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The research company did not investigate the causes of a lack of results, but top dating coach for men Carlos Xuma claims he has the answer. He points out that most men don’t know how to meet women online and quit online dating because of three reasons: “First off, men who write their online dating profiles describing that they’re funny, sweet, intellectual, adventurous, ambitious, and so on and so forth don’t know how to meet women online. They only think they do. Why? Because when women see that summary of a dozen or so good qualities on a man’s profile they simply conclude that he’s not being honest. Think about it: ambitious people for example don’t say they’re ambitious, they talk for ages and ages about their goals in life. They show and don’t tell. So those summaries need to go. They never survive a woman’s BS detector. Men need to start showing their good qualities on their profiles by telling a story. Summaries don’t work, ever.” Carlos Xuma continues: “Secondly, if men want to know how to meet women online, then they need to get themselves a fake female profile to see what happens. One of the major insights they’ll gain from that is that dozens of men message women every single day, but almost no one takes the time to write a message subject! The result: a guy’s message gets lost in a sea of other messages that also don’t have a message subject. His message won’t even get seen. Not good!” He goes on to say: “So guys need to start writing an email subject so they get a woman’s attention, get their message read, and get some responses from the ladies. And oh: saying Hi or that a woman’s cute in a subject doesn’t work either. Make sure it’s unique. If a woman for example loves movies, greet her with ‘Hello movie junkie’ as a message subject. That will surely get her attention. It’s stuff like this that gives guys success with women online. This is how to meet women online the easy way.” Carlos ends with: “Thirdly and finally, if single guys want to know how to meet women online successfully, then lesson one is being persistent is the key. It’s tragic when one thinks about it: most men send a woman a message, and if she doesn’t respond? They never try to contact her again. Meanwhile, all women are looking for men who have a genuine interest in them. This means that it’s to a guy’s advantage to send a message, and if a woman doesn’t respond? To send another message after a week or so. They should be playful with it: tease her about how she’s playing hard to get. If men do this instead of never contacting a woman again, or instead of sending 10 angry follow up messages to her in 1 day, they will meet more women online. Guaranteed!” Carlos Xuma is the author of The Simple Inner Game System and a trusted authority on dating advice for men, including how to meet women online. During the last 2 years, he has helped at least 2,321 men approach 18,568 women, get 4,642 phone numbers, and go on 1,547 dates. If not more. Carlos has been recognized by the Seduction Syndicate (an association for dating instructors) and dating gurus such as Carlos Xuma, Nick Savoy and Adam Lyons for giving top notch quality dating advice for men about how to meet women online and many other topics. For more info about how to meet women online, go to /?p=1836 right away to check out Carlos Xuma´s newsletter with free online dating tips. How To Meet Women Online And Get Dates Every Time: Is It Even Possible? P.S. I have something for you that you might learn a lot from: the story of how we got started as Win With Women... which includes the problems I have had to overcome to be successful with women. Check out the story of how we got started here P.P.S. As you may know, a big part of meeting women online comes down to having a good dating profile that makes women curious about you. In other words, learning what to do with your profile is important for your online dating success. That's why I thought I'd share this awesome blog post with 17 online dating profile examples with you, so you can get started with writing a better profile. Enjoy! |
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