RockyJJP column- GAME: what separates the greats from everyone else
Every pick up artist I have ever seen, every well known ladies man out there, every guy that gets it consistently right with women, they all game differently, they have different styles methods and beliefs. Yet they are all successful, but why is this? I wondered. So being me, the persistent, need to know and understand all things guy I am, decided to work it out. So I carefully studied them. I watched there movements, watched tons of interviews and videos watched their live approaches and re watched them over and over again.
I didn’t discuss this in my blog post about having game yet, but I realised that the successful seducers all shared similar traits and commonalities that worked.
Traits that exuded and displayed all the same things but in different ways which triggered and lead their desired women on an emotional progression, a journey unlocking the same sequence of emotions in all woman that they interact with. It may sound confusing, but it’s not really, because all it means is that; all game boils down to the same core things that we must incorporate and display in ourselves in the interactions with all of the women we approach. A woman’s initial perception and attraction is based on a series of subtle yet powerful passive value.
And these values are:
• Root your interaction with a justification: Whatever you say to a girl or a group of girls, no matter what it is will always come with one distinct question and thought that will distract them. “Why?” why are you asking me/us this question. You must justify why you’re opening them. So if you justify your opener while you’re opening them as part of an opener, you’ll save time, satisfy their question and disqualify yourself from hitting on them all in one.
•Smile: A recent survey showed that 90% of women don’t remember the initial thing a guy said to them when they were approached. But they remembered whether he was smiling and if he had a nice smile, this will be the first thing they notice, the last they remember and will ease their nerves (a smiling person is a friendly person).
•Good Body language: The importance of body language cannot be uttered in a few words, its 90% of any interaction and will display alpha male traits in bucket loads without saying anything. Leaning back, standing tall, using specific rewarding Kino is powerful. All the best PUA’s have perfected their body language over hours of practice. You’ll notice sometimes in mid set, if you’re failing or not getting a good response, you’ve let your body language slip a notch. Keeping this frame throughout the entire interaction is very difficult and comes with practice.
•Lock in: every single PUA I’ve studied locks in the set first chance he gets, it’s crucial because you get them to interact with you. They invest in you. You’re not hovering any more, thus taking away a little awkwardness and makes the whole thing feel better, learn to lock in ASAP, its very important and increases your perceived value because the rest of the venue think the girl/s are there gaming you!
•Be aloof: is being nonchalant and non responsive, don’t be needy and value seeking, be neither here nor there. When they answer positively, reward them, giving a good response and in the same token, don’t be fazed when given a bad one. Just persist calmly, like it didn’t matter.
•Slow deliberate movements: A confident man, a composed man will do things when he wants and slowly because he wants to be seen. A nervous man touches allot and moves very fast and awkwardly, he touches himself and the people his talking too far too much. If you have abundance and are good with women and aren’t nervous you wont fidget with yourself or be touching constantly in an approval seeking manner. This includes eye contact!
So there you have it guys, the break down of a Guru PUA and ever since I realised these thing, I saw my perceptions on what makes a good man with women. What he does what he knows? And my mindset and views have changed and there are things I’ve noticed and realised and things you all need to realise.
They are:
1. Looks don’t count.
2. Spending time on your self does count.
3. Confidence can be sensed.
4. So can fear.
5. The nature or type of any approach doesn’t matter, justification is the key.
6. It’s not what you do. It’s how you do it.
7. Cocky funny is kryptonite to any girl.
8. Never dodge one girl for another, meet them both and let them fight for you.
9. Never show interest until they do first.
10. Must have alpha protocol.
WHAT IS ALPHA PROTOCOL?
It is being in control. Feeling motionless. Lead the interactions with calls and texts and doings. Grabbing and taking the set, not worrying about things. Be in control. Because remember, we’re held hostage by our emotions!
Have a good year guys. Start it tonight! Start it by choosing fight not flight!
RockyJJP
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