When many of us with our troubled minds and trampled hearts look around fearful of life, because we have a SERIOUS problem that NO ONE around us seems to have and yet we want change, we crave it! But how do we become more successful when there only seems to be lonelyness? Before, we lived in a status quo where everything is “good enough as it is” called a COMFORT ZONE…yet when we want change, we test the boundaries of what’s comfortable. The result? Feeling our environment is living in “past tense” while we want to make the future happen NOW, but for that we need to grow, because…

“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”
– Einstein

Yet how do we rise above how we ARE? The answer is not philisophical as so many men out there think, NO, it’s very practical indeed: we need SUCCESS models that we can model our lives after so we become more successful OURSELVES.

How To Use The Lifecycle Of Success Models…

Phase 1) First off, when you’re just starting as a Newbie you have approach anxiety and attach your self-worth to the end result of interactions. You don’t know what works, HOW it works and certainly not WHY, so no dates that end in a bed WITH her! Here you need to IMITATE your SUCCESS MODELS: guys around you that are good with women. You check out certain clever things they say, how their body language is, how they think and how they behave in general…and copy whatever suits you. This makes you understand WHAT works.

Phase 2) Secondly, when you’re starting to have success with women on several occasions being Advanced, you still have trouble getting CONSISTENT success and/or success in multiple settings. This is where you DIFFERENTIATE: you check out how you can COMBINE the copycatting of several of your success models into one ‘system’: YOUR approach. It’s where you start fine tuning the things you learned in phase one and make some minor adjustments because you’ve learned HOW it works.

Phase 3) Thirdly, when you’re starting to have success with women on a CONSISTENT basis as an Expert, you can now get just as much going for yourself as your success models, thus becoming equals and maybe even becoming the success model of friends a little bit further down the road. This is most often the phase where you ‘wing’ other people and your success model, start expanding your social game and seduction acquaintances and start to see little niches in your game where you believe you can maybe improve even MORE because you now know WHY things work.

Phase 4) Fourthly, when you’re starting to have MASSIVE success on a consistent basis as a Master, you have now become the envy of your previous success models as you’ve clearly outgrown them with your game. This is a problem, because when YOU are “at the top of the foodchain” your progress has come to a halt: you ARE the greatest in your environment, so why even have a desire to be great? This either means your line straight to the top will level out (you lose motivation) OR that people will pull you down to their level or limit your growth (instead of growth stimulators they’ve become weight on your shoulders). This is a time of RE-DEFINING: should I settle with my current level? (= no growth, which means being in a comfort zone, but just a higher one which is just as bad dumb ass!) OR search for an environment of success models that are once again better than myself? So I can grow further. Hence, the cycle begins all over again…unless you think you’ve achieved “Mastery.” But in the eyes of the evergrowing there is no mastery, only vanity towards change…

***NOTE*** And if you want to know how I discovered how Casanova, Cleopatra, Lord Byron and other infamous, world-class seducers ALL used a number of seduction instruments that could easily capture someone’s heart and mind no matter how much they tried to resist..

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Onward…

The cycle I just showed you is the basis of CONTINUAL, individual growth. It inspires, it triggers your natural drive for competition, it gradually teaches you insights of increasing difficulty and more! Simply put, your success models will lift YOU to the next level…as long as you PERSIST in having a burning desire for CONSISTENT growth!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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