So many of us think that they’re all alone when it comes to making BIG changes happen in their dating life, and ALL those people are WRONG! In my last article, I talked about how you can naturally build your knowledge (Inner Game) AND experience (Outer Game) with the use of success models.

I still remember the first time I introduced myself to someone who I wanted to be MY success model, although I didn’t even know what that was back then, I just HAD to know…lol! I was trying to meet women in the club attempt for a few ENTIRE weekens in a row, and visited three clubs that were all very different from one another on Saturday. That last weekend I was at a Dutch club called Tivoli -again- and there he was: that same guy. Which same guy? That same guy that I saw walking out the club with two or more girls kissing and touching him all over like he was some pimp the weekend before, and the weekend before that one..AND the weekend before THAT one! And guess what he was doing now? Going home to have himself a threesome again, and every time the girls were different girls! As I left the club I bumped into him, because one of the two girls was throwing up all over the damn place, the other one fell..and he said they could go home by themselves now, lol! We talked a bit and I off course had to share my opinion of how he did it, he just laughed and told me I was so wrong, offered to buy me a beer. And the rest is history: anywhere, any time, anyone I saw him do his thing, copied it…and had success after success, stumbling across more success models over time. That was for continual, individual game growth…but I wanted more. Enter the Mastermind group…

How “The Magic” Happens…

1) A Mastermind group is a group of people that actively help you and themselves succeed: there is synergy of commitment, excitement AND energy that participants bring to the group. The beauty of Mastermind Groups is that participants raise the bar by CHALLENGING each other to create and implement goals, brainstorm ideas, and support each other with total honesty, respect and compassion. Mastermind participants act as catalysts for Game GROWTH, devil’s advocates and supportive colleagues. Over time, it grows into true brotherhood of success minded people.

2) The group offers you the benefits of differing perspectives, input AND feedback. Just think about it: a Natural Game mastermind consisting of students of Vin Di Carlo, Juggler and Zan Perrion…how much different, yet POWERFUL perspectives are in THAT one? Or how about you having mastered cocktail mixing to get girls and him being THE man of massage? How about guy A giving you VERY practical techniques and guy B enlightening you with some DEEP Inner Game? A is a GOD of Day Game and B an Online Game prophet? And the list goes on and on…

3) Your mastermind team brings resources and connections to the table you might not have on your own: he has a set of e-books you’ve NEVER heard of but that seem VERY valuable, that guy can hook you up with MAJOR discounts on bootcamp A and so on!

4) You receive accountability and inspiration from the group, thus enabling you to maintain focus in achieving your goals
So a Mastermind is an entire GROUP which aims for improvement, with it’s most powerful feature being number 2: an ENORMOUS flow of different perspectives, input and feedback that you simply CAN’T experience from learning alone. Why? If you’re “Package A” than you can develop from a newbie A1 to a GOD-LIKE A100…but that’ll NEVER make you an entirly different person with different personal background, perception of the world, ideals and so on.

How To Have FUN With It

– Set up goals: for the entire Group, this gives the entire effort a sense of direction, of purpise which will bond everyone more but will also motivate more. Group effort = simply MORE results than individual effort, because a man can’t do the job of 10 men! Examples: talk to x number of men/women, get x number of phonenumbers, dance with x number of men/women, etc…and increase these over time!

– Set up an agenda: to make it a habit of ACTIVELY trying to improve your dating life from several angles, inputs and feedbacks, stacking the results on top of each other over time and also do some teambuilding etc. So keep the group close: meet AT LEAST once a week with all the members.

– Do brainstorms: throw new concepts you came up with into the group…going through a MAJOR realization of game with a GROUP of females is NEVER a dumb thing to do my man: talk with women about everything concerning, remotely related to and involving sex, how they try to hide their nervousness on a date or in bed, what they’re thinking when a man doesn’t call after they’ve given him their number. It’s like having access to a HUGE pile of “counterintelligence”, wouldn’t you agree?

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Onward…

Reality Check?

That’s all pretty cool, but how does such a Mastermind Group work in real life? Well, let me tell you how I did it:

– The group: me (boy) + 6 cute girls that were always in it, and some come-and-go ones. We had bets and competitions about who would pick up the most people for themselves (me picking up women vs. one of them picking up men), we would switch roles and see who could pick up the most people FOR the other (me approaching men and introducing them to her, etc.), we would say this weekend 20 numbers or else… and muuuch more!

– Perspectives: I would throw in ‘mistakes men make in bed’ with one, two or more girls and see what women in general like and dislike, I would investigate what they considered cheating, I would test what dancing they laughed AT and what dancing they laughed with, I asked them how they would seduce a man from beginning to end…and than how they would do that with women (one of them was bisexual, lol!), etc. Input & feedback: I would ask I did this on that date, how can I do it even better? I fucked up blabla on the date how to prevent it? etc.

– Resources & connections: they would point out locations to me where LOTS of women can be find but NO men (there are TONS of them!) AND…they introduced me to their sisters/nieces/mothers even/classmates/girl friends/colleagues/female neighbors etc. and in turn I did the same with their male counterparts for them! Didn’t like the woman I got introduced too? Than I would make her part of my Mastermind and start all over again!

– Inspiration: total support network here: whenever things went sour with a girl I dated? I would ask input and if that didn’t help and the “ex-date” moved on, than just expanded my group via my current members and get introduced OR would get introduced that same week, lol!
Maybe next time, I’ll discuss the various functions of the Mastermind Group a bit more in-depth for a male group AND for a female group separately + give you some examples of where to FIND success models and Mastermind groups…

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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