Seriously now…who would NOT want to live the life of a rockstar?

There you are: you’re the rebel of society, the ultimate badboy, who drinks and smokes and parties his life away…while being high on this or that drugs most of the time? In your free time you’re taking that bike to the road and do your own little stars & stripes tour: mean sunglasses on, the wind blowing through your hair, you had WAY too much to drink but hey…you’re a star so FUCK it! You’re looking like a true bad ass with your ‘motormouse’, decorated, rugged and raw leather gear on and whenever you see any authoritative figure –the pigs, politricks or even your bum dad- you flip ‘em the finger…because that’s what a rockstar is supposed to do! You get to travel the world and see ALL these places, and every place you go? There they are: lots and LOTS of screaming women who would do almost ANYTHING to sleep with you and best of all is that you get PAID for this in amounts that would make a gold digger drewl!

How’s that for a fantasy, for an exciting life? We all dream about it…having an exciting life. But frankly, right now it’s time to kick your ass for being such a boring wussy boy, no NOT man…BOY I said. Why? Because it seems like most men are actually making an EFFORT to bore the sh*t out of their women AND themselves! “Every Thursday right after work I go to the gym, pick up my girl, chill on the couch, watch a movie and on Friday I…” STOP! Where’s the adrenaline rush, the risk, the adventure, the excitement? It’s GONE nowadays, because TOO MUCH guys out there think that they need to do life threatening stuff to experience it –bungee jumping, skydiving, etc. And than they wonder why they feel so limited…because you’re ALWAYS doing what’s comfortable, NEVER face your fears and NEVER try something new dummy! Introducing…the daredevil mindset to bring excitement. So let’s bring it topic by topic here.

Facing Your Fears

When I was young, I got bitten by dogs on numerous occasions with one actually living right across the street! As a little man versus such an ‘untamable beast’, I got terrified of them…didn’t even dare to go outside the house anymore. But than you see dogs all around you: anywhere on the streets, in the mall, sometimes in the bus or while being a guest at someone’s house who keeps a dog. You can choose for the comfortable way and fear dogs the rest of your life, avoid them, and find they’re STILL there at the end of days. OR…you can pro-actively CONFRONT it. Here’s what I did:

1. I walked alone in the park every weekend when I could, because I just KNEW there were going to be dogs there…first time passing by I was absolutely terrified and couldn’t move, second time I passed IT by but with as much distance between us as possible haha! Third time, still no bites…I passed by feeling anxious, fourth time I passed by regularly and STILL nothing happened…after an entire month of approaching dogs!

2. Up next…I tried to approach the owners of dogs who were playing with their pets to ask if I could throw the ball once, I did once, twice, three times and before I knew it? That ‘untamable hellhound’ was looking at me all enthusiastic, their barks were scary but I knew it was out of pure excitement. The last time this dog approached me right after I played with it and licked me, I got bitten trying to pet those dogs…I tried to pet this one and nothing happened! Because I didn’t ran STRAIGHT towards a strange dog with my hand already out trying to pet them, lol!

3. This friend of mine had a dog at his crib who they were going to pick up after vacation from this ‘kennel resort for vacation dogs’ and next thing I know…I was IN a 3 by three cage with a strange dog looking at me almost with that ‘the f* you want?’ look. In all the other cages the dogs were going wild, barking, acting aggressively and constantly moving…but I tried to be indifferent towards them and it worked, the strange dog recognized my cool and positive mindset and, actually licked my hand and we took him home!

4. Before I knew it? I was in another kennel with my parents to CHOOSE a dog who would be our pet because I had grown to love those animals so much that I was comfortable LIVING with one. We got ourselves a dog, and the ‘old man’ is still alive today and I still pet him with great pleasure.

Now go and read that again, and realize it was a metaphor for women…so face your fears chump!

Face them one by one like I did and you’ll notice how it will KILL your limited beliefs one by one and free your mind to become one of the most open-minded men ever who just says: fuck it, let’s DO this!

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Onward…

Butcher The Boring

Let’s move into a broader perspective here: your friends, your social environment. Off course playing the xbox eating chips and drinking beers with your friends is fun, but it’s also COMFORT ZONE…and not something that you’ll look back on and say: wow, such an exciting life I live…and neither will women. We need to move from the nice…to the SO MUCH FUN category of entertainment here.

How? Again, be the daredevil and take some RISKS because if you always play it safe…you’ll never be that great, but just average…because average is safe. Below average is very bad, and above average is too risky, you’ll get noticed too much or fall harder. Onwards to the practical application:

· If you can choose between doing and not doing…DO IT! See life as your big backpack: the more journeys you make, the more souvenirs (experience, fun, etc.) you can bring to the table in future events and interactions. As you start to grow your sense of opportunity, you’ll realize how those spontaneous “fuck it, let’s go” moments will bring you the most excitement in life. It’s unpredictable what will happen, it’s fun, it’s experience from which you’ll learn. It’s DAREDEVIL…risky, because you fear it won’t be fun but trust me…a lot of times it WILL and besides, women LOVE spontaneity. So make them join in the exciting life of…YOU (& your people).

– You can play Grand Theft Auto, Need For Speed on the xbox with your friends, sure, nice…but you can ALSO make a tournament out of it where money can be made thanks to the pot you all invested in and where the loser of whatever match must drink a shot of tequila. You can go outside and hang around the park with a bit with your friends or ‘her’, sure, nice…but you can ALSO go outside when it’s dark with your flashlight, explore desolated terrains and ‘haunted houses’ and tell about your supernatural experiences in that setting or fuck her in that quiet place. You can rent a movie with some people, sure, nice…but you can ALSO go watch it at your local iMax where the screen alone is 5 times bigger than that of a normal cinema, have a popcorn fight as a group or with strangers there and see what happens. You catch my drift? Add a little fun, add a little challenge, add a little risk. The first is nice, comfort…the second is excitement, SO much fun, risky, and one HELL of a story to tell during the rest of the week!

– I’ve always wanted to…than DO SO dumb ass! If you always wanted to jump out of a plane with a parachute on? Than save the money and go up there! If you always wanted to dive in this or that place, why the –bleep- not? If you always wanted to tour the United States, latin countries, Asia, whatever…uhm…why not save up the money, take ALL the days off you can get and actually GO there? Or better: go there with people who matter most? You only live once my man, so you really want to DIVE on ANY ‘once in a lifetime’ events that you can get your hands on!

– Break free of your normal day-to-day-life patterns and for once..battle it out! If you have hobby that you really like, why not have more fun with it? Seriously, you should chase any passion you have no matter how silly it may seem at first. Say you have a total fetisj for Mexico after travelling there. Why not go to salsa parties, why not enter into latin dance competitions, why not mingle with however enters your local Taco Bell, why not chat up employees of that Mexican restaurant, why not get some books, get yourself a Spanish course or even a Spanish girlfriend? Live the life man, live that fantasy…it’ll make it SO much fun for you. So challenge yourself to take it to the next level, especially when you’re into sports or hobbies requiring physical input: seek out competition, seek out like-minded people and GROW! Seriously, even when you’re a total Warcraft geek who spends 10 hours per day on his computer playing the game, why NOT set up a local fanclub, participate in state competitions, go seek out international competition with Xbox Live or whatever and attend that game conference? Stop having only mediocre fun, and START taking a few chances, seeking out challenge and LIVE the moment!

I have SO much more to say on the daredevil mindset, that I think I’ll write a Part II on this…tackle WAY too dull male-female friendships, put some red hot chili PEPPER into boring ass relationships and whatever the hell I can think of next!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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