Can you remember the times when you first learned about the seduction community, and wanted to know it ALL? Have you ever completed an e-book which was so RICH in content, that it made you feel like you were standing on the benches in the audience at the concert of a rock GOD shouting “we want more! we want more?” Than I know how you feel…but that’s pointing your enthusiasm in the WRONG direction!

Let me explain with this metaphor…say you want to be the world’s GREATEST latin dancer, sweeping women off their feet across the globe with your elegant moves, your masculine poses, your passionate hips, your eyes full of fire. Your only wish is to learn everything there is to know about dance, but how do you do it? You start buying books about flamenco, salsa, bachata, reggaeton, merengue…SHITLOADS of ’em! Every author, every method, every style of latin dancing is there…you’ve got them ALL! You’ve even collected every single Youtube video there is about it, watched all the style competitions…and with all this learning you go out and compete in one of those competitions. You rock! You are the best and win all the prizes in the world…in your IMAGINATION that is! Why? Because once you were on that dancefloor at the ‘moment of truth’, you didn’t know WHAT style to use, WHERE to move and how to combine it all! So you end up ranking FAR from the top 3, the top 5, the top 10, even the top 50!

Sounds pretty damn self-explanatory doesn’t it? And yet, MILLIONS of men out there trying to learn how to be better with women do just THIS: buy book A, listen to audio B, go to seminar C and get info here, info there, info everywhere! But info does NOT replace experience my friends…in fact, if you DON’T combine theory with practice enough, you will FAIL. I see WAY too many guys out there confusing themselves with DOZENS of methods at the same time, without them really knowing WHY it works. They’ll start saying ridiculous things like: I didn’t approach the girl because I couldn’t decide what would work better: negging, busting balls, cocky & funny or playful teasing…instead of just DOING it! It hurts their game even more when guru A bashes on guru B saying how this and that SUCKS…

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Onward…

When you first start with the game you don’t know WHAT works, WHERE it works and HOW it works and it almost seems to big of a task to learn…which is why you need to learn the overall STRUCTURE, get some routines going for you that teach you what, where & how. Than you start taking consistent action, and slowly begin to realize WHY all of it works, what attraction really is, what the overview of it all is…this is when IMITATING Mystery’s game or any other man’s game slowly gets replaced by INNOVATING the game itself: creating your own ways of thinking, your own routines for meeting women because since you now know the why, you can think of all kinds of ways for doing WHAT works! So the evolutionary process of your ‘dating career’ slowly but surely steers you from routine based game towards natural game…

But guess what happens when you’re too OBSESSED with learning the what, where and how without the experience? It’s like building your own playboy mansion that you only need 200 pieces of brick for…with two THOUSAND pieces of brick! YES you have more brick, but the house will look TERRIBLE because you tried to STUFF 10 different kinds of houses in ONE house…while you don’t even understand that it’s NOT the brick that makes the house be all it can be! Excellence is bred by narrowing your focus on a neverending basis and specializing in that niche, not by BROADENING your view so you know a little bit of this and a little bit of that…McDonalds doesn’t sell mobile phones, space shuttles AND clothes now, do they? You can start broadening your view ONCE you have a considerable amount of experience and know WHY: why attraction is, why attraction works and doesn’t work and why you want to be better at it anyways!

We must first need an OVERVIEW of things before we’re able to see where we can expand, which is why you should learn SOME first, get your experience, get feedback on that, learn more, and eventually become a taught natural in the game! It’s time to get rid off both the key jockeys who never go out in real life AND the info jockeys who seem to think a woman will materialize before their very own eyes if they burn thousands of dating e-books and put all the ashed together in some fertile grounds and sprinkle water on it regularly…lol!

Moral of the story: tell me and I’ll hear, show me and I’ll see, but make me take action and I’ll BE!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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