PUActive Column – On Confidence…
Hi Folks,
Most newbie’s in the community want to increase their confidence, but how can this be done? I took Archer Sloan’s Demonic Confidence course, and it gave me confidence but this was not because of the uncomfortable exercises. It was because it opened my mind to what I’m willing to put myself through to master this art!
On the last day of DC, (Demonic Confidence) my daily exercise was to approach smoking hottie’s and ask them if they wanted to come home with me. Something I would have refused to do in any other situation, but since the course promised me confidence with women I opened my mind and went through with it anyway.
The most important thing and the thing that gives me the most confidence was what I’d learnt about myself: I’m willing to push my comfort levels into extreme in order to learn and grow in this area of my life. That is the knowledge that gives me the most confidence and inner game.
This confidence does not come from women, this confidence is not thanks to my social skill set, this confidence is not even within myself! This confidence is with my desire for those things! A burning desire to win…and PERSISTING to make goals (literally and figuratively speaking, LOL).
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Onward…
I’m working more and more on developing this confidence, because the more confidence I have in my desire for power, and for money, and for women, and for great friends, and for threesomes, the more I’ll be willing to do to get all those things. I realise now, that a lot of my fears are not with women, or approach, they have to do with admitting to the world that I DO want women, money, power, great friends and threesomes!
So let me ask YOU now…what do you want? Are you willing to scream it out to the world?
I was listening to a Pickup Podcast, and they had on a guy who’d attended a major Project in England, and he’d finally admitted to the world that he like B&D (Bondage & Discipline). By owning his desires, he’s saying to the world, “This is who I am!”
Peace,
LoveJunkie
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