Being known for meeting and dating several women: the vast majority of men FEAR it. They’ll think it will prevent their success once girls know he has had many women..because his “rep” will make them see through him before he has even started to talk.

Guys think women will HATE their guts for it; for having dated several women…but that’s typical surface level psychology, and what a MALE would think.

Frankly, I’ve never regretted who I’ve met and dated, not a single friggin’ time – neither have the naturals I learned my game from. And I think it’s time to do something controversial and reveal the ruthless reality behind having a reputation.

Here are 3 hidden truths of female psychology for why having a reputation is a GOOD thing:

– If you had so many women in your past, other females will think there most be something about you that makes you so desirable..because why would all those women otherwise want you? This will feed her curiosity, a girl will want to find out exactly WHAT is it about you that makes you such a big sexual threat. Next to this, being a notorious seducer will also make you come across like a badboy who’s after her body, not her heart..which brings danger and excitement along with it. (And women love badboys guys, for the simple fact that badboys take WHAT they want, WHEN and HOW they want it..and they don’t give a crap about the consequences…versus the normal guy who hesitates and doubts and end sup doing nothing to get her.)

– There’s also a “dirty motivator” at play here: we want what everyone else is having. It’s the human drive of competition my friend: the grass is always greener on the other side, and she wants to lay in it, play in it, make love in it…it connects with the previous reason, because if everything wants to have you then you MUST be good (good in bed? good in romancing a girl? Etc.)

– If you had so many women but DON’T want her, a woman will automically assume that there must be something WRONG with her. She’ll feel like less of a woman (“because if you sleep with all kinds of women, but not with me..then I must not be a real woman?”). And letting her think she’s not a real woman, will only make her want to prove herself as being a REAL woman..

And because of these reasons, they secretly actually want to find out…find out A) WHY you are so attractive to other women, B) if they can tame you and have you all to themselves (it’s every woman’s fantasy: taming the badboy) and C) WHAT’S the reason for you turning them down..and how they can prove they’re real women after all (so proving you wrong).

Guess what happens when a woman KNOWS you’re a libertine, someone who plays around with women..then she asks you about it..and you tell her you’re NOT a player? It will make you come across WEAK, insincere, like you’re faking confidence. Why? Because a real man would openly admit their mistakes, while a lying weazel would try to hide his true self and will try to manipulate her…

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By NOT denying your reputation and in fact, openly admitting it, you show confidence…you show the world that you’re indifferent to their opinions and an admirer of female beauty. You’ll show women that you’re a badboy, but it’s take it or leave it..and women LOVE badboys!

Do you understand what this means? It means that a reputation will HELP your success. Remember that a reputation is based on GOSSIP, which is always exaggerrated..meaning people will exaggerate how badboy-ish you are, how many women you’ve conquered, how dangerous you are…and thus how EXCITING you are. Which only AIDS you in your seduction…

And if you truly want to be a world-class seducer who can even seduce the most noble and honorable women around..you’ll cater to the idea that she’s taming the badboy..that she can reform you into a good guy…a hero instead of pure evil. So talk about regretting your actions of the past, wanting to change, show that you are ashamed of your former self..feel sick about your old ways..

Taming the badboy is also compelling because it gives her the idea that if she succeeds, she will be BETTER than all the other women that you’ve had: she’s the only one who has you alllll to herself. THIS flatters her ego, satisfies her thirst for competition..and it means she will have proven that she IS a real woman…

And that’s the astonishing power of having a reputation…

Speaking of having a reputation: although he is a fictional character in a TV show, Barney Stinson can teach you a thing or two about reputations and women as I explained in my blog with Barney Stinson tips to pick up chicks.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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