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Amsterdam, the Netherlands June 25, 2010 – Almost 4 years ago, dating coach for women Mimi Tanner launched her complete guide to calling men. Lots of women have had success with getting dates over the phone since. But there’s nothing out there yet for the opposite sex. There’s nothing for men. Although there are lots of dating books with dating advice for men, there’s no book, seminar or course for calling women or texting women. Carlos Xuma, a top dating coach for men, revealed why that needs to change: ”1 out of 5 men looking for dating advice ask a dating coach at least once about calling women and texting women. That’s a lot! Why do single men have a lot to ask about it? Because there are plenty of false myths out there. Myths like the Three Day Rule.” According to the Urban Dictionary (www.urbandictionary.com) the Three Day Rule is: “A rule to prevent a man from appearing desperate or needy after attaining a girl's phone number. Following this rule, men are to wait 3 days before calling in order to create suspense and appear non-needy.” When asked why the Three Day Rule is a false myth, Carlos Xuma responds: ”A lot of single men can’t get women to call them back or pick up the phone. When asked, they say they wait for several days (just like the Three Day Rule tells them to). But women are not happy at all when a guy lets them wait for days before they get a phonecall. Women think a guy is playing games when he waits that long, so they start to play games too.” He goes on to say: “when guys wait too long with calling women, a woman will not pick up the phone when they call. Or worse: a woman will pick up but never show up for a date to have her revenge. That has disastrous effects on a single man’s confidence and dating success.” Carlos Xuma then points out that the Three Day Rule is just the beginning. He says that there are far worse myths out there that ruin men’s chances of getting a date when they make the first phonecall, saying: “Look, leaving a voicemail message if women don’t answer the phone, not asking a woman out on a date during the first call, men thinking they need to ask women out in the first place, and calling or texting women some more when they don’t pick up the phone? These are all myths that prevent men from getting dates when they’re trying to call women.” He concludes: “90% of the male population asks for a phone number after they start talking to a woman they’re interested in. And that same 90% of the male population believes one or several of these myths around calling women and texting women, but all these myths in reality prevent success in the dating game. These are the reasons why there needs to be a men’s guide to calling women and texting women as fast as humanly possible!” Carlos Xuma is currently finishing his Calling Women And Texting Women Program. He hopes this first men’s guide to calling and texting will put an end to the myths and that it will help make it easy for single guys to get a date when they call the women they like. The release date of the Program is set for Sunday July 4th, 2010. Carlos is the author of The Simple Inner Game System and a trusted authority on dating advice for men. During the last 2 years, he has helped 603 men approach 10.854 women, get 2.713 phone numbers, and go on 904 dates. If not more. He has been recognized by the Seduction Syndicate (an association for dating coaches) and several other dating experts across the globe for giving top notch quality dating advice for men from a unique perspective. Carlos Xuma has spoken in front of hundreds of single men on such topics as why leaving a message on a woman’s voicemail is a bad idea, how to make sure women pick up the phone every single time one calls, and the top 10 things not to do when approaching women. To find out more about the Calling Women And Texting Women Program, the Three Day Rule, when to call women and how to ask them out on a date over the phone, go to: For media inquiries and research, please visit |
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