets shy and avoids the question, smile and politely persist with it, she’s not shooting you down or being rude, most people all have their own issues an insecurities, if she says doesn’t know, she generally probably can’t think of anything. So gently affirm and ask, nicely nudging her to be comfortable and wait for her to think of a response, thus building investment. When she swats you and gives you a bitch shield, do you cowl and run away wounded or do you exude your alpha male traits and stay persistent and say “I’m just being friendly and sociable, you can put your vampire teeth away”.

I suggest taking a pen and writing persist on you wrist or hand before going out to clubs or a shopping centre, just before you make your approach read it, while in set read it, keep on reading it be mindful of it.

Good luck guys,

RockyJJP & Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

PUA GLOSSARY
SET: girl/s that you’ve approached.

SOCIAL PROOF: majority of high value people that know you in your current surrounding.

INVESTMENT: time/energy spent on you (builds attraction).

BITCH SHIELD: An initial almost like a reflex reactive a woman will give you.

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