How To Have Your Seductive Mode ON All The Time
There´s a REALLY common question everybody who wants to start learning how to meet women asks me, once they know a fancy pantsy trick here and a technique there and have gotten their mind right..their Inner Game on point. And this question HAUNTED me in my dreams and seemed to follow me wherever I went during the day like a friggin´ STALKER…when I began understanding the art of seduction.
What was this nightmarish question? I´ll tell you what it was…it was THIS ONE: How do YOU manage to stay in your `seductive mode` all day, so you can meet women whenever, wherever Carlos?
And I´d like to answer this question with help from the knowledge of my good friend Wayne Elise, in the seduction community better known as dating guru Juggler. So let´s get down to business, shall we?
Every man and his brother would like to have a state of mind to be able to seduce women around the clock, in whatever way he chooses and wherever they damn want to. In short: that greedy basterd wants it all, everywhere, ALL THE TIME. And I don´t blame him, because especially when you´re just starting to learn how to attract women, you´re having MAJOR PROBLEMS with being able to KEEP building attraction (because you need to get rid off all the mistakes, fears, alibi´s, limiting beliefs and BAD HABITS from the past). But WANTING it, is different from KNOWING what that `ON mode` actually IS.
So What Is This `ON mode` Everybody Wants And Talks About?
As Wayne would say: it´s when you´re in the frame of being VERY open. Your guard is lowered and you can think aloud in front of people. Your opinions, emotions and humor flow freely without guilt, shame or stage fright…it´s being able to express yourself FULLY.
To some people that´s like a regular NIGHTMARE: they have a problem with being THAT open all the time. They believe you need to ´protect´ yourself from failure, rejection, con-men who are out to get their money with false claims, and girls you don´t want pursuing you or else you won´t be able to deal with it.
And it´s all WRONG!
You also need to be open with those you do not want to seduce or not want in your life. It is just that they´re hesitant to develop the dark side of themselves. They´ve mastered their seductive ´good´ side, but now you have to pay more attention to the other side.
Me & Wayne KNOW (and you probably do too) that you have used this side to bitch out girls and to lay down the law, but you need to become even better and willing to express anger and power as you have your passion. Those moments when someone wrongs you and you would normally just forget it for example, you now tell them how they f*cked up.
That doesn´t mean you have to get all red in the face and be a complete a-hole. No. It´s becoming more effective at putting people in their place and using negative emotions to influence others TOO.
Try this experiment. Go to the center of town and approach the first bum you see. Sarge him. Make him like you. This should be very easy. Now, when he begins to try to get some spare change out of you cut him off. Do not let him go down that road. Be ruthless but keep your guard down and go right back to being friendly. Make him like you without giving him any money or hemming and hawing about giving him money.
Be tough as nails but then be able to turn on a dime and be nice and smooth as silk. Women need that from you. People need that from you. Think of yourself as everyone´s dad. You love them but sometimes you have to lay down the law.
When you can freely and effectively express both sides then you will feel very free to be open (ON) all the time. It´s being your best self: seductive and smooth as silk, but that package comes WITH a bullsh*t detector.
And if you want to get the combination code to unlock the secret strategies of a member of an elite circle of master seducers who has helped people like Neil Strauss (the author of the world-famous book about seduction, The Game) and dating guru Tyler Durden DOUBLE their game..
…Then I highly recommend you do a Phone Consult with Wayne Elise (a.k.a. Juggler), and you can read all about it HERE
Here´s Another Juicy Secret About Being `ON`…
There´s another way of looking at `treating everybody the same` (without getting overly Mother Thereza or Amnesty International over here), and I want to tell you a little something something about it…
And it´s DOING something versus BEING something
The general male public drewls over hot women like Salma Hayek, Adriana Lima, Anna Kournikova, and the lesser known ones…and us men tend to look, talk to and chase after only the super attractive women. Meanwhile 99% of the men, who do just that: trying to meet only attractive women, DON´T realize how they´re in reality CRIPPLING their game.
Think about what my friend and dating guru Zan Perrion says: if you´re ONLY being nice to attractive women, only being charming, selective and funny around them…then YOU are NOT charming, selective and funny. Nope. Then you´re just DOING something, an act, you play out a show in front of them while hoping someone will hump you…just like peacocks and their tails do.
If you WERE funny, selective, charming and all of the other character traits that create staggering amounts of attraction…then you would be that way around ALL women, because you ARE them, you´re not DOING them.
That means you´re teasing mothers, little nieces, school teachers, female and WAY older colleagues at work, grandmom´s. And same goes for being selective, charming and giving compliments. That´s being genuine: you ARE what you say you are, instead of just performing another act like you´re some circus act/seducer. Hey, whatever allows you to make a living bro…lol!
Allow me to relate BEING something to being on 24/7, everywhere and all the time. If you act in exactly the same way to ALL women, around ALL women…and yes even around ALL people, then you will simply learn HOW to be funny, playful, challenging, selective etc. TEN times as fast.
It will CUT the time it takes you to understand what these attractive character traits are and making them your own (everybody has ´em, it´s just a matter of KNOWING that is so, and thenfocusing on DEVELOPING them more) in HALF. It will not only draw women, but ALL people towards you because you´ll be fun to be around, exciting, charming, selective.
Practice makes perfect, so by treating everybody in exactly the same, attractive way…you will INTERNALIZE it, after which you will be ON and in `seductive mode` any time, anywhere, any way!
And if you want to get your hands on mega-valuable, ruthless reality checks just like these that will bullcharge your Inner Game, and amazing secrets of seduction and conversations that will make your jaw drop to the floor…TWICE..
Then subscribe yourself for one of Wayne´s Phone Consults so you can talk to the man IN PERSON as soon as humanly possible and improve your dating success…almost overnight
And I don´t want to hear anything anymore about on- and off-switches, because from now on?
It´s ALWAYS on!
To More Dating Success,
Carlos Xuma
Win With Women
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