Remember last time where we talked about how YOU need to get some excitement in your life going, how you need to take a chance if you ever want to KEEP being successful with women & dating?

Well, guess what today is: “how to be the rebel of society part II”, without getting into bar fights, convicted or committing felony’s though! Last time we talked about how to face your fears by confronting them AND how to butcher the boring by adding more excitement.
But now onto the best part of it all: you’re probably thinking that you’ve ‘lost, failed, was rejected’ when you’ve become friends with a girl you thought was attractive, right? WRONG!

Dance With The Daredevil

We’re talking male-female relationships here, and they’re HIGHLY overlooked by pretty much everyone out there. Yet becoming friends with an attractive looking girl has SO many advantages when you’re trying to win with women, that it boggles my mind! I can’t believe most men out there are so BORING in their friendships, damn…it almost hurts my feelings! Here they are:

– Your female oracle: so you started talking to this really cute girl, spend a whole lot of time having fun with her, generating attraction, and at the end of the road…she turns out to be ‘just another friend.’ Friends, FEMALE friends to be exact, have advantages however. When you’re learning how to pick up women, what the game is, how to kiss them and all that…who’s your best teacher? WOMEN! Ask them what kind of messages boring guys always send her on her profile, what to do in your current situation with this or that other girl, what turns her completely off during a date, what requests/questions/behaviors creeps her out, how females ‘play the game’, why she thinks playboys are so successful with women, what’s men neglect to do before/during/after sex, etc. Don’t ask A question like ‘what do women like in men’ (because attraction is based on FEELING, not logic…it happens subconsciously so asking the conscious mind is a mistake…it doesn’t know), it’s about asking the RIGHT questions…specific ones like those I suggested just now. You’ll have TONS of fun and you’ll be surprised at what they’ll admit to you! They’ll even tell you what they use when it comes to washing it down there…I’m not kidding! So view EVERY female as your oracle…and LEARN from her. The more experienced you are, the better your become friends-date ratio is…and guess what speeds up the process? EXACTLY!

– Your female playing ground: us humans tend to view dates (our sexual relationships) as more important than our friendships, and as such..we’re usually more afraid of losing our partner then losing our friends. Say, you learn a new technique, skill or some ‘move’ (whether it’s body language or something else)…but you’re not sure if it will REALLY work on women. Say, you want to sharpen the conversational knife to really have a good, fun talk together. Say, you want to discover the best places to isolate a girl so you can kiss her (or better) in any setting (club, shopping mall, etc.) or want to learn how to dance. What do you do? If you take your partner or would-be partner and you mess up or admit you need improvement in this or that area, you’ve either just killed ALL the attraction or you have a serious fixer-upper on your hands there. Guess who come to the rescue? Your female friends do! Try it out…and if it doesn’t work? Look for improvement points and try it on the next one…until you either know you’ve MADE it work…or whatever you’re trying to do doesn’t work at all. Females…your ultimate playing ground, your test factory.

– Your female connector: if you tell a woman about your ambitions straight up, whatever they may be (except for starting crime scenes, lol!) and ask if she knows someone who can help? Nine out of ten times she’ll know someone who has either done it already, is trying to do it OR knows someone knows some other guy who does. Females are very keen on their social alliances, so why not use them to your advantage? I’ve had MULTIPLE female friends of mine introduce me to this or that guy who’s a natural in the game after I told them I wanted to win with women because I love interacting with them!

– Your female matchmaker: are you kidding me? Women LOVE to match people in the name of love, same actually make a fulltime hobby out of it! Just think about it…women are very keen on social alliances and thus tend to have a strong and/or large social circle. Most likely that large social circle will contain other women, so why not let them introduce you to their niece/classmate/sister/colleague/workout friend/neighbor/friend/associate or sometimes maybe even their mother? If you reward her for it by introducing HER to a male in your social circle…a cousin/classmate/brother/etc.? You’ll actually STIMULATE her doing it! And remember…even if it doesn’t click with that one, why not befriend her and let her introduce you to HER niece/classmate/sister/etc.? Did you know that a study has proven that it actually IS a small world…where we are connected to every other person on earth through only 6.8 links? Google it…and then imagine what happens if you befriend 6.8 females…

These four factors together make up my “Female Mastermind Group”.

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Onward…

How To Get The Bore Out Of Being…With Her

Most guys are either VERY afraid of losing a girl OR afraid of that they won’t get her back AFTER losing her. First of all let’s talk a bit of psychology, Inner Game, here: what happens if you tend to focus on mistakes, failure, negativity, pessimism, rejection? You’ll actually start thinking about them more and more…as YOU are making them more and more of an issue, leading to creating a limiting belief for yourself. You went from thinking a bit negative to someone who gets limited in his ACTIONS because of negativity. Guess what happens if you still think of negativity then? You’ll limit yourself more and more until ‘the minus’ dominates your entire lifestyle. This results in YOU being less open, less spontaneous ‘because what if she won’t like it and I’ll lose her’, less fun ‘because maybe she won’t like what I’m saying and I’ll lose her’ etc. etc. And what happens in the end? You’ll lose her because you STOPPED being open, spontaneous, fun and thus attractive!

Onto the ACTION part now…you know what behavior makes a woman lose her interest? Do you know how BORING, predictable and sloppy guys get in the long run? It sometimes amazes me how the metamorphosis (= the relationship) makes them go from stud to mud: from Brad Pitt-like to, well…Joker from Batman The Dark Knight-like.

– Loosening the belt: when you first met her you were wearing hip, trendy outfits with your hair all nice, smoothly shaven, smelling good and you had a tight six pack and somewhat muscular body thanks to working out. Over time, you grew into comfort however: you started shaving less, once in a while you show up in a jogging outfit now…while you aren’t going to jog with her, you start to grow your hair or just wear a hat to cover it up, you use a lot less cologne and perfume, you would rather drink beers with friends and so your six pack starts to disappear…you’ve become SLOPPY: you went from stud to mud. Getting the girl is not a license to chill and slide back into bad habits you killed, because if you do she will notice it and you will lose her. So why not stay on top of your game and maintain your physical appearance at least? So DON’T loosen the belt, never touch it or fasten it even more!

– Standard behavior: all those things that made you wonderful, interesting and special in the beginning are now simply standard features…you’ve become predictable. So what do you need to do? Become UNpredictable. How? When you repeatedly reinforce behavior with the same reinforcer, results will decline over time because we´re neurologically programmed to do so. So start giving it after the second time instead of the first, or the third or fifth time. Do you kiss her every time you leave for work? Do you kiss her every time you come back? If you do this, this reinforcer no longer conveys info – it has become meaningless. Stop that and make the back from work kiss suddenly the exception instead of the rule or change the way you great her entirely. Then the behavior will be brand new all of a sudden, which generates attraction. What also works are totally unannounced, unpredictable and larger than average reinforcements of behavior on occasion: surprises. That sudden weekend in the Bahama’s, cook her Mexican food and take her out to a salsa night while you couldn’t even cook before…those kinds of things.

– Freak in the bed: similar to the above tip, in that she gets used to your behaviors and won’t view them as special anymore. You can also prevent this by sexual tension not with attraction, but with sex. How? Why instead of missionary don’t you try a different position? There are what…200 around? Why not instead of nothing use attributes like honey, whipped cream, chocolate sauce, ice cubes, etc.? Why not use sexual play like toys, a blindfold, roleplay, strip poker for two or any other sex game? Why not instead of the bed go for the showers, the kitchen, the stairs, the wall? Why not instead of inside secretly and without being seen (=very exciting) go for deserted bushes, the beach, the bathroom of some venture (bowling hall, a club, the airport, the sauna, etc.)? Do this OUT OF THE BLUE, without ever telling her what your plan was…what’s nice to do here is hint to her that you two are going to do something VERY different this time. There are MILLIONS of possibilities with sex, so don’t limit yourself to just a few there buddy! If you’re short of creativeness, check out the Kama Sutra OR mail me for some other GREAT resources on sex.

– Wild action: most places guys going on dates are SO conservative that it literally bores ME to death! Why not grab her hand and all of a sudden say: baby, we’re going rollerblading today. Or: go to the casino with her, ride a rollercoaster, visit a haunted house that’s a tourist attraction, go to a sex fair, go see a bull fight and trying to fight it yourself, go rent quads with her, go mountain biking or any other adventurous, fun activity to do? You don’t have to do this EVERY time, just spice up things a little bit there my friend and have yourself the most fun you can have!

So keywords fo the Daredevil mindset are: taking chances, wild, freaky, loose, unpredictable and get the most out of EVERY female relation you have going on!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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